Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I was devoted to my girlfriend. I asked her to marry me last year and she said yes... We're still in college... I loved her very much... and then she went to join a sorority.... and the rules say she can't speak to me while on line to join it. She did just that though I didn't like it.... but even though I disagreed... I supported her because that's what a good boyfriend does... she has to sneak aroudn to see me... did... but then it ghot less frequent... to the point where we see each other 5 minutes a week.... she would tell me she loved me... even when she asked for a break from me... she told me she loved me. 2 days later, thanksgiving day, she breaks up with me.... says I need to stay away... things get worse as I chase after her... she drifts away... I give her her space... she drifts away. No matter what I do... she drifts away. 2 months later i'm still fighting... I love her very much but everyone keeps telling me to move on... Is it wrong to love someone this much (more holdon

2007-01-07 12:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by X Anonymous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I am doing everything for this gal. Have education, resources, skills, and many assets. She {37} invites her 24 yr old loser ex boyfriend to move in, her place. He has no skills, uneducated, no assets of any kind, right out of jail for child support. She wonders why I pack and leave. WHAT WOULD YOU DO.

2007-01-07 12:26:03 · 5 answers · asked by Gary M 3 in Singles & Dating

Maybe I should date some older guys and test the waters so to speak. My parents are having a tough time with this but I told them to try it---they would like it.

2007-01-07 12:25:35 · 23 answers · asked by altamonte1999 2 in Singles & Dating

does it matter to women if a guy is circumcised or not? just wondering

2007-01-07 12:24:26 · 23 answers · asked by Joe 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy, he knows, i asked him if he likes me, he said he didn't know. (i'm 13 he's 16,) he's also my best friend. well me and a girlfriend made a deal. i het him to kiss me, and i get 20 dollars, i can't get him to, and i have to french this girl for 10 seconds while videotaping it, and the boy has to watch. well, i told the boy and asked him..... todays suday and on wednesday he has to decide. what do you think he'll do?

2007-01-07 12:24:04 · 4 answers · asked by jenmatchmaker2 1 in Singles & Dating

-only known her for a month
-would be first date
-both are 17 years old
-can drive
-group, double or single date.

any ideas?

2007-01-07 12:22:45 · 9 answers · asked by kidD 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm really shy and I can't ask guys out because Im afraid of being rejected. So I need YOUR help before I try! I want you to tell me if he likes me, and if so how do I ask him out. Ok here goes:

He's in my class for most subjects and whenever there's a partner activity he'll ask to be mine. We talk a lot and when we do he looks me in the eyes, we're always joking around and hes really funny. BUT he'll make fun of me a lot of the time and he never sits near me at lunch (it could be because of my friends, who he doesnt like)

I'm thinking about asking out for the semi-formal dance that's coming up, but should I? If so how?!?

2007-01-07 12:22:28 · 6 answers · asked by Claire D 1 in Singles & Dating

the human body is beautiful. what do you think are the best features?

2007-01-07 12:22:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Friends

I had it sucked.

2007-01-07 12:21:10 · 7 answers · asked by John D 1 in Singles & Dating

my aunt just found out ,she don't have much time left.She has Lukimia. Right now she can go places,she is not stuck to her bed.The dr. said she don't have much time.Could you please give me idears how to make her last days happy?

2007-01-07 12:20:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay I need to know if this has anything to do with how he feels about me....Does he have feelings for me?? I mean this has never happened in my life...I loved it ,I mean really everything was all about me :)

2007-01-07 12:19:53 · 19 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

I think it's fu**ing hilarious. I have a girl friend who's like 5 foot nothing, but oh man. She farts so loudly it's unfathomable. One time I was sleeping and she farted and it woke me up.

2007-01-07 12:19:28 · 33 answers · asked by Manuscript Replica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and Laura have decided when we get married we would like to do it on a beach in spring or summer and hence I am wondering what sort of clothes we should look at wearing and also for guests..nothing too formal nothing to casual though....can you please give some ideas??

thanks
Mitch

2007-01-07 12:19:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my son has got back with his ex, even though he knows the whole of his family are against it. she has been very violent towards him on several occasions, his own brother who he was very close to has fell out with him, im so worried, he is only 21, he dose everything for her and her child, what should i do? do i keep my mouth shut or tell him what i think? i dont want to risk losing him as we have been so close.

2007-01-07 12:18:08 · 53 answers · asked by j 1 in Family

My son is 2 years old now and my daughter is 4 months old today. I am not sure what to do about their dad we have been together for 4 years now and he is starting to have problems dealing with his stress. He is taking it out on me and the kids not physically though. I am worried that one day he might though because that is how he was treated when he was younger. I have tried talking to him about it and he says that yes he will try to stop and that was before christmas and he hasn't yet. I am worried if things get to far out of hand that Children's Services will take the kids from me. I am not about to loose my kids just because there dad is not able to control his stress. I have talked to my mom about it and she says to leave him because I have to think of the kids and me before I think of him. I have thought about leaving him but I love him alot . I am young mom to boot I am only 20 years old (he is older then me.) Any suggestions?

2007-01-07 12:17:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have been al over the world together, i was her first i helped pass her GED to goto college, i feel we have a solid foundation i just regret taking her for granted and she is having trouble believing me that i will be more affectiante

2007-01-07 12:17:24 · 3 answers · asked by James H 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this "nice" guy. But I cant seem to trust him because of guys cheating or being players or jerks in the my past. How can I trust this guy??

2007-01-07 12:17:07 · 3 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Friends

I have a crush & I dont know how to ask him out. Im 11 & he is 14. We're both in middle school. What should i do?

2007-01-07 12:16:42 · 26 answers · asked by Ladywoman 2 in Singles & Dating

I know you'll all think this be stupid to ask on yahoo or wtv & im not a open person really to ask other people soo ya ill ask here since no one knoe me here im only 15 and i got soo much problembs with my mom my dad dont live here he lives at philly soo ya get to the point my mom is allways acting like a ***** she's allways noisy ask soo much questions talks so0o much i hate her soo much, what can i do to like ignore it ? or do

2007-01-07 12:16:29 · 12 answers · asked by bankhead 1 in Family

I mean, come on, its ridiculous. I see on tv 11-16 year olds getting sexually active, I hear my friend from another school saying everyone's hooked up(middle), hell, I even see sex/ dating questions on Yahoo Answers involving 11-16 year olds.I see all my friends saying in their profile "Love you ______","Sex buddies,"love poems, and even "Single." (Why the hell would you call yourself single? I mean, it's like calling a toddler single...God I don't get it.)

Why do they start dating at such a young age when they always end up breaking up sooner or later? Arent people supposed to learn from others? I don't know about you people, but I think it's a great waste of a childhood.

2007-01-07 12:14:58 · 27 answers · asked by dan 2 in Singles & Dating

My freind Alice just proposed to her bf . They r now getting married , but i am wondering if the guys would like the ladies to propose or should the guys do it ?

Awnsers from guys and girls are accepted =D

2007-01-07 12:14:38 · 25 answers · asked by Lozza 1 in Weddings

what's the prettiest thing you've ever seen?

2007-01-07 12:13:49 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guy who could kick butt in a fight and defend himself / you?

2007-01-07 12:13:36 · 14 answers · asked by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 in Singles & Dating

3 months ago I asked my fiancee for time apart. things were moving fast, marriage was coming, and I thought I needed to think alone. She was very upset, but I insisted and didnt see her for a month. I realized how much I loved and I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me and she was dating someone else. She kept dating him for about 1 week. She eventually forgave me and we are engaged again. Recently I found out that she had sex with the other guy the night before she took me back. She says she wanted to experience him, but that she wanted to teach me a lesson and test my love. She also said wanted the guy was very sweet and she wanted to thank him. She told him she would go back to me, so the last night she admits they did it almost all night, three times. We have talked a lot, about how she was hurt, and I have expressed its ok to tell how she enjoyed the sex. we are back in love and my heart knows that, but I cannot stop my head from being jealous. advice?

2007-01-07 12:12:15 · 16 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Weddings

My friends tell me that hot weather makes girls very active sexually whereas men's sexual desire will be lower. And the vice versa in cold weather. Is it true??

2007-01-07 12:12:11 · 12 answers · asked by Brown Girl up for an Australian 2 in Singles & Dating

One day, I was in a playful mood and I invited my friend into me and my boyfriends bed. It's two months later and I found out that they have been having sex on the side. What do I do?

2007-01-07 12:12:09 · 25 answers · asked by tina M 1 in Singles & Dating

He does not have another girlfriend, no kids, not married...

We had a first date last week after he pursued me for a while.....now he just works and goes home (alone). Nothing bad happened on the date, in fact it went really well with great chemistry between us (based on his body language) so I dont get it. What gives?

2007-01-07 12:12:03 · 9 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend told me that she was offended by me leaving a few gifts out about three days after Xmas. She said that by leaving them out, instead of putting them away, meant that I did not have any use or care for them.

2007-01-07 12:10:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I’m a guy saving my first time for someone very special and waiting till marriage to lose my virginity. Is anything wrong with me wanting this? Especially in today’s society where people think it is normal to have sex before marriage. I am not saying nothing is wrong with it, it just isn’t me. And before you say it I am not religious. I just believe in being sensible. Also is it worth it in the end to wait till marriage?

2007-01-07 12:10:28 · 23 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Singles & Dating