hey i have been having a crush on this guy colin who only likes blonde preppy cheerleaders !!!!
should i change myself so tht he will like me or should i move on ???
2007-01-07 11:49:23 · 30 answers · asked by brandicharbo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dunno, are you willing to change yourself to please every cute guy you like? What if the next one likes intellectual redheads? Gonna get glasses and go red for him? Next guy likes broody brunettes so you do the coffeeshop/poetry thing for him?
Girl please, be yourself. If they don't like you as you are, they're not gonna like you pretending to be someone else either and they're certainly not worth your time. There will be plenty of guys who are not so shallow as to only like one specific, crowd approved type.
2007-01-07 11:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be best if you just moved on actually ,,,, Never present your self as something you aren't ,,,, It always leads to trouble and eventually the truth will wind up coming out and it will wind up getting you a possible enemy ,,,, If a person can't take you for what and who you are then you shouldn't try to change yourself just to fit this persons tastes ,,,, Always be yourself ,,,, People will either accept you or they won't ,,,, Trouble is never hard to find and it will come back to you double fold if you go looking for it ,,,, All you can do is present yourself the way you are and if this guy doesn't take up on it then there's nothing you can do about it ,,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond so go fishing ,,,, Try to find some one that is fun and exciting to be with ,,,,, That's what it's all about any way ,,,, You'd be smart if you tried to get as broad a range of acquaintances as you can anyway ,,,, Don't be so ready to tie yourself down to just one person ,,,, Find out what and who's out there ,,,, Play the field so to speak ,,,, Don't be so ready to date just one guy ,,,, Try to date as many as you can ,,,, Doing this will help you make a wiser decision in choosing some one when you are ready to settle down and have a more serious or involved relationship ,,,, Who knows ,,,, Tying yourself down with just one person too early just might cause you to miss meeting Mr Right later on ,,,, You never know where he's at or when you might meet him ,,,, And don't be so ready to settle down with the first possible Mr. Right either ,,,, Try to get a list of them ,,,, and then choose from that ,,,, So where this guy is concerned ,,,, It would be best for you to just move on ,,,, It will be is loss not yours ,,,, You should always keep an open mind about all the different people you meet ,,,, Evidently he's not doing this so he's limiting his chances of meeting Miss Right ,,,, There's allot more to a person than just outward or physical appearences ,,,, You should keep that in mind too ,,,, Good luck with what ever you do ,,,, Hope you give my suggestion a little thought ,,,, I don't think you'll be sorry ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-01-07 12:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not change yourself for anyone but you. If you do, he will only like you for your false self. I wouldn't say move on. Guys sometimes like to stray from their normal dating pattern. I dated a guy back in high school who only dated cheerleaders, and I'm the drama geek. We had a great time together. He's now engaged to a cheerleader... but it still doesn't change the fact that the time we spent was something special.
and don't be insulted by him if he isn't interested, some guys are shallow pricks.
2007-01-07 11:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by manthapoo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on he only likes blond preppy cheer leaders,
changing your self will not be the real you.'
You can color your hair and go through a lot of changes, and he may not still not like you.
2007-01-07 11:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO dotn change yourself
its better to be hated for hoo you are then liked for hoo you definelty are NOT, so dont change anything abou tyour hair, personality or body because it will only hurt you and wont make him like you any more.
the problem isnt with you, its with him for
being so shallow to like ONLY certain types of girls. you are beautiful the way you are and if HE cant see that than what an ***..
so my advice to you is... MOVE ON
find someone who is worth your time cus he isnt
2007-01-07 11:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by kallissa b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ever change yourself so someone will like you. When that happens basically the whole relationship becomes a lie because you are not being yourself. Go find someone who likes you for who you are. You will be much happier.
2007-01-07 11:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a guy doesnt like yu because your not the blonde ditz of a cheerleader he likes than drop him
2007-01-07 11:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by turtleMcP 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on! If thats the only type of girlhe goes for, its easy to see what type he is: shallow! He's not worth wanting, so don't bother with his silly taste. Find a guy who likes you for who you are!!!
2007-01-07 11:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by ciara_e2007 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
U should never change yourself just 2 impress a guy U have 2 be yourself because your relationship would never work Just be yourself & if he doesn't like u then forget him because he missed out
2007-01-07 11:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by lost in translation. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
move on...any guy you have to (or think you have to) change for is DEFINITELY not worth your time. I'm going to take a stab here that you're still in high school...trust me, there will be MANY more boys you'll have a crush on.
2007-01-07 11:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should move on...I met one guy and he totally wanted me to change for him...he wanted me to go bleached blonde (I am a natural redhead) and he wanted me to wear super tight clothes. I don't change for anyone. That is a control issue.
2007-01-07 11:53:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋