Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

When i started a relationship with my husband i did not originally know he was married for 6 months.I thought i was in love with him and had just gone through a terrible divorce .He told me he was sorry for not telling me but that he was seperated from his wife and he loved me.I believed him but was suspicious i stuck around for three more months and i was going to leave but then i found out i was pregnant.He told his wife and she divorced him.We got married and i felt everything would be fine but there seems to be a shadow over our marriage.I dont feel like i can trust my husband.I also feel like something is missing emotionally.At this point we have been married almost three years and i hate my marriage? I cant stand the person my husband is which is manipulative and selfish person.He will not listen to my feelings and ignores me.You would think i was invisble he makes everything my fault!even his old marriage failing!

2007-01-07 12:40:25 · 14 answers · asked by Bella G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

internet and stuff but i'm starting to think he's too old for me? i know nothing bad is going to happen i just dont know what i should do and if i do how to end it and not hurt his feelings? please help me this would be much appreciated.

2007-01-07 12:40:05 · 3 answers · asked by HoTtIe_WiTh_a_BoDy 2 in Singles & Dating

He asked me out near the end of the last school year then during the summer we went out to dinner but then he didn't call at all. Once school starts again I find out he's been at a boot camp for this military school. After one of his good family friends gave me his e-mail I dropped a line and he called me about every week saying that he misses me, that I was the coolest friend ever and that he can't wait ot see me again. October, he came back and we saw each other at a party his family was having but it was unconfortable because all his family was there to see him since he had been away at this military school for 2 months.

Before X-mas break he called and said he'd see if he could ask his family if he could see me whilst he was home and he siad he'd call me later and been almost 2 weeks and he's already back at school and I have gotten no calls or e-mails.

Should I move on all toghether, move on but keep my hopes up, or keep waiting. And why does he say later and mean 2 weeks?

2007-01-07 12:39:37 · 16 answers · asked by learn_from_catch22 2 in Singles & Dating

what i am wondering is does someone always need to go counseling to past something like this? Will there always be that insecurity and jeasousy with the opposite sex?

2007-01-07 12:38:57 · 7 answers · asked by Lissa 1 in Singles & Dating

When you don't have any of your own?
How many would be acceptable...1? 2?

2007-01-07 12:38:54 · 4 answers · asked by AA 3 in Singles & Dating

My dad have a mistress in Venezuela and I just found out he already have 2 sons to her. he make quit supporting me in college because he said that he was not able to save money because his salary was not enough to cure his diabetes but I found out the truth. he send remittance to his 2nd family so my half brother can enter a law school while the other one can have a modeling career. my Mother and sisters where hurt that my dad cheated. My dad is a chef on an oil tanker that travels around the world and with that he mange to have a mistress. I felt insulted and because he stopped supporting me because he thinks that his Venezuelan sons are better than me.

2007-01-07 12:36:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-07 12:35:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he doesnt have any friends...he just introduced himself to me one day and told me right away that i was wat i said in the title

2007-01-07 12:34:47 · 37 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

shes 19 and it was her first time im 31 and i want to tell her that it was just sex and im not really in love with her but i dont want to break her heart

what do i say ?

2007-01-07 12:34:44 · 27 answers · asked by Benjie 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it have to do with popularity, body type, etc?

2007-01-07 12:34:28 · 8 answers · asked by Fire 2 in Friends

Last july, a friend of mine got in an 4 wheeling accident and died. Then in October another friend committed suicide. Two weeks later another friend had gotten crushed by a car and died. I went through about 2 months of hating life and not caring about anything. Little things also got to me a whole lot more and i talked to a friend of mine about ALL of this. I feel better now and i'm happy bout life. i recently found out this friend i talked to called me psycho emotional. i don't know why he called me that. i think it's because i did freak out at little things more and i just wanted to know if it was normal to get angry at small insignificant things while dealing with deaths especially suicide.

2007-01-07 12:34:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-07 12:33:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:32:42 · 12 answers · asked by Fire 2 in Friends

What reasons can a guy have for not wanting to give oral, especially if the woman is even shaved-and just right out of the shower?

2007-01-07 12:32:32 · 24 answers · asked by Little Jeannie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

a kid didn't believe me when i said that i actually am a nice person. he asked me to prove it, so i said i'd get him something (because i didn't know what else to say). but, due to my procrastination, i haven't gotten him anything and i have no idea what to get him. though, i've been talking to him, and i think i've proven my personality. i feel like i've made an obligation and would feel bad if i don't fulfill it, but i don't know what to do.

2007-01-07 12:32:24 · 18 answers · asked by alexie. 4 in Friends

If they don't quit and you can't get away, is it considered abusive to push their nads?

2007-01-07 12:32:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Dorothy Parker once said, "Boys don't make passes at girls who wear glasses." Is this true? Because I quite like my glasses and there's no way I'd ever get rid of them for a guy. I'm just curious.

2007-01-07 12:31:52 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by lily 2 in Singles & Dating

I am an East Indian male and I really adore women like most guys but I am 33 and have always seemed to be teased. I share an apartment at college with two beautiful white girls and they don't mind sometimes when I walk around naked but occasionally when I get a 3.5 inch erection, they wave their pinky finger at me. I have also seen white girls do this to be at a clothing optional beach to me. Are white women really into this and am I tiny white girls?

2007-01-07 12:31:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was divorced Aug 30 of last year (after 13 yrs). She cheated on me and lead me on with the we can work it out crap for many months after we seperated. I am involved in what seems to be a long term relationship after a few short term ones. I still have fears of being used again... being hurt again. I have a great girl friend that understands my pains and fears... BUT I have these feelings that things are not as good as they seem to be... that without reason I have problems putting my trust into her etc. Am I ready for a long term relation again? or should I lead the life of a hermit womanizer again for a while?

2007-01-07 12:31:01 · 15 answers · asked by Lar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

her parents are well off and very controlling, need to know how to cope with them and make sure that my fiance and i can get out there in the real world. without being called on to do things their way.

2007-01-07 12:30:44 · 13 answers · asked by nstanza91 1 in Weddings

I want a divorce. Been married a long time. I have finally decided to come clean and live my life being true to myself. As a lesbian. Do I tell my husband that, or do I just let him assume it is just all of our other problems? We will still be getting the divorce whether I tell him this or not. He knew when I met him that I had been in a few relationships with women and that at the time I considered myself bisexual. I have not had a single lesbian relationship in all of the time that I have been married, although I am in love with a woman, nothing has been done about it. HELP!

2007-01-07 12:30:28 · 10 answers · asked by Shawn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what part of your body do you like kissed?

I love the small of my back kissed.

2007-01-07 12:29:57 · 19 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:29:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really like this guy and it is the frist time i felt nervous around a guy nomaly im open and fun around boys but this guy make me feel really good inside and i cant say will u go out with me with out sweeting and looking like a fool help please thanks

2007-01-07 12:28:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:28:41 · 11 answers · asked by Gabrielle 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:28:05 · 23 answers · asked by St@r 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend lied to me about doing anything with this guy and she made out with him after me and the guy were kissing and i found out from a friend that they did.
i was in the bathroom while she was making out with him.
didnt come looking for me or anything.
sooo she lied to be about it the i confronted her and said i couldnt talk to her bc she lied to my face.
the thing that gets me is she saw us kissing and when i went back over to her she called me a hoe and made me feel like ****.
also one more thing she doesnt even know the kid and she just met him and he also was one of MY friends.
RETARDED
YESSSSS

2007-01-07 12:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by HEEELLLLPPPP 1 in Singles & Dating

It’s just most of the time I am fine. The only times I am not are on those rare occasions were I think I will always be single.

2007-01-07 12:27:20 · 13 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Singles & Dating

Stephen's my friend.My best friend,Jenny's also his best female friend.We share same friends, we go out almost every day.We celebrate ur birthdays and holidays together.Theproblem's that I started to like him.He's so nice,caring and sweet but extremely shy when it comes to girls.He was never in a relationship and he told Jenny he wants to be in one but he doesn't know how 'cause he thinks he doesn't have the skills.His best friend's very handsome and self contious and girls like him.He never had problems with approaching and he always teases Stephen in way to make people laugh.We think that's made him even more insecure but we don't know what to do to help him. He's connected to IM almost always but he doesn't want to open anyone 'cause he's too passive to do anything first. But when I open him he'll chat gladly.We share the same taste in music,people.When we go out, he's always staring at me and smiling and I start to feel weird.He's so shy.What'd I do to make him notice me as a girl?

2007-01-07 12:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating