She says she needs space and We are in a Long distance relationship and see each other on breaks. PLEASE HELP.

Question

My Gf and I have been dating for about two years on and off. She is a year older then me and when she went off to college we decided to break up, however it was a real heartache she just needed to figure out herself in college. After being young and neive I called begging for her back during the first month of that year. It did not budge and I had a broken heart. She constantly told me she wanted to be friends so we talked and hooked up everytime we got together and acted like a couple. We started to officially be bf gf again that summer and this year when I went off to college we decided to break up again. However we still talked everyday and treated each other like a bf gf. Now after winter break she tells me she wants to take sometime off to focus on her school work and handle a underage drinking citation without her parents knowing..She tells me she is stressed out and needs space to get her business straight. We still both love and care for each other....

She needs to do real well this semester in order to get into her major, and we do not see each other again until March anyways. We both still care for each other, and would this time apart possibly make us appreciate each other even more? Once again we have done this before.

Answer 1

As i am agirl i say that is a excuse to break up with you i know i did it to my boyfriend when i didnt have the balls just to end things,i also think she is out with other men that is why the sudden change about the two of you.I know you may love her but its probably best to let her go.Who knows she could come home on break and give you gonnaria

Answer 2

YES YES YES
cuz i'v done this before
ur gonna miss her
she'll miss u
u guyz will b closer
trust me it'll b realli realli gud...............like a deep love...fall in love...yeh....