i have a friend that i met 4 yrs ago when i moved to this town,here's alittle history on our fiendship,well basically after knowing her for a year she slept with a guy i was seeing,she always denied it but he told me the truth,and also just from her conversation i know that she will do something like that to a friend,well after that our friendship has been strained,i truly like her alot,but her lifestyle is sick,she sleep around and drinks obsessively,i feel that you are judged by the company you keep, do you?ok i am here today to ask how to deal with this: she has moved to atl 4 months ago and shes been calling me alot to talk about some crazy guy,well when were on the phone and he's there sitting next to hr(as she say) she says things to imply that i am some fluzy or dru nk like her,i usually just laff it off,what she does is try to paint this bad picture of me,its like whatever i say she tries to top it,why?i will be moving to her town in a few months she wants me to move near her
2007-01-07 15:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by knowingisbeautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You do NOT need this person, her shots or her behavior. She is sucking you dry. Do NOT move anywhere near her, RUN
2007-01-07 15:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by fancyname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say that if you really and truly want to keep this friendship going and you arent really comfortable with this relationship then you should confront her about it. There is no point in keeping a friendship going where one side doesnt like the other. I think you should just tell her what you really feel and maybe by talking to her you'll figure out why she is like that. No person is born a drunken slut (no offense). There is outside factors as to why she acts that way. If she is offended by what you tell her then your relationship with her will not last much longer. Being the good person you are (right? ;) ) tell her she would still have a friend in you if she is willing to change her ways. if she wants to continue ya'll frienship she will change. her change will be slow but at least she's trying.
2007-01-07 15:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Cat-san 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you stand up to him, the better. I verbally degraded a bully once so bad that he actually cried. We became good friends afterward, oddly enough. I've also had to suck it up and punch a guy square in the mouth. The trick here is that you have to get a real mean-on, land the punch and keep swinging. Don't let up. The instinct to not upset the herd will kick in after about 30 seconds and someone will break it up. The point is, the bully will go after someone easier to pick on and leave you alone.
2016-05-23 07:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by MaryJane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a flake.
You're not like her at all, and she uses you.
She can always find another person to dawg on all the time.
Take a break from the charm princess. Find some friends that respect you for a change.
no friend of mine ever slept with my girlfriend. That spells death to a relationship.
2007-01-07 15:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lion J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to move to ATL move to the opposite side of town from this girl she is sick, and she does not have your best interest at heart . She is not your friend. Loose the dead weight you can do better.
2007-01-07 15:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep going back for more abuse?
She's not your friend. When she calls, tell her that you don't want to be with her any more.
And DON'T move to be near her!
2007-01-07 16:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really wanna be friends with a person like that go to this town and find sum new friends i wouldnt bother wasting my time on her
2007-01-07 15:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by crash templar cowboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is acting like that she is not your friend just walk away from it. no one deserves to be put down.
2007-01-07 15:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋