My ex bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. It's weird that he didnt block me on aim since it seems that he wants me totally out of his life. When he broke up with me he was very firm begging me to let him go and stuff. After the break up, the only convo we had was a week ago on aim and he was very cold too. After that I felt akward since both of us are on aim for hours and dont talk to each other. So I let myself disappear by being invisible. Then i noticed that everytime my ex signed in he only stayed for like 5 minutes and then signed off. This is weird b/c when i was visible both of us would be online for hours. I dont know why he does this now. Is it possible that he is looking for me?but he never talks to me when he can see me online. i just wonder why he is doing this sign-on-sign-off trick. Btw, the reason of the break up is he doesnt want a relationship right now, which i believe him. he really has trouble balancing everything in his life.He's a senior in college and i'm his 1st gf
2007-01-07 15:34:08 · 7 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did you get a trophy for being his first girlfriend?
he doesnt want you, but he for sure wants to know if you moving on. Send him a message in a week that you have realized you two dont work, and that you are dating a guy that is named pennsylvania. I told my ex-gf this, and she never talked to me again
2007-01-07 15:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by neff8684 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope he just wants to bang other chicks...He is probably making sure your not out with any otehr guys. Put a message up on aim saying out with a guy or something like that and see if he responds if he doesn't remove him from your list and just ignore him . Why should you wait for someone whos just gonna treat you bad and stuff.
2007-01-07 23:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is just playing games with you..he wants his cake and to eat it too. he wants to make you jealous, but he doesn't want a relationship with you either...you need to move on, and let him realize that you are better than that..if you are his first g/f and he is a senior in college, than obviously he has issues with himself, or girls that you dont wanna be a part of..im tellin you move and dont worry about this one,...i swear
2007-01-07 23:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly wanted to be with you, nothing would stop him. He would go out of his way to try and talk to you or be with you.
Everything else is you just wishful thinking.
If you love something, set it free; if it comes back to you then it was meant to be...
2007-01-07 23:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u even question him playing games with u he is not worth your time. u never know you might just past up the love of your life cause u were stuck on him sorry
2007-01-07 23:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...he isn't playing games with you. Move on and stop trying to understand his antics...whatever he may or may not be doing!
2007-01-07 23:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by kimawah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has the thought ever come to you that maybe he's makin himself invisible too??
2007-01-07 23:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋