I finally told my bf that i liked his best friend and he got mad and asked if he should be worried and I told him that i didnt know and i told him that after they left from my house that his best friend liked me and i had to tell him all the secrets that i was keeping from him but he told me that he could not tell me some secrets that was about me. And he said that he was sorry that he coudnt tell me but i told him that he wasn't and i hope that we could work it out.
2007-01-07 11:55:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The fact that you had to tell him your secret tells me that you two are not compatible with each other.
If you really like his best friend to the point that you do not know if it will be a problem or not, you do not really love your boyfriend.
Furthermore, it was a very hurtful action you took by telling him this painful secret. Now you have him reeling and insecure because he knows that you do not love him as much as he loves you.
There is a time and place to tell you secrets. A secret like that should have only been told when you are sitting him down and telling him that you do not feel that you can continue with the bf/gf relationship you have with him. Then you could tell him that you have feelings for his best friend and it is not fair to him if you can't feel completely attached to him only.
After that, you leave both of them alone unless your intention is to stick the proverbial dagger in your bf's heart.
I hope that you can salvage a meaningful relationship without hurting the ones who love you.
2007-01-10 17:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's good to be honest. How old are you anyway? If you're young (high school) then pursue the best friend. You need to meet different guys to decide what you like.
2007-01-07 11:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him and then get a responce if he cant deal with your responce hes not a good bf....and if he cant ask his best friend out if you have to.
2007-01-07 12:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you and your bf grow up, you will both look back on this and laugh. you and him will probably be engaged or married to some one else, but you will laugh.
2007-01-07 12:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know
2007-01-07 12:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are TROUBLED, girl.
2007-01-07 11:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋