she feels like i dont care about her, but i really do its just that things have been a little stressful in both of our lives and its we havent been treating each other the way we usually do. i am a junior in high school and i am want to know what you think i should do?
2007-01-07 12:01:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Besides all the stress find time for her at the end of the day if you just call and tell her you love her, or just call to see how shes doing do that that really makes a girl smile to know how you feel bout them. DO not let your stressful days come in between what you have special with her at all. Find time to include her some kinda way even if you send her a card or a rose just to say thinking about her let her know ur having a bad day when you call trust me being with the one you love the most will make that stress go away you are suppose to be there for one another thru thick and thin good days and bad. So find time for her some kinda way when ur with her all the stress or whatever was going on with you will all go away cause you will be in the arms of the one you love cherish her while you can cause we never know were we will be in the next second, hour or next day we may be here on earth or we may be in heaven or in our graves so you have to cherish every moment that you have with the ones you love make a way to fit them in no matter what you never know what the day holds or brings.
2007-01-07 12:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love doesn't even have to prove it's self. She's a young girl only thinking on herself and what to buy at the mall after school. This is what most young girls do. You enjoy your young years. Don't let this young girl complicate the best years of your life. You'll be married soon enough one day spending every waking moment on yahoo answers asking what to do with the wife. Just be a junior high school kid and have fun.
2007-01-07 13:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with open, honest communication. If you cannot talk to each other openly and honestly then there is nothing to be done.
If, on the other hand, you do have wide open lines of communication, you need to discuss why she feels that you do not love her as much anymore.
If you can both speak to each other respectfully and refrain from any negativity which will put the other person on the defensive (IE. Name calling, rude sarcasm, low blows, verbal abuse...) then you should be able to work through just about anything.
The key is respect - you both need to respect each other and each others feelings and be caring with each other as you talk.
Good luck to both of you!
2007-01-07 12:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same thing going on, sorta. I don't feel like he thinks about me as much as I do him. I know he cares about me, but he doesn't ever do some things I wish he would, like he used to. He used to flirt with me and act "interested" but now it is like it has become stale. Even when I try to "flirt" with him. He acts like I'm embarrassing him or getting in the way of football. It is a serious blow to my confidence, even though I know he loves me more than he used to. I'm not trying to tell you to jump her bones - then she will think its about sex.
Call or text her for no reason.
Drop little hints that you were thinking about her, or that you mention her around your buddies. "I was talking to Tom the other day and he brought up _____, I told him that you felt the same way he did." (but don't lie or make it obvious.)
If you don't have time to call her every night, call just to say goodnight.
ASK HER. She will tell you what she is missing and what her favorite part of your relationship was that she wants back.
2007-01-07 12:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by tryingmybest79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some flowers...plan a surprise date and have a conversation about the stress and let her know exactly how you feel about her.
I am a women and we have to feel loved in a relationship.
2007-01-07 12:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan something special for the 2 of you and tell her your feelings.Try to make it as special as you can then convey your feelings of being stressed out and ask her feelings as well.
2007-01-07 12:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by I DESERVE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell here you you have been stress..or my personal favorite all girl like me would love this:make a really romantic thing like canlde dinner or take her somewhere special..just sweep her off her feet show her you care and love her..GOOD LUCK
2007-01-07 12:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by carly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow..u just a junior in high scholl but u fight like u are married already...how sweet....kinda funny and silly, u need to learn more about girl...( not women yet )....lol
2007-01-07 12:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need help finding the girl a present just go to this site http://www.geocities.com/rulerofun . there are plenty of good cheap ideas to give your girl friend or your girlfriend.
2007-01-07 12:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever. this is made up. are you a cop trying to lure old, unhappy married men, that like sleeping with young boys?
2007-01-07 12:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋