what do i do to tell him that it hurts me, how do i say it??
2007-01-06 12:17:31 · 9 answers · asked by Brookey Hoffman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what you're worrying about. If he doesn't change, then move on. His ego will destroy him one day (it already made him lose a girl)
Most likely, he is a good person inside, but he is giving in to peer pressure. He wants to be cool in front of his friends, and he's afraid if he's sweet to you, they will tease him.
2007-01-06 12:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys act differently around their friends, they want to impress them and not act all sentimental like he probably does when you two are just alone. If hes too mean to deal with then just tell him how you feel and if he is a decent guy he will understand. say something like, "you act differently around your friends and sometimes it hurts my feelings" and he should get the picture. If he continues to do it, he isnt worth it.
2007-01-06 20:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just what you wrote on this queation. That he acts all MEAN. Tell him that you thought he liked you. You know that he is with his boys and all but he doesn't have to be mean.
Besides . . .NOTE TO YOU....... Do you like him?? Do you like him?? Looks like you are not sure anyway. he can be a nice and sweet guy maybe he is not ready for you. Doesn't look ;ike you care for his change in personality anyway. Unless you like MEAN. And I don't think you do.
Tell him "THAT AIN"T COOL". Then move on. No biggie.
2007-01-06 20:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it might be hard, but if he is ashamed to show ppl that he likes you, he's not ur guy. A true mate would not be afraid 2 say that u and him are together. i say tell him this nicely or dump him. if u tell him, make the atmosphere passionate though
2007-01-06 20:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by musicmarvel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him (alone) about it. if he is the way u describe him he should stop (or at least back off a little). If that does not work then ditch him.
2007-01-06 20:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Craig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a ego problem. he cannot act sweet and gentle in front of you and them because he is afraid that others will laugh at his masculity.
2007-01-06 20:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Yoo Hoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he acts differently around his friends, and that you don't like it.
2007-01-06 20:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by xsrhx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal. just tell him to try and be nicer to you. he probly doesnt even realize he does it.
2007-01-06 20:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to quit bein a jerk
2007-01-06 20:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋