Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

My boyfriend and I have been on and off. A few days ago he asked me to marry him, but he still treats me badly. We got in an argument like an hour ago because today we were supposed to spend time together and he wanted to invite his brother to come along, I got mad and we started screaming things escalated and I shoved his head, then he hit me on my arms a couple times and shoved me. This was in my car, then he ordered me to pull over and he like 3 miles away from town. I called him and when Itold him it was me he hung up on me. I called back and left a message. anyway we always fight then he says he loves me appologizes and we get back together.
Is he just playing with me or is it love with disagreements?

2007-01-07 15:42:51 · 12 answers · asked by Brown eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 15:42:50 · 9 answers · asked by poptart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

any guesses ???

2007-01-07 15:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend didn't call me for a week. He didn't awnser his phone when I called. I called using his friends phone and he picked up. He said he couldn't talk because he was with family but he would call me back later. He never did. Then the next day online he finnaly sent me a message. He said he was sorry for not talking to me but he just needed time to think. I would have understood if he had just told me that instead of ignoring me. He said he still loves me and still wants to be with me, but he still needs time to think. He didn't want to talk to me about it either. I said I'd talk to him when we see each other on Tuesday. So we haven't talked today or yesterday. Could this be a sign that it's over? Is he just saying that to protect my feelings?

2007-01-07 15:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My story is really complicated... I feel in love with this woman which i only known for 2 months. Things worked out really good, she even would wait for me until i finish with school ( i'm 27 and so is she, but she's working ). After spending the night together her ex fiancee called my cellphone, which he found out after he got the phone company to get her record ( they been seperated for 7 months ) and he called me 15 times but i never picked up. She's still attached to him, like engagement ring, a condo they bought together and other stuff. I didn't care about her past and i told her and she told him to leave me out. And now he wants her back and she decided she won't pick either one and she needs time to get her heads cleared up. She told me to get her a few months to clear up the mess, but i know she wants to be together with me and she's scared of her ex because he's a psycho. I don't know what to do? It's so hard to be occupied and not think about it because i miss her so much.

2007-01-07 15:41:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom want to adopt my kids and they want her to be there mommy to and me but i want what my kids want i love them i just don't want them to be my sisters and my mom said that when they are older she will let me adopt them back i said hell no and now my kids have been crying for 4 dayz now and they scream they hate me and stuff like that should i let my mom adopt them cause i want what they want but they are kids they don't know what they want yet should i give them to her

2007-01-07 15:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to marry a woman I like her she is pretty but the problem is that she is divorced and I don’t like a “Divorced” since she has been explored or revealed however she is may pretty. I want a brand-new woman.

2007-01-07 15:39:11 · 13 answers · asked by Talib J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-07 15:38:47 · 6 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Friends

what should I do?

2007-01-07 15:38:38 · 21 answers · asked by ActionJackson411 1 in Singles & Dating

My lover is very nice to me. But there are few things that I like to change in his behaviour. He is basically very soft spoken. But when he is angry its the reverse. He shouts at me for all small things and we land up with a fight. How can I change this behaviour of him without hurting him.

I want him to change... Please suggest.....

2007-01-07 15:38:33 · 3 answers · asked by kirthi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 15:37:21 · 10 answers · asked by gigglez 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend passed away today. He's 17. Does anyone know any good funeral songs. He was a boy, and im his friend (girl) for a long time. thnks

2007-01-07 15:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What the heck is she trying to say and what answer does she want? Let's say she is not happy in her marriage. She wants a certain response with certain explanation. Help!!!

2007-01-07 15:37:15 · 9 answers · asked by HumanWhisperer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 25, and i've always been intrigued by a guy that i went to high school with. i haven't actually seen him for nearly 10 years because he graduated and left the school, but we were sort of friends when we were at the same school. i dated a friend of his. i also saw him a couple of years later in a slightly embarassing situation but hopefully he has forgotten about it now.

we both use myspace and are on each other's friends list. should i just bluntly tell him that i've had a crush on him and see what he says? or should i be more subtle about it?

the other option that i have is to go and see his band play a gig in the city he lives in, which is where i'm from (and which isn't that far from me). i've been in touch with a mutual friend who is also in the band with him, and could arrange it that way...

i don't want to miss the chance at dating him because he's really special, and we're both single right now. how should i approach this situation?

2007-01-07 15:36:25 · 14 answers · asked by karuna 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to fall in love at a young age? And what if the other person doesn't know; does that make it just a crush or can it still be called love?

2007-01-07 15:36:09 · 12 answers · asked by GeekGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend in California and I live in Hawaii. I only get to see him a week out of the month. I am having surgery next tuesday that will cause for me not to have any sexual intercourse for 2 months. So I REALLY REALLY want to see my b/f this weekend before my surgury. The money is not the issue but he has 2 kids from a previous marriage. He has taken his kids every weekend for 9 years with no hassle except for this past month he hasn't been dependable due to flying out on buisness in Atlanta and my visiting a weekend last month.
How or what should he say or do to have me there this weekend? Any ideas? We are desperate for HELP?!?!?!?! PLEASE!!!!

2007-01-07 15:36:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or was he truly interested? He showed a lot of interest for several months, there was such a connection that would take hours to tell it all. She was involved with someone and he knew it. They both fell for each other.

2007-01-07 15:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you're interested in a girl, do you call her frequently at first or do you hardly call at all? Trying to read a new guy...thanks! :)

2007-01-07 15:34:30 · 8 answers · asked by *ladybug* 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. It's weird that he didnt block me on aim since it seems that he wants me totally out of his life. When he broke up with me he was very firm begging me to let him go and stuff. After the break up, the only convo we had was a week ago on aim and he was very cold too. After that I felt akward since both of us are on aim for hours and dont talk to each other. So I let myself disappear by being invisible. Then i noticed that everytime my ex signed in he only stayed for like 5 minutes and then signed off. This is weird b/c when i was visible both of us would be online for hours. I dont know why he does this now. Is it possible that he is looking for me?but he never talks to me when he can see me online. i just wonder why he is doing this sign-on-sign-off trick. Btw, the reason of the break up is he doesnt want a relationship right now, which i believe him. he really has trouble balancing everything in his life.He's a senior in college and i'm his 1st gf

2007-01-07 15:34:08 · 7 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

and where would I get one?

2007-01-07 15:32:14 · 19 answers · asked by traderb550 3 in Weddings

2007-01-07 15:32:06 · 14 answers · asked by katey g 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a great and supportive husband. We have been together for 12 year- but lived apart for 5 years due to jobs. He is the only man I had ever been intimate with. Then in 2005- I met someone - who was married and was trying to get to know me. I would say that I am not interested but he would not take 'no' for an answer. Sadly, I gave in and we started to have an affair. (My first one and his third). A few months later his wife found out after reading one of my e-mail where I stated I loved him. She threated to divorce him, which she eventually did. In the mean time, he started becoming very abusive towards me- beating, forcing himself on me, and trying his luck with other girls (infront of me). I though it was because he blamed me for what was happening to his marriage- but he said no. Now we are apart, due to jobs, and I am trying to rebuild my life. My hubby does not know- but suspects and is trying to be supportive. However, I can not competely let go from the other man. Why?

2007-01-07 15:31:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know a guy he is really nice but till he is kinda creepy...he is short fat and has achne all over his face very bad...has a bad dress sense...his achne is so bad it bleeds..his belly hangs over his pants and his belly is bigger then his well u know....he never has anything interesting to listen to or say as he rarely talks.....

YET HE IS TRUST WORTHY DOES ANYTHING I WANT HIM TO RELIABLE ETC ALL THE THING THE BAD BOYS ARENT

however girls can we really be with someone we are not attracted to...thing is his guy is going on 30 has only had 4 sexual relastionships and they left him after 2months none lasted more then that he is really ugly i took him meet some friends and they didnt know he was with me and started laughiing i could c it on their face then there was the look of shock when i said this is such and such

i mean this guy is really sad i dont have sex with him i mean i gave him a hand job other day and he said oh thank you so much like thats the best he had in yrs HELP

2007-01-07 15:31:49 · 24 answers · asked by MissTee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so theres this guy and hes told me before that he wasn't interested in me at all, but today i get one of those chain emails saying that he'd "hit it". now i'm more confused than ever and i'm considering the extremes like giving up on guys completely and just become a nun or something. i need help! please!

2007-01-07 15:30:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i am 18. shes 15. we go to the same school. Its a new school for me so i dont know many people. Shes really nice and we really kick it off. A lot of her friends think im too old and only want to **** around wit her, but every friend that has met me and hungout with me likes me now. the big thing is her family won't give me a chance - her brother is in my grade so i bet you can guess how he feels. I really care, and like this girl a lot. What should i do?

2007-01-07 15:30:05 · 11 answers · asked by iknowAll 1 in Singles & Dating

After months out of each other lives my ex comes back to show me her baby and talk and crap. And all the while talking to her I got this weird feeling in the pit of my stomach and she started looking at me weird and then I got a weird feeling in my chest. I mean so much has happened and stuff. What does this feeling mean? And why does she always come back into my life when I start to forget about her? I mean shes happy with the father of her baby and stuff I just dont get why shes back now. Am I reading too much into this?

2007-01-07 15:29:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to any former smokers or simply intelligent ppl...is it walkin on the edge to tell your gf to stop smokin if you aren't really gonna?

I mean, of course it is a disgustin habit, but I'm tired of feeling manipulated...

and just for shits and giggles, I have my own income and he's still livin at home...

2007-01-07 15:29:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does she like me or no ????PLEASE HELP !!!???

i like this girl and i think she likes me but she already has a boyfriend when i told her how i felt she said awwww.. im sorri and i feel so bad and she felt guilty and . now i dont even want 2 talk 2 her anymore. U THINK I DON'T PAY NO ATTENTIONN THEN SHE'LL COME BACK 2 ME. does dis me she likes me or just realized what she did when she started 2 catch feelings 4 me ??? what should i do ???


PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!

2007-01-07 15:29:15 · 3 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 36 and im livig with my parents. Dont judge me though, You'd probably be in the ground if you been through the crap I've been through.. I know life is tough and things are not always great but damn man, God is so distant and I've been dealing with this horrible depression for years. by the way pills dont help.

2007-01-07 15:28:50 · 13 answers · asked by Carl Ray 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi. I was wondering if i should ask my older sister if she was abused by our father because i think i was.I was very young at the time and didn,t know any better. I have dreams of my sister standing at my bedroom door whilst my father was molesting me. I have had the same dream for about 16 years. I also want to ask if i was abused.
My sister has told my mother in law and a few of her friends that she was but not me as i think she was protecting me. But i want her to know that she doesn,t have to protect me anymore as i am 28 and she is 30. I have been diagnosed as having depression because of my past and maybe i think it will make me feel better knowing that i wasn,t the only one. I just want to know the truth. She has hidden something for years and i finally want to know the truth. Should i ask her and how should i ask her. Any help will be great. Thank you.

2007-01-07 15:26:51 · 27 answers · asked by sweetbells79 1 in Family