OK my best friend has a problem. There is this guy who she went out with for almost 2 months but they've know each other for 3 years. They would fight all the time and he would say rude things to her and all of her friends. He broke up with her because her parents wouldnt let her go anywhere with him because they knew that this guy is the kind that with TRY things. But he's had 2 girlfriends in the 2 months they've been broke up. While he had another girlfriend he still gave her a hug and a kiss everyday and told her he loved her. They still talk on the phone every night and somedays he says he only likes her as a friend and other days he says he still loves her. She still likes him alot but think he needs to make up his mind. what should she tell him?
2007-01-06 12:11:21 · 16 answers · asked by Frannie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it to. If he truly loves her he wouldn't be dating other girls and still hugging and kissing on her too.
2007-01-06 12:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like them do better apart then together. And sometimes it's like that. The restricts of a relationship can bring out the worst in people, especially young people. That just means that your friend might need to grow up some more before you try a relationship with anyone.
2007-01-06 20:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by octobereyecandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would comfront him about it, because a person doesn't know how you feel unless u tell them. If nothing changes then he playin games and it's time to move on show him what he is missing and don't let him back into your life after he sees u with someone elsa only let him back in if it's really in his heart other wise he is just going to continue doing the same thing.
2007-01-06 20:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be blunt. His indecisiveness sounds like he just wants to get in her pants. He's going through too many women in such a short time. She should tell him to be direct and just tell her want he wants. If she is not satisfied with the answer, she shouldn't be bothered with him. There is no excuse for his rudeness. She probably could find someone better.
2007-01-06 20:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by kayjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly could she pooibly like about him, forget him, if yo want to give her good adice tell her she needs to take her power back....get some self esteem. I don't know why she would put up with any of that...is she abused or something?
She needs to feel better about herself and then dumping him will not only be natural, buy easy...sounds like he's quite the loser. You sound like a good friend, good luck.
2007-01-06 20:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy doesn't even like himself, and he verbally abuses women. The guy needs to grow up. This girl needs to dump the guy for good, the parents are right, this guy will hurt her either mentally or physically.
2007-01-06 20:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by oneshoe50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell this guy to get a life. Dont be his victom. this is crazy knowing he has hurt women in the past and is rude to her and treats her like that. Let him go.
2007-01-06 20:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should just tell him there is a crossdressing party. You two Could dress him up real pretty and take lots of Pictures and then tell him there is no party. Then threaten to show them to everyone. He now is under your control and no more worries.
2007-01-06 20:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a looser. It sounds like he is looking for any girl that he can sweet talk into their panties. She should tell him to get lost, then she should find someone that is better for her. Parents don't say that they don't like someone for no reason.
2007-01-06 20:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by El P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that this guy is bad news.
He is just trying to get with her(in pants)
He is a jerk who cant make up his mind.
2007-01-06 20:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Angeleyes171 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋