If they don't quit and you can't get away, is it considered abusive to push their nads?
2007-01-07 12:32:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Anytime somebody is being tickled in a non-consensual manor, anything is fair for the ticklee to get free.
Non-consensual tickling shows blatant disrespect for the feelings and concerns of the person being tickled and it is for self-fulfillment only for the tickler. If the tickler gets hurt in the process, so be it.
I am a big fan of consensual tickling. I love to engage in long playful, tickling encounters with ladies who enjoy tickling and being tickled.
As long as the tickling is consensual, with trust, respect and a desire to keep it fun and safe for both parties - everything is great.
One other benefit from consensual tickling... When both parties are having fun, their brains are producing and flooding their bodies with endorphins which promote healing and fight stress!
2007-01-08 12:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually the "tickler" would be considered the abuser...defending yourself by pushing on his nads is just self-defense! There was case here where a child filed abuse charges against his parents because of the tickling...In the videos the child was seen screaming in laughter, pleading for them to stop...the parents were charged and the child was removed from the home.
2007-01-08 00:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by knrsits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have personal space and it was greatly violated! Sounds like someone took something cute and funny WAY TO FAR. Your body has a natural defense called fight or flight. Since you were unable to flee---you fought instead. If the tickler doens't get that notion then they are a darn fool. PS..tickling someone to the point that force needs to used to make them cease---that person who does the act of "tickling" is the abusive one.
2007-01-07 20:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dena F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I told them to quit, no matter how long they'd been doing it, and they chose not to then they are accepting that I will likely take painful action (toward them) to get them to stop.
It's not funny when the person doesn't desire it...and I've been known to bite, scratch, and go for the genitals if they thought they were going to be smart and make me keep taking it. It's a form of abuse and shows the person has a power issue...
2007-01-07 20:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not abusive to push their hands away. Its a normal response especially if you have asked them to stop and they haven't. Screaming and threats to call the police also work. You could always tell them you can't breathe right and they should stop.
2007-01-07 20:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by witchy91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's more abusive when a person is trapped and their reqquest to stop is ignored. It's a classic sign of an abuser. the person wants to dominate you. Get away, and no, it's not if there's no other ways to get them to stop.
2007-01-07 20:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Scream " OMG-----I'M GONNA PUKE " !!!!!! ,,,,,,,,, and then GAG like MAD . Explain that if you are touched ever again it will be reported to the proper authorities . Make sure there is a NO TOUCH RULE enforced for this person , a tickle can be fun , but this sounds like TORTURE !!!!! Sounds like this person has a major POWER STRUGGLE disorder .
2007-01-07 21:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by iambettyboop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if someone is tickleing me which i hate to be tickled, if they don't stop i will go crazy on them, i will do anything to get away, all is fair in the tickle game.
2007-01-07 20:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine if you where tied down helplessly, and your tickler softly swirled his fingers all around your defenseless armpits and sides... and then your nads...
2007-01-09 11:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime someone asks someone to stop doing something and they don't, it's abuse.
Asking someone to stop breathing does not count. It has to be something that is directly hurting the other person.
2007-01-07 20:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by ssc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋