I have a crush & I dont know how to ask him out. Im 11 & he is 14. We're both in middle school. What should i do?
2007-01-07 12:16:42 · 26 answers · asked by Ladywoman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too young to be dating... especially a 14 year old. Wait a couple of years. In the meantime, hang out with lots of people -- including boys as just friends.
2007-01-07 12:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Allan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty young to be dating... Also, would a 14 yr old want to date an 11 year old? If you must, then you can try asking if he wants to hang out
2007-01-07 20:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girlie... 11 and a crush!!!! just be good freinds and dont lose the fun of being a teen a couple of years still ahead.You will never be that again... and BOYS OR GIRLS at this age have still to mature and develop a PERSONALITY
2007-01-07 20:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to 'like' someone, even at your age. Having a "crush" is fine at your age. (I remember having 'crushes' on boys ever since 1st grade) Going out with him would be fine, as well, but you have to be careful. Since he is older, he may have other ideas on his mind and not just the normal hugging and holding hands stuff that you want. I know I sound condescending, but you're too young to be considering a serious relationship like that.
Tip for asking him out: Get to know him more. Try to talk to him before & after class more often. You could even offer to study with him or to go to afterschool clubs together or walk to classes together. Just try to be your funny, normal self around him and if he starts to like you (or if he already does like you), then you should have no problem asking him out.
2007-01-07 20:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sybelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to deal with this situation is to take a few minutes to be alone with him...and tell him just how you feel. If he feels the same way about you and he tells you..great! But you are not ever going to know unless one of you takes that first step. I know its hard but it seems to me that you are brave enough to take that first step and tell him. You will then also learn what he feels abou you..he might have noticed that you like him but maybe he is shy and cant figure out how to tell you. So take my advice and I guarrantee yoy that you will be glad you did!! GOOD LUCK!! and please let me know how it went..ok?> My number is: 786 245 8382 in case I can do something else for you!
Bye!!
Tony
2007-01-07 20:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by tonygfy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this is what you DON'T do.
1. Tell his friends to ask him out for you-his friends might think its funny and might tell him bad things about you
2. Tell YOUR friends to ask him out for you- He might think you are too chicken to ask yourself and he might not even look at you
This is what you MAY do.
1. Give him a note saying that he is your crush or that you like him- this way he has a while to think about it
2. Call him. Start a normal conversation. then maybe ask him if he has a girlfriend. -after you feel comfortable enough ask him out.
This is just my advice so it may not work. Wish you luck!!
2007-01-07 20:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no. 11 and 14 are light years apart. Focus on having fun with your friends. Don't be so serious yet. You have the rest of your life.
2007-01-07 20:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chula 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well this is a tough one because there is a big age difference here. to a 14 year old, dating an 11 year old is a big thing and he might not do it because he might get picked on by his friends.
2007-01-07 20:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing on here--you're too young!
Tell your parents you're getting on here--this is no place for an 11 year old--now scram and don't come back!
2007-01-07 20:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 11, you must be kidding stay at home and do some homework you are still a child, get involved with your family life, eget involved with a hobiie, take dance or something...... you are way too young for dating
2007-01-07 20:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋