OK.], so last semester I went to a new school (senior year).There is this guy, who is really shy, but somehow he thinks that I like him or something.He sends me expensive presents all the time(like gold or diamonds).He said, wrote etc. that he loves me like billion times.But hello, I don't have time for him right now. And I don't like him as a guy, he is a good friend though.
Now he says that he is offended cause I don't wanna go to the same university with him. He doesn't listen to me that this university doesn't even work for me!!!
He finds me between my classes, everywhere. Somehow he figured out my e-mail and cellphone number.and he didn't ask any of my friends for that.
He is really annoying!!!wHAT SHALL i DO???
2007-01-07 15:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are NOT hanging out, so I can't dump him
2007-01-07 15:08:50 · update #1
Give back all the stuff he gave you and tell him that his persistence is really annoying. Then there's always the restraining order
2007-01-07 15:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by aspecialfred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him you are flattered by the attention, but that it is not wanted.
If you do not like him why accept the gifts? You cannot have it both ways. Tell him you like him only as a friend and decline the gifts, etc.. I would make it clear that invading your privacy by tracking down your email and cell number is not acceptable. If you wanted him to have them you would have provided them yourself.
Set boundaries and stick to them in both directions.
All the best in life.
2007-01-07 15:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by o_s_c_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That "boyfriend" does not sound too shy to me! Border-line genious too, figuring out your e-mail and cellphone number? Are you sure he is not "a keeper" or is it the gold and diamonds you know you need to return, that is really annoying?
2007-01-07 15:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the thought that counts, so if he is not respecting your wishes, he doesn't really like you. Don't accept any of his gifts because if you accept them, it would mean that you like him. Ignore him like he isn't even there. Or you can sit him down, have a discussion with him, and explain why you don't want him. It's simple and easy.
2007-01-07 15:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what I think is really funny about this is that most of the time us girls are complaining no guy will treat us like this and your sending him away figures bad timing right, ofcourse its always when your not looking, annoying thats love baby good luck Kim
2007-01-07 15:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your email. Change your cell phone number. Take different routes between classes so he can't catch you. If all else fails, go talk to your high school counselor and let him/her handle it.
2007-01-07 15:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his stuff back and tell him to leave you alone
2007-01-07 15:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him back the stuff and dump him. hes WAY TOO CLINGY FOR YOUR LIKING IT SEEMS
2007-01-07 15:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his *** and i'll take care of you. LOL but only if you are hot
2007-01-07 15:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get aggressive and tell him to back off.. he should get the picture..
2007-01-07 15:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Riah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋