Stephen's my friend.My best friend,Jenny's also his best female friend.We share same friends, we go out almost every day.We celebrate ur birthdays and holidays together.Theproblem's that I started to like him.He's so nice,caring and sweet but extremely shy when it comes to girls.He was never in a relationship and he told Jenny he wants to be in one but he doesn't know how 'cause he thinks he doesn't have the skills.His best friend's very handsome and self contious and girls like him.He never had problems with approaching and he always teases Stephen in way to make people laugh.We think that's made him even more insecure but we don't know what to do to help him. He's connected to IM almost always but he doesn't want to open anyone 'cause he's too passive to do anything first. But when I open him he'll chat gladly.We share the same taste in music,people.When we go out, he's always staring at me and smiling and I start to feel weird.He's so shy.What'd I do to make him notice me as a girl?
2007-01-07 12:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if hes staring at you and you can see that hes thinking of you in more than justa friendly way I'd do this: Have it so its just you and him going out, like a date that he doesn't know about. And when he stares at you, stare back but be gentle about the way you stare. If its too harsh he'll get scared and stop but if its to soft he'll brush it right off. Look back at him, stare into his eyes and smile. Wink if you have to. And if you see a reaction that you like then simply and calmly tell him how you feel and take it from there. Hope this helps.
2007-01-07 12:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar, he notices you as a girl. There's only one thing to do with a shy guy. Grab him and kiss him. Trust me. He's probably crazy about you, but so scared of rejection he won't even try.
I'm a sucker for shy guys & let too many sweet ones get away because I was afraid to make the move. Dont be afraid. You will regret it if you don't give it a shot.
2007-01-07 20:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bold.
Initiate. this is 2007, not 1956.
Ask him to go somewhere and help you do something, you know like a stuck zipper or something. I was cursed with shyness for yrs. you can help. Skin to win. Protection required, but nothing ventured nothing gained, Make a man out of him. Take it all off. good Luck
2007-01-07 20:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with him alone and call him and talk to him about things he likes. Start doing those things together and just let him know that you like him more than just a friend when you feel he can handle it. Just have to be patient with him.
2007-01-07 20:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him aside. Tell him you like him. More than a friend. Tell him that you don't want to loose his friendship, but you're beginning to have feelings beyond mere friendship. Plant one on him.
2007-01-07 20:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Trillium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot really make him. It's something he has to see for himself. Because he's so shy it might take a little longer. In this case, all good things come to those who wait.
2007-01-07 20:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out to a movie, and sometime during the movie, plant a kiss on him.
2007-01-07 20:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the moves! Don't wait for him to take the first step.
2007-01-07 20:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Guybehindbars! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know
2007-01-07 20:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Denise M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋