Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

what do i do to tell him that it hurts me, how do i say it??

2007-01-06 12:17:31 · 9 answers · asked by Brookey Hoffman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 12:16:47 · 16 answers · asked by Shelli to the max 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 12:16:41 · 7 answers · asked by Baljinnyam D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My neighbor is so nice, and she just lost her husband to lung cancer that spread into his brain. He passed away the day after Christmas. At the wake, she told me she wanted me to visit her, and I told her I'd be glad to! I love spending time with her and her family. Everyone I know in her family is just so sweet, I feel like they are my family, because my family on my dad's side is mean to me.
Anyways, when I go visit her, what topics should I stick to while conversing with her?

Thanks!

God Bless Everyone!<3

God bless everyone =]

2007-01-06 12:16:11 · 5 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Family

2007-01-06 12:15:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I end up "getting reacquainted" with a friend of the family nearly every time I'm back in town. I don't want to break her heart, but I like hooking back up with her. Can anyone relate?

2007-01-06 12:15:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm 13 years old. I have more friends that are girls than friends that are boys. Some of my friends that are boys call me a so-called "pimp". haha, I don't even know what that EXACTLY means, but enough 'bout that.

Everyday I talk to girls, so I get along pretty well with them. I greet them, tell them jokes, and do other stuff with them. But then I heard all the girls in my class talk about me in class, saying that I'm so nice and funny and getting me as their bf and all that other stuff. They all like me now, but what will happen if they all start telling me they like me? Like to be their bf? I'm not panicking or anything, just curious of what I should do if one of them asks me the question.

2007-01-06 12:14:40 · 9 answers · asked by King Kee 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated on me 2 years ago. Now I catch him watching porn, nearly every day. He completely lies about it and then gets mad at me. He manipulates my children - for example, my 14 year old daughter is told by him that she will fail and be a failure in life unless she changes her opinions to match his and changes her personality. (I think she is a mature, reposible wonderful girl.) He pushed my 12 year old son, and he fell on the floor. My son said it did hurt and he is scared of him, but my husband got mad at me when I questioned him about it and said I completely don't understnad, and he only tried to move him out of the way. He easily loses his temper, but has never hit anyone. He lies all the time too. He can be sweet one minute, then talks like a bully the next. My daughter is afraid too. Both kids have have walked out of their rooms to see nasty images on TV he was watching. He says "I was just flipping through the channels." Then he gets mad at me for accusing

2007-01-06 12:14:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been working for a local pharmacy chain for the last 4 yrs and I've worked since I was 16 I'm now 31. For the last year I've been dating a great guy, but between the 2 of us we have 6 boys fulltime. Over the last week or so we've been discussing me quitting my job and becoming a fulltime homemaker. I'm confused on this matter. I have health benefits, make ok money, and sometimes I look at work as being my only outlet away from the chaos at home. But in the same manner I would love to sit at home and not have to worry about the stresses of working and be able to care for my home a little better, but is the streeses from the children gonna be too much? I'm really torn on this decision, please help?

2007-01-06 12:14:36 · 12 answers · asked by invisible.wings 1 in Marriage & Divorce

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_hysteria

2007-01-06 12:14:13 · 2 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Singles & Dating

I really like my boyfriend, andi want to kiss him. He kisses me, but i get really nervous to make the move. I know he likes it when i kiss him, he told me. And yes i am ready to kiss.

2007-01-06 12:13:50 · 1 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 12:13:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 12:12:43 · 8 answers · asked by mar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so angry at her for her ignorance. She caught her boyfriend cheating, so she left him and moved all of her belongings home. Well. she was misreable, so she moved back in with her cheating, drunk boyfriend and left her clothes behind. I am so angry at her. She turned 19 today. She has no job, no car, no money, not hardly able to support herself and I need her to grow up a little. Should I burn her clothes or bag them up and toss them in the basement? I feel like she uses my goodness and then craps all over me when her boyfriend comes around.

2007-01-06 12:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

i like my cousin dylan and i told my other cousin alley who is one of my best friends and she says it wrong to like him but me and him are the same age and we like the same things and we used to be inseperable but now we only see each other once a year but i still like him. i think he like me too but do yall think its wrong to like your cousin? and can yall help me out on how to tell him i like him?

2007-01-06 12:12:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 9 years, with hubby for 10. We have 2 children, 8 year old daughter and 6 year old son. Told son had autism at the age of 2. Hubby became and still is completely distant to son. Very good to daughter. Son has improved greatly, talks and goes to kindergarten with an aide. Hubby ignores and won't take son out in public. I thought it was a stage hubby was going through, it has been 4 years. I now resent hubby and not sure what to do. Hubby refuses counseling. Daughter is beginning to ask why daddy doesn't like son. Very depressing and sad. Any ideas?? There are days when I want to walk, but not sure if that is good for children. How much time do I give him? I am 33 and he is 49, but he is acting like he is 12.

2007-01-06 12:12:07 · 7 answers · asked by maryc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK my best friend has a problem. There is this guy who she went out with for almost 2 months but they've know each other for 3 years. They would fight all the time and he would say rude things to her and all of her friends. He broke up with her because her parents wouldnt let her go anywhere with him because they knew that this guy is the kind that with TRY things. But he's had 2 girlfriends in the 2 months they've been broke up. While he had another girlfriend he still gave her a hug and a kiss everyday and told her he loved her. They still talk on the phone every night and somedays he says he only likes her as a friend and other days he says he still loves her. She still likes him alot but think he needs to make up his mind. what should she tell him?

2007-01-06 12:11:21 · 16 answers · asked by Frannie 2 in Singles & Dating

I need serious help!!!he seems to laugh at whatever I do,but he's really quiet!I have no clue if he likes me!

2007-01-06 12:11:13 · 9 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 12:10:59 · 3 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6 in Singles & Dating

She moved out of state with her mother to live and work

2007-01-06 12:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by meldy75803 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this question before:
Is it okay for me to be annoyed?
I just called my guy to talk and possibly hang out, and literally 30 secs into the conversation, I asked him what he was doing. He said 'watching football' and I said jokingly, 'Do you want me to call you back?' and he goes, 'Yeah'.

Is it okay for me to be annoyed?

Now, I want to know whether or not I should call him now that the game is over? Should I call him or have him call me in case he's in some post-game mood?

2007-01-06 12:09:23 · 11 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some advice on what to do in my relationship, My children and I live with my boyfriend for the last 3 years, his kids come over every weekend. I notice he knit picks on my kids and is on them like white on rice, when his kids come around they get away with murder for example his daughter literaly slammed my sons fingures in the door and almost broke them, I told him what happen and his daughter got no punishment and he said my son must have done something to provoc her and he punished my kid. When I try and defend my child the answer I get is well I dont see my kids all the time your kids live here, both his daughter and my son are 12 years old but his daughter is 150lbs and about 5'3 and my son is 75lbs and under 5'0ft he is petite, there is a big size diffrence and he says my son should be a man. Are his tactics right or am I crazy?? Should I leave him because Im tired of it and dont know what to do.

2007-01-06 12:08:53 · 37 answers · asked by onehotmama 1 in Singles & Dating

i've found my partner messaging girls on site called bebo.com., saying beautiful xx on there pictures and signing himself up on dating sites like passion.com. for decrete relationship. talking to a girl about what he wants to do to her etc. now when i confronted him about it he says he was just seeing if he's still got it ! i said well you've got me , is that not enough , its definetly some sort of cheating, what should i say or do ?

2007-01-06 12:08:21 · 4 answers · asked by natasha_essence 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 12:07:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-06 12:07:42 · 3 answers · asked by andy 1 in Friends

Now that I've got your attention...

My boyfrind and I are going miniature golfing tomorrow, but we've never kissed before. I really want to kiss him tomorrow.

1) How can I tell if he wants to kiss me
2) How can I make a move on him (***NOTE***--- We're on a miniature golf course)

2007-01-06 12:06:55 · 31 answers · asked by make love not war 3 in Singles & Dating

ok. c i like this guy, and i met him a year ago. He goes 2 another school, and i only c him once a week. So, we almost started dating, and idk what happened, but he started dating a girl that goes 2 his school(which i hereis VERY stuck up) Well, usually we're flirtin and all over each other, and a couple of weeks ago, on a church trip, in the van we started holdin hands. But, hes still gotta gf. idk if i should go 4 hin or not. it kinda feels wrong, but i still luv him...what should i do?

2007-01-06 12:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by Hoooly Joooooly 1 in Singles & Dating

my father is a plastic surgeon and i live in an area that is very superficial... so i have grown up around a looks obsessed culture.

However, I am objectively unattractive. I know this from a number of data sources. I am a research assistant and inserted my face in some other researchers' studies of facial attractiveness (some are published in j ev bio). The researchers didn't intend for me to see how i rated, but I analyzed the data and I was significantly below the mean (1 or 2 standard deviations) of 25 photos. (the study asked a lot more than hot or not... but that was the question i looked at)

Anyway, I have been rejected by so many guys over the last 10 years.... some guys dont even "finish" when im with them and ive told girls this who think that is insane and never heard of such a thing. They just say they are tired after realizing that it's not going to work.

Anyway, my dad's partner did some work on me a few yrs ago but now wont do more.... i cant take this.

2007-01-06 12:05:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over three months ago I choose to run-away from home. It started when my father had to return to Iraq, again. leaving my siblings and me with my mom. She started stressign a lot and eventually started getting paranoid. I have a, handsome and attractive, Brazilian guy friend who walked me home when it was raining... she drove up when she saw us at the door. She went off! Started to tell me I can not be with this boy. The thing that was so stupid was he had been my friend for 7years! She knew him well. She started to freak out about everything. Then later she guarded me for coming home a 15 mins. late from school. She thought I was doing drugs! The later, same boy and his friend, came over and brought me my homework I missed because I wasn't feeling well at school. She heard them at the door and told them to leave! earlier that day she was snooping around in my room and found my money jar was full a cash, which she knew I had ben saving up for a year. She accused me a being a whore and..

2007-01-06 12:03:27 · 17 answers · asked by Booboo doll 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious, In Massachusetts, can my child's mother get more child support if I get married? I mean would her (my wife's) income be added to what I am making and then be connected to give the child's mother more $$?

2007-01-06 12:03:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce