Ok, I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 17. I have a feeling she's lying about her sexual past. I mean, she's told me that the most she has ever done is give 1 guy a handjob 1 time. But when we started going out, she was quick to give me basically anything but sex. (I probably could have done that too if I wanted to). And she is the one that wants to do these things, i'm not asking her to.
So it's a little weird to go from her saying she hasn't really done much before, to being quick to get in my pants.
How do I know what she has done in the past? Because I have a feeling she's not telling me something.
2007-01-07 11:53:34 · 11 answers · asked by BMD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
umm.. it is kind of important to know if my girlfriend was a slut and isn't telling me. I think it would be my business to know how many guys she's been with. It's not comforting to know she's been around the block and no telling what kind of disease she could have.
2007-01-07 12:05:57 · update #1
I have talked to her.. she still denies 'doing things' with other guys. But she's quick to do things with me and it's almost like she has done it a lot before. Unless she's just a natural or something. But if she hasn't realy done anything before, then why so quick to do things with me?
2007-01-07 12:08:34 · update #2
i think it's important for you to know.
And i think if she's lying, then she isn't being a good girlfriend.
But i also think you should respect her privacy and not be TOO nosy.
just don't accuse her of anything if you dont have proof.
2007-01-08 17:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that a big deal to you? She is still the girl she was when you met her and it happened before you guys were together. She didn't even have to tell you about it. At least she was being honest with you. EDIT: Ok, so she did something risky in the middle of the day during school. So, maybe it's not something that you ever expected she would have done. People make mistakes. If she's a good girl, chances are she owns up to the fact that it was a dumb thing to do. As long as she wasn't out there every day getting it on with people, whatever. We've all done stupid things. If you love her, don't let something she did in the past come between you. Don't ask about someone's past unless you're ready to hear it.
2016-05-23 05:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus fuggin christ, why do you care to know, as it is none of your damned business! Grow up and stop being nosy because you are starting to act like a girl. When you're 23, you'll look back and realize what an idiot you were to be concerning yourself with this crap.
2007-01-07 11:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by shlangemann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is just that PAST!!! If you can't see past whatever your gf may have done in hers than you need to move on. A persons private life is just that,PRIVATE. DO you like this girl or not that is what is important!!!
2007-01-07 13:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u care about the past when u live in present?forget about that and try to make ur relation work not breake it with things like this,if she finds out what are ur interests she will live u.......good luck............i say u should let the things how they are
2007-01-07 12:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that age you're not getting married.. take what you can get and move on.. that's what life is all about.
don;t knock her up or you'll be in deep shiite for at least 18 years.
get hand jobs, blow jobs, anal.. whatever she's open for and get some experience and move on...
2007-01-07 12:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by canadians_are_imbeciles1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabie she is fast cuz she is so in love with u she will give u the world cuz if she did have sexual realationship with other guys she will not be able to keep it from u
2007-01-07 12:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by cutegirl794613 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about this, Why ask here?
2007-01-07 12:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her blow jobs, hand jobs, french kisses, and you enjoy feeling her
why ***** and moan
2007-01-07 12:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie about yours and flare your nostrills. LOLZ
2007-01-07 12:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by caseybaby101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋