One day, I was in a playful mood and I invited my friend into me and my boyfriends bed. It's two months later and I found out that they have been having sex on the side. What do I do?
2007-01-07 12:12:09 · 25 answers · asked by tina M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump both of them...they deserve each other and you deserve far better.
2007-01-07 12:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find someone new. why is it when someone cheats on someone they always look for advice ....like other than the obvious answers. and in ur case u started it. u let a man have sex wit cha friend n now u complain bout him doin something with out cha. oh hell no. u made ya bed (literally) so u lay in it (alone)
2007-01-07 20:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, if its been going on for two months obviously it is both a physical and emotional relationship they are having BEHIND ur back do u really think they are caring loving partner and friend????. If it was just physical cheating maybe you could forgive him but obviously he likes her plus relationships are based on trust and you obviously can not trust him, move on! dump your backstabbing friend too.
2007-01-07 20:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a rotting vegetable. Once a cheater always a cheater and consider yourself lucky to be rid of the scum sucking pig.
2007-01-07 20:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...... re-think your life-style, re-evaluate what you really want in life and then realize, he hasn't cheated bacause you welcomed into your life. You set a standard by doing that.
That's one of things that may sound fun at first, but now look where it led you.
2007-01-07 20:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, you started it, now deal with it or just move on and find somone else. There are too many fish in the sea.
2007-01-07 20:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepieaww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... Don't put up with him!
Dump his sorry @**!
You deserve someone who cares about you!
Someone who really loves you!
And tell that other girl that he's cheating on her, too.
Go do what you have to, girl!
2007-01-07 20:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything! you started it... what??? you thought that you could start, and stop the sex whenever YOU wanted? nope. you gave your guy the green light to "do it" to another chick IN YOUR FACE.. now you are trying to stop it? not gunna happen...sorry, you might as well join them again in the bed, and hope that they dont kick you out...
2007-01-07 20:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kind of your fault by giving it the ok before. You will have to start over with the guy.
2007-01-07 20:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by griffinpilot1965 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u know about him and your friend sleeping together than dump him or if u really love him give him a 2nd chance.
2007-01-07 20:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by ryshekia_1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋