I need help with my home life?

Question

I know you'll all think this be stupid to ask on yahoo or wtv & im not a open person really to ask other people soo ya ill ask here since no one knoe me here im only 15 and i got soo much problembs with my mom my dad dont live here he lives at philly soo ya get to the point my mom is allways acting like a ***** she's allways noisy ask soo much questions talks so0o much i hate her soo much, what can i do to like ignore it ? or do

Answer 1

It's hard to give advice on your home life with out actually knowing both sides. You aren't going to like what I have to say..It's you and your Mom. She asks questions because she cares about you and wants to know what you're up to. She talks alot because she's lonely and wants to have a relationship with her son...she wants to communicate with you. You sound like you aren't getting your way so you're pouting. Try being a young adult and keeping the lines of communication open with your Mother. Understand where she's coming from and what she's up against insted of puting yourself first. If you continue to do this you will find the atmosphere relaxes and your Mother will lay off you a bit because she's trusting you more.

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear about your situation.

I think your mom is frustrated and she doesn't communicate well with you. Wait until she calms down and talk to her about your feeling. Surely, you don't mean that you hate your own mother?

All mothers will ask lots of question concerning her children. It may seem annoying to you; but you probably not answering her so she had to keep asking it? She cares and loves you that's why all the questions.

If you think you cannot live with her or cope with the situation, you may want to talk to your dad. He should be able to ease things for you a little bit.

Be kind to your mom; she's been through a lot. Divorce is not a happy thing.

Answer 3

what happened to the good ole days when kids respected their parents. My mom died when I was 14 and it breaks my heart to see little teen girls that think they now everything bad talking their moms and calling them bitches etc.. How can you treat the women that brought you into the world like that, the women that provides you with the essentials to live? I think you need to do a little more thinking and and alotta growing up, your mom is their to raise you, she is there to be in your business and you might as well get used to it cause you have 3 more years, I'm sure she just wants whats best for you.

Answer 4

at your age i was acting strange too, and i though that my parents were so weird and bad and that they didn't trust me or repsect me.... I also had depression for two years, mostly because of the crappy schoo i was going to. But most teenagers act crazy, I admit now that i was acting crazy and unreasonable. Perhpas the problem lies in you. for you to realize that you need time and more expereince, i suggest to just relax and take things easy and slow, just calm down and think what's important in life.... To me , my family is important , education and my work.. Try to see things from a different point of view, question yourself if you are reasonable and if you are correct, and if you could be better , hope this helps

Answer 5

Your mom loves you more than any person ever will. She is trying to raise a child alone, and that is scary as hell. give her a break, love her, respect her,(even if you don't sometimes like her) and mostly listen to her, even if you don't want to hear what she has to say, she is only trying to protect you and get you to adulthood. Good luck, I remember being your age, I didn't think my mom knew anything and that she was just trying to be mean to me because of some of her rules. But you know what? She was the smartest woman I have ever known.

Answer 6

Your Mom is probably asking you questions because she cares about you. I know you don't want her in your business, but believe me, she wouldn't be in your business if she didn't love you so much. It sounds like she has to be the mom and the dad and that is not easy. I know.

Please be kind to your Mother. I'm sure she's doing the best she can. Don't be so anxious to be an adult, because once you are life gets way more complex and trust me, you're gonna need your Momma. Take care!

Answer 7

Is your mom really such a witch or is she just concerned for you??? Mom's are supposed to be nosy, they need to know what's going on in your life to keep you safe. If you need to vent, then talk to your dad or a close friend or even a counselor at school, that's what they are there for. If she really is as bad you say, then a counselor can help you w/ the situation. Keep your spirits up!!

Answer 8

Man, to sit there and say you hate your mom? Wow that is so harsh, and call her a *****? Maybe you should look into a mirror at yourself and ask what the real problem is. Maybe you should put yourself in your mom's shoes, and think about how it is for her instead of thinking about yourself.

Answer 9

just try to understand where she is coming from. she is nosy because she loves you and wants to know what is happening in your life. If you dont have a male figure around then try to explain to her how you feel about her being your space. Just tell her you want to talk and explain to her in the best way possible.

Answer 10

consider this. maybe she lost a thing dear to her and is scared to lose another. fear is a very strong emotion. maybe you could put yourself in her shoes. you don't have your father how would you feel if you lost your mom too? i would cut her some slack. i know that it can be overbearing at times but in the end it may be worthwhile