is she planning a breakup? Thanks!
2007-01-07 11:46:41 · 11 answers · asked by alsd12345678 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i accidently found it, no snooping
i cant ask her because she will think that i was snooping
2007-01-07 11:59:14 · update #1
Well, if you snooped in her wallet to find this out, I'd say you deserve to be dumped.
2007-01-07 11:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me as if she is a bit insecure. If she is focusing on your weak points, she obviously might have a long list of her own shortcomings that she is struggling with. She may even be afraid of losing you and she feels that the only way to keep you is to remind you of what you lack. She might feel that this will, in some sort of way, bring your self-esteem down to her level so that you will not consider leaving her because she wants you to feel that you are "no better" than she is. BUT ON THE OTHER HAND, she might be stating that even though your are not perfect (no one on this earth is) she absolutely loves the person that you are and she wants to remind herself of her reasons for loving you.
2007-01-07 12:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by mybabygyrl73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh, sounds like a 'pros' and 'cons' list.
Bad news, you have x amount of flaws, but on the good side I love you.
By the way, shame on you for snooping.
maybe you should make up your own list, if nothing else, it might make you feel better.
2007-01-07 11:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a positive thing...why don't you address this with her and see what's going on? If you cannot communicate, ya don't have much of a relationship.
2007-01-07 11:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either that or she has a really bad memory.
Take it out and see if she notices, if she doesn't, maybe she won't remember she wanted to break up.
2007-01-07 11:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably jealous of you
just beat her to the punch break up with her first
and tell her why
2007-01-07 11:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Makena O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....maybe that is something you need to be asking her seein as how she is the one with the list. hopefully you get good news....great if you want it that way. take care and good luck.
2007-01-07 11:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...but that is not normal. Are you sure you want to stay with someone that reminds herself what she doesn't like about you? I would dump her.
2007-01-07 11:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by aliecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she show u this? or were u looking in her wallet? ...you really shouldnt be looking at her things without permission
2007-01-07 11:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by marie73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know mabe u should make alist of hers and put it in ur wallet
2007-01-07 11:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋