I'm a very "keep to myself" type of person, and a few months ago I shared what I was thinking about as a career with one of my friends, this was something that I rarely do, with anyone, even her and also something I hadn't discussed with anyone; we talked for about an hour. A few days ago she acted as though it never happened and she asked me what I was thinking of pursuing after high school, and kept saying "you don't have any idea", "you don't think about it, Melanie". I was HIGHLY offended by this, evidently she doesn't care and doesn't remember. She always wants me to share things with her, and she doesn't even remember what we talk about? I don't think I can overlook this? Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should handle this disappointment in our friendship???
2007-01-07 12:03:45 · 3 answers · asked by Jolly! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just bring up what you talked about that day and see if it rings a bell. Maybe she didn't think you were serious. I wouldn't scrap the friendship over this. See if she really forgot.
2007-01-07 12:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your friend is scatter-brained, so to speak. Probably she didn't mean any harm, but you expected more from her than she was capable of. Basically, you two are not very compatible.
This is not a crime, but this is not a satisfying friendship for you. You should probably start looking for other people to spend time with.
2007-01-07 20:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say "Hey my friend, you know me, right? That I like to keep things to myself? So why are you asking me things I just shared with you? DO you still want to be my friend because you are pissing me offffff"
2007-01-07 20:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely &..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋