Okay I need to know if this has anything to do with how he feels about me....Does he have feelings for me?? I mean this has never happened in my life...I loved it ,I mean really everything was all about me :)
2007-01-07 12:19:53 · 19 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hang on to that man! I would say that he definetly has feelings for you if he just wanted it to be all about you. Lucky woman!
2007-01-07 12:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Normal, no. You had better "savor" those moments of time, because you may not see it for a while to come. If this guy knew how to push all the right buttons, then "kudos" to him! If you stay with him, and he doesn't take you for granted, then you will know that it wasn't just an "opening act". On the other hand, if he slacks off, then you will know the truth. Don't expect the same treatment all of the time, so that you don't set yourself up for disappointment, nor put excess pressure on him. Nevertheless, give him the benefit of the doubt, and let him continue to prove himself.
By the way, it is a "two way street". You have to cause him to want to be that way with you by bringing out the best in him. Many women are takers, but don't want to give back. They love to be praised, and the center of attention. Well men also like acknowledgment, or "reward" , as a sign that they are appreciated. Many guys have the potential to be better than they are, but it also takes a special woman to know how to cause a man to feel that way about her. Too many people "drop the ball," after the first few dates! Hopefully you will have continued success!
2007-01-07 20:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it may have felt like it was "all about you" I am sure he was enjoying himself too. Anyway, this is absolutely normal, unless you are looking for someone that may be a bit more selfish. Chances are he is definately into you and really wants to express those feeling to you through intimacy. Be thankful and enjoy!
2007-01-07 20:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite normal. Doesn't necessarily mean anything about how he feels about you. Doesn't necessarily have feelings for you stronger than lust. Lots of men these days know how and will put in the effort to please a woman. It's a good investment. Once you're in deep, he can do as he pleases. However, it may indeed please him to love you always. You just don't know. Remember, for men sex and love aren't inextricably linked.
2007-01-07 20:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by servir tres frais 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing ANYthing else about your relationship/association it's pretty hard to say if it had anything to do with how he feels about you, or if that's just a mood he was in.
You enjoyed it...that's what matters, right?
2007-01-07 20:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** normal for me...that's just how my fiance is. just depends who you're with, i think. does it mean he really loves u? depends...you'd have to ask him. it can also mean that that's what turns HIM on. not to say my fiance isn't extremely loving and giving but he's said it himself...that's what really gets him going in bed...pleasing ME.
2007-01-07 20:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...I would say hell yes it has to do about he feels about you. Or he could just be a really giving lover. I dont know...but hang onto him!!
2007-01-07 20:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar experience...I'd say yes, because he was wanting to please YOU. But who knows, I'm still wondering about my passionate night and what he really thinks of me.
2007-01-07 20:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by pinksummersweeti87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok but maybe he wants to take turns...this is a key time for you..dont play games..dont do the control thing and for god sake dont assume anything....communicate and ask for what you want...i find it hot when a woman verbalizes what she feels...you go for it.
2007-01-07 20:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be you need to be more specific
either he is a generally caring type guy or is really into you
2007-01-07 20:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋