Ok, so I'm 13 years old. I have more friends that are girls than friends that are boys. Some of my friends that are boys call me a so-called "pimp". haha, I don't even know what that EXACTLY means, but enough 'bout that.
Everyday I talk to girls, so I get along pretty well with them. I greet them, tell them jokes, and do other stuff with them. But then I heard all the girls in my class talk about me in class, saying that I'm so nice and funny and getting me as their bf and all that other stuff. They all like me now, but what will happen if they all start telling me they like me? Like to be their bf? I'm not panicking or anything, just curious of what I should do if one of them asks me the question.
2007-01-06 12:14:40 · 9 answers · asked by King Kee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What will happen to the rest of the girls that like me?
I've been talking to these girls a LOT, and then eventually they told me they are very.... greedy when it comes to boys. They said they'll fight for boys that are worth it. And I might be it. If one is my gf, then they'll fight. All 19 of them, adn I don't really like fights.
2007-01-06 12:21:52 · update #1
I've seen these girls cry a lot after getting dumped and rejected by lots of boys, and I don't wanna be the next one.
2007-01-06 12:26:13 · update #2
It sounds like you are a very lucky guy!
As you find it so easy to talk and relate with girls, that's probably why they are so attracted to you son don't panic, it's a good feature but don't get arrogant about your popularity either as some guys do!
If you do really like a particular girl, then there's no problem asking the girl out.I No matter how popular you are, it would be incredible if all 19 liked youso you may be overreacting a bit as different people have different tastes.
I wouldnt worry about how the others think if you like someone in particular.
If one of thegirls asks you out and you are not interested,simply say you prefer to be friends with her and dn'twant to ruin your friendship with her.
Hope this helps
2007-01-06 12:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by bjka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the girl, you can say yes. If you are not sure, you can always say that you'd like to stay friends. Looking back to when I was 13, having a boyfriend didn't mean we actually went anywhere together regularly, but sat together in class and stuff like that. Also, girls didn't usually tell boys they liked them. Usually we girls would get a friend to talk to the boy in question. I'm not sure if it is different now though!
Being nice and funny is a good thing. Girls are generally interested in someone they can talk to and laugh with. I guess one thing you probably don't want to do is tell each of the girls that you are her boyfriend because they'll find out and get upset at each other or perhaps even upset with you. Honesty is really the best policy and just be yourself.
2007-01-06 20:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the girls that you dont want them to fight over you and that you don't want to loss their friendship. if their is a girl that you want to be her bf then if she asks say yes. but if someone you don't want to be her bf asks let her down easy. good luck. sounds like you are a great guy.
2007-01-06 21:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that u just wanna be friends then if u like one of them tell her ok
hope this helps
2007-01-06 20:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should think about how you really feel about them. if you like them, then go out with them. if you dont, tell them that you really dont feel that way and you wanna stay friends.
2007-01-06 20:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that complicated, if you like her too then go out with her. if you dont, just tell her youd still like to just be friends.
2007-01-06 20:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not Rocket Science. Read carefully. IF YOU LIKE THEM, SAY YES. IF YOU DON'T, SAY NO.
2007-01-06 20:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by iluvpuppies_48 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say yes
2007-01-06 20:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by megan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest if they are realy your friends then thryll understand...
2007-01-06 20:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋