Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

Two of us share a new 4 bedroom 2 story house in Las Vegas. We have been roommates for about 3 months now. In the begining we both agreed not to have any more roommates so there wouldn't be any problems since we both can handle the rent.About a month ago, I come home from work and he informs me that this girl he met would be staying for a few days. Well she has never left. Its been about 5 weeks now. My roommate works about 60 hrs a week and myself just 8 hrs a day 5 days a week. Needless to say I was home alone most of the time. He has the master bedroom which is about 3 times the size of my bedroom, we both split the $ 1,400 a month rent $ 700/ $700.Well my problem and complaint is that I went from almost 100% privacy to about 10%. I can't walk naked anymore nor play my music loud because she might be sleeping. Shouldn't I only be paying 1/3 of the rent and utilities at the most, even though this condition is not what we had agreed on. I've lived by myself for the past 20 years.

2007-01-07 15:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by Kevin S 1 in Weddings

he broke up with me 2 months ago because i kept traveling around and now when i come back to sydney for a brake he rings me up everyday for the last we to tell me what he is doing that day why

2007-01-07 15:11:38 · 4 answers · asked by katey g 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my gf have been dating for 6 months now, but her ex bf keeps sending her messeges saying her wants to be friends and talk, and she hates his a lot, she wants me to call him up and fuss him out and crap, now im any guy ever made a pass at her and i saw it i would kick his a-s-s but i feel wiered calling a guy i have never met and thretaning him, but i dont want my gf to think that im not man enough to stand up for her being mine, now the guy is now great fighter by no means, he is an inch taller than me and he is fat, i dont consider him a challenge, but i guess you could say im to muchof a wimp to do it, and im not letting her go ask one of my guy friends to do it for me, i need help, how can i get some "BALLS" or what should i do????

2007-01-07 15:11:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he hardly sleeps wqith me he rather stay up on computer and when i wake in the middle of the nighthe cloes all windows. i found so many movies in his desk top . it makes me sick. he says not to make a big deal ,, but it hurts.

2007-01-07 15:11:17 · 27 answers · asked by jennifer m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend that i met 4 yrs ago when i moved to this town,here's alittle history on our fiendship,well basically after knowing her for a year she slept with a guy i was seeing,she always denied it but he told me the truth,and also just from her conversation i know that she will do something like that to a friend,well after that our friendship has been strained,i truly like her alot,but her lifestyle is sick,she sleep around and drinks obsessively,i feel that you are judged by the company you keep, do you?ok i am here today to ask how to deal with this: she has moved to atl 4 months ago and shes been calling me alot to talk about some crazy guy,well when were on the phone and he's there sitting next to hr(as she say) she says things to imply that i am some fluzy or dru nk like her,i usually just laff it off,what she does is try to paint this bad picture of me,its like whatever i say she tries to top it,why?i will be moving to her town in a few months she wants me to move near her

2007-01-07 15:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by knowingisbeautiful 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How did it start and what was the ultimate outcome?

2007-01-07 15:10:25 · 2 answers · asked by Leroy 5 in Singles & Dating

My friends (male and female) and I are having a compitition and I am wondering what I would be considered on a scale of 1-10. I think that I wouldn't score more than a 5 or 6. We are curious what the masses think.

2007-01-07 15:09:19 · 17 answers · asked by River 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I eat out quite a bit. We both work what I would consider to be normal business hours, but neither one of us ever feels like cooking when we get home. We like to go out and eat (sometimes cheap and sometimes not so cheap) and we will have an alcoholic drink or two every now and then. The problem is that it seems as if we could be putting the money that we eat out with to better use.

Any other married couples having problems with spending money eating out?

2007-01-07 15:08:29 · 17 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been together for five months and I don't know how to tell him I love him. Any suggestions?

2007-01-07 15:08:27 · 9 answers · asked by kate51283 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a girl, and many times my friends will complain that guys are too picky or shouldn't date a girl just because of what she looks like. Then they'll turn right around and say they would never date a guy due to his acne or because he is shorter than they are, doesn't have a killer body, or doesn't drive the right car.
If my friends don't want to be judged by their looks, isn't it hypocritical for them to do the same thing?

2007-01-07 15:06:46 · 8 answers · asked by Madame 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna know what i need to do to connect with guys..im tired of always hanging out with girls..no offense to them..i love em and all but i wannt a dude! what do i do?

2007-01-07 15:06:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was thinking April, May, June, or July. What do you think?

2007-01-07 15:06:20 · 32 answers · asked by Gemini Girl 4 in Weddings

ok,its not reli a date,its more of a reunion..lolits dis guy i like he like me back.we usta go to skool together but i transferred,and im sadd by that but ill b wit him all day.im a shy girl.and i dont know what to say or even what to do..what should i wear???

2007-01-07 15:05:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am i the only one that is 16 and never been kissed. not even had many bf's. im not a loser and im not ugly. whats the deal. am i the only one that is scared to death of that first kiss and how to but in the same way ready to lip lock with the first guy that walks up. im tired of being lonely and wondering what relationships are like. **** ne one that says i must be dog ugly or a ***** or a whore. pls tell me im not the only one. does anybody else feel somewhat similiar to these, anybody?

2007-01-07 15:05:22 · 1 answers · asked by christina.gayle 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked my best friend to ask my crush -who possibly likes me back- out!! Is it the right thing to do? Should I tell her to decline the plan?

2007-01-07 15:04:57 · 17 answers · asked by hmw95 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 15:04:52 · 10 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

OK.], so last semester I went to a new school (senior year).There is this guy, who is really shy, but somehow he thinks that I like him or something.He sends me expensive presents all the time(like gold or diamonds).He said, wrote etc. that he loves me like billion times.But hello, I don't have time for him right now. And I don't like him as a guy, he is a good friend though.
Now he says that he is offended cause I don't wanna go to the same university with him. He doesn't listen to me that this university doesn't even work for me!!!
He finds me between my classes, everywhere. Somehow he figured out my e-mail and cellphone number.and he didn't ask any of my friends for that.
He is really annoying!!!wHAT SHALL i DO???

2007-01-07 15:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 15:04:39 · 5 answers · asked by Confused Person 1 in Singles & Dating

ok this is a serious question i have this problem where when it comes down to it im just no manlly enough, like if a guy calls me out for a fight i will usually back down, i dont know why , maybe im scared to lose, but the thing is is to this day, im 21, i have yet to have the crap kicked out of me, and when i have been forced to to fight or step up to the plate i have always been able to take care of myself no matter how big or small the task was, i have been taking martial arts lessions for years and everything, but for some reason i just cant get the nerve up i think its cause im scared to lose, idk, can anyone give me any advice on how to "man" up??

2007-01-07 15:03:50 · 8 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Singles & Dating

I am nine years old and in the fourth grade. A lot of my friends are saying that they are 'dating' and 'going out with'...and I say "we are in the fourth grade for pete's sakes and shouldn't be dating till we are in college." my friends make fun of me....but i really do think that dating in the fourth grade is EWWWW and kind of gross. Am I really the "wierd one" here?
what can i say to them when they make fun of me?

2007-01-07 15:03:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is playing hard to get really the key? do i not always call him back and act like i dont care sometimes, but then other times show a lot of interest

2007-01-07 15:03:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He dumped me at the end of Nov. There were other issues such as his father passing away and him wanting to move back to Sydney. He's still grieving his Father's death. He dumped me as he wasn't coping and he felt I was demanding and needy when he didn't have anymore to give. I have some photos on his computer I'd like a copy of. Plus I'd like to see how he's doing and hopefully be friends in the future. He said he needs space and felt that I was smothering him (he went from hot to cold after his Father died). When should I call to ask if I can get a copy of these photos and see how he's doing? I realise the relationship is over but I do want to be friends in the future. Is it even silly to think that we can be friends in the future?

2007-01-07 15:03:10 · 3 answers · asked by Diana K 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend off and on for awhile, and recently he's been asking alot of questions about how I feel about him and our relationship. He constantly asks if I'm happy, and if I'm not smiling all the time he says I'm completely bored. If I tell him I'm not he doesn't believe me. I constantly get, "What's wrong? Are you having any fun at all? What can I do to make you happy?". I keep telling him that it would make me happy if he stopped constantly questioning me. He says he doesn't know what else to do.

Her recently told me that his first "one true love" cheated on him and he's been having flashbacks, but he says that's not what this is about. I should point out that this is a grown man and not a teenager. What can I do to help him relax?

2007-01-07 15:02:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 15:01:44 · 10 answers · asked by mia v. 2 in Family

i have a friend who is my age (17) and her family is real strict. If your bad, for a little kid, parents slap your hand, theres nothing wrong with that. if you're little, then spanking the butt is ok, but shes 17. if she does anything wrong, she has to lie on her stomach on her dads lap and her dad just spanks her. i really think this is wrong, dont you?

2007-01-07 15:01:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anika 2 in Friends

i am just at a loss for words, this is such a tough decision, there are these two girls at school who both like me and i cant decide which one i should pick, the blue or the green M&M?

p.s. both girls are twins

2007-01-07 15:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by neff8684 5 in Singles & Dating

I sleep with an old guy for his money should I marry him get divorce and take alll his money?I think it is an great idea.

2007-01-07 15:01:06 · 21 answers · asked by Ladylove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i see it as my self part of me is elated by him and the other part of me is not when he is critical

2007-01-07 15:01:04 · 4 answers · asked by smillas 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am already aware of Myspace and hoverspot and yahoo personals

2007-01-07 15:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by Lynn 2 in Friends

2007-01-07 15:00:35 · 16 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating