Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

ok we have heard women say this about men being dogs but let us go deeper in it? WhaT makes the men dogs if they are because they were not born that way and what can one do to reform a so called dog.

2007-01-04 09:17:41 · 1 answers · asked by sean b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm young and i just want to have fun. I don't wanna be serious realtionship, and even though it hurts people sometimes i can't help it. I don't have to feel bad when guys get mad at me right?

2007-01-04 09:17:16 · 15 answers · asked by Cheergirl<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I am talking to this guy I've had a crush on for awhile on AIM, how do I break the ice?

2007-01-04 09:16:49 · 11 answers · asked by We're in like sin! 3 in Friends

moving on can be a huge mistake too remember. If you are old enough...you can remember some good ones who got away because we did just that. It might just be a function of these boards too as people don't want to analyze situations where they don't know the players. kind of interesting anyway.....

2007-01-04 09:16:46 · 18 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Singles & Dating

Were 13

2007-01-04 09:16:27 · 11 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this one 6 grader at my school, he rides my bus and i feel comfortable around him! he's like really cool, and we talk the whole bus ride,like a half an hour))) but it seems kinda wierd with that big of age difference at my age...

like if i was 30 and he was 28 that wouldnt make any difference AT ALLLLL!!!! but since we're kind younger, ya know....like i have soooo many guy friends in my grade but none i could see myself with, what should i do??

2007-01-04 09:15:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mature anwsers only please.......Hi sweetie so I have been doing some thinking and this is hard since you and I have not spent a great deal of time together. What I have to say is important and it’s how I feel and it needs to be done because I can’t keep it in any more. So I am taking a risk and putting myself out there and what ever happens after you read this will happen. I would much rather say this all in person but I figured that since this is our primary way of communication it inst such a bad idea to write you a letter. I know it may be a little in-personal but I will be able to say what I need to and feel better about it in the process since I won’t be skipping around too much or rambling.

I have noticed that I am saying it “is ok” and “that’s alright” to a lot of things and I’m beginning to notice that I am saying that with out really thinking about it and that’s not good.

I really need to spend more time with you in person if you and I are to move forward in a relationship.


I completely respect you and the fact that you spend a great amount of time with your kids and that is awesome, it’s good for them and you too. I would have more time with my daughter but the way my ex and I have worked out our schedule seems to be working really well. And he wants as much time with her as I do. So a week to week thing works well for us. It ends up too that I get more time to myself which is not a bad thing and I like it at times just having my own space and time to do what I want with it.

At this time I don’t know what you want nor do I know what you need from me or how you feel, except for the fact that I know you like me. I in no way want to rush a good thing at all. It is just hard since you and I are sleeping together and are in some way exclusive with that, that we don’t get to have a lot of time to be together in person. For me that is hard because all the affection that I do get from you in that time is awesome and I want and need more.

I am a giver and I see myself giving a lot to you, which is good but at the same time bad. I feel I setting myself up for disappointment and hurt.

You have a very busy life I think a little bit busier than mine. I see and know that you are making time for me as much as you can and that’s cool and I appreciate that too. You make me smile and laugh, and I feel good and happy to of meet you and to know you. But what I am unsure of is if you are ready to have more than just “fun” with someone. I know you were with your ex for long time so there are many things I’m unsure of and I don’t want to assume.

I am ready to be with someone I know in my heart that your not just a rebound or someone to fill the void. If that was the case I wouldn’t put so much time, effort or thought in to things I say or do for you. I do want companionship and someone to share my time with. I also know that in my ad I said I wanted a long term relationship with someone. I’m not saying that I want to move in with you or get married or anything along those lines at all. I am working on getting a place for me which is what I want and need right now it’s just gonna take some time to do that, and it will be happening with in the next few months.

What I am saying is id like to think of our friendship and relationship having more substance to it by being able to spend more time together.
I am a pretty simple person as well as understanding and I don’t need to be taken out all the time, so even if just sitting around talking, watching TV, and anything else that is great to as long as I get to spend quality time with you. I do like to get out and have fun doing things thou and I have a really good time with you.

To be with you in person is what I need more than anything especially since we are sleeping together and there are a lot of feelings involved. I don’t just go around doing that sort of thing with anyone. I enjoy sex a great deal and I like it a lot but I am starting to feel a little taken advantage of.

Basically I am just having a hard time seeing you here and there and wondering when the next time will be.

I have so much fun joking around with you I think it is great that you and I can share times doing that. We are still getting to know one another and only time will tell where things will go. But in the meantime I know that for me it would be better to have a more personable relationship.

So I am feeling that maybe we should talk more on the phone if that is at all possible. I don’t want you to think or feel I am trying to push in any direction at all.
I just need to get my thoughts out and feeling too as to what I need and want from you at this time, and basically it is just more of your time in person and a more personable relationship. So please do tell me how you feel as well it would be good to know. Thank you for reading this and I hope you can understand. Talk to you later. Muah

2007-01-04 09:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 09:14:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i was 17 i saw a guy and i just had to speak to him.
i dunno what happened but we were getting on so well went on a few dates always speaking on the phone.
i went on a family holiday for 2 weeks as my 18th birthday present.
when we got back he didnt want anything to do with me. the only reason i could think of is that his best mate was seeing a girl who i used to go to school with and she had told him some lies about me.
whatever i have tried he wont have a converstaion with me since then.

im now 24 and whenever i see him i wish i was with him and not my current fella.
i darent speak to this guy as i dont want him to reject me again.

i saw him on new years eve. his friends still say hello but he acts like im not there. they dont know why.

i need to get over him but i really dont know how to.
its driving me mad what happened while i was away but i know i wont get a word from him.


what should i do.? im sick off feeling like this whenever i see him.

2007-01-04 09:14:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if it is OK that I am not ready to have a boyfriend at 14. There is not alot of boys at our school that I like (I go to a school in a small town). I'm just hoping that High School will be better when it comes to boys.

2007-01-04 09:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Izzie passed away and it has been a while since we spoke.

2007-01-04 09:12:14 · 1 answers · asked by poemonkey1980 2 in Friends

I confronted my boyfriend about how we never really communicate now. He goes yes we do we talk all the time. I go, but never about impoartant things. he says thats because your opinions are complelely diffrent from mine (just because we have different opinions doesn't mean we can't talk about deep things does it?) he also completely blew me off, he sarted playing his viedeo game in the middle of our talk. Then when i didn't say anything he goes see your the one that doesn't talk to me. I told him maybe we should stop having sex for alittle while, b/c i feel it messed everything up. He goes w/e if thats what you want. I said i feel like your losing interest in me and he goes i don't know what your talking about. later when i had to go home, he kissed me. Then goes oh i shouldn't have done that it might lead to something else. he kept saying sarcastic things like that, its like he doesn't take me seriosusly. I love him alot but im so confused. what do you think i should do?

2007-01-04 09:12:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have already tried sucking up, begging, admitting I was wrong, cleaning, etc!!!

2007-01-04 09:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Family

What is the most romantic thing your woman has done for you (anything) and/or what kind of romantic gestures would you enjoy...aside from sex?

2007-01-04 09:11:45 · 1 answers · asked by What, what, what?? 6 in Singles & Dating

If so their actions show you it’s different yet, some times with things here and there it takes me back and I get red flags again…

I know, I can really forget the past and start over, yet I want this person to be a apart of my life…(my friends and family) when I try, he seems insecure about my friends and family judging him. I tell him not to worry about them and just worry about being with me. I try to let him know that he doesn’t have to prove anything to anybody…at the end of the day I’ll still be here. Doest this take time for him?
Will these insecurities with my friends/fam go away?

2007-01-04 09:11:41 · 2 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

just seeing how you're doing

2007-01-04 09:11:14 · 1 answers · asked by poemonkey1980 2 in Friends

what kind of things would make them a player? what would they be doing? please explain.

2007-01-04 09:10:36 · 8 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an ex.bf also my highschool sweetheart that i kept in contact with over the years.I got married to someone else after college and the marriage was rocky we were trying for a baby but i could not seem to get pregnant and he had an affair with my best friend.I was seperated from my husband and he was filing for divorce when i met up with my first love while i was visiting my parents.We hung out a little talking about highschool and after a few drinks to many at the bowling ally you can guess what happened.I gave birth to my son christmas day about a week ago.I never told him i was pregnant because he is married and has a 3 yr old daughter.I only found out that information afterward and feel bad.My dad is know threatening to tell him if i dont.?

2007-01-04 09:09:45 · 14 answers · asked by Marcy r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my mom and dad aren't speaking to each other so he is mad at everyone in the house. My lil brother ate something and left the bowls in the sink, I woke up this morning and the almost tripped over the bowls, they wre sitting outside my bedroom door and my dad put them there because he thought that I did it. Petty as all hell. What should I do to get back at him?

2007-01-04 09:09:01 · 8 answers · asked by TEE 3 in Family

on a diamond ring for my girlfriend although I did use the wifes credit card to buy the ring. The wife has got the credit card statement and is refusing to pay the bill. Is she being unreasonable

2007-01-04 09:09:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

An ex that stalks you? Mine does! I am 13,and my ex stalks me! HELP? I told my teachers,but it keeps getting worse! What do I do?

2007-01-04 09:08:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a) stick to my studies and forget about guys!
b) keep reliving memories of my ex-boyfriend-find a way to get him back
c) risk rejection & try out a new relationship w. a crush
d) stay single, until the right guy finds ME
e) just focus on those I already have as friends
f) go out to find>myself< Mr.Right
g) not give a shyt @ all~
h) flirt-flirt-flirt
i) ...sounds like i'm desperate, but truly just infatuated by the thought of "love"
j) love doesn't exist < its all a game

2007-01-04 09:08:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like say a gift or something, and if yes what was the occasion...

2007-01-04 09:07:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my brother loves poop
he is 6
how do I get him to stop talking about it?
its getting annoying

2007-01-04 09:07:44 · 7 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Family

ok so I like this kid Jeremy and he likes me back but as a really good friend. He came over and we just talked like normal people. Then when he left, he kissed me. [ my first kiss ]
I cant tell if he likes me more than he says because around his friends and prople he would say as a friend but he KISSED me!
i dont get it... Is he telling the truth or is he just scared to admit he likes me more than he says?

2007-01-04 09:07:43 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyday I see most of the pretty hispanic girls with some hiphop/ black wannabe hispanic guys with long hair or corn rolls. Why do these girls prefer this crap as opposed to a decent guy who dosen't look like he just walked out from a dumpster. I get that these pricks are very cocky and confident but WHY in the hell do the best looking girls actually GO for them, dont they have any standards?

2007-01-04 09:07:38 · 13 answers · asked by DetroitDiesel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 09:07:30 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend talks to his ex on MSN all the time. I told him it bothered me and he said he would stop. Then I find out that he is still talking to her and is just hiding it from me now. Why will he not stop talking to her if he knows its hurting me?

2007-01-04 09:07:03 · 12 answers · asked by saraadams86 1 in Singles & Dating

If you look about 8 years younger than your actual age is ok to pretend to girls that you are that age or do they actually prefer older guys?

2007-01-04 09:06:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am unable to get my wife pregant so i was thinking of this way
we r unable to afford doctors to do it

2007-01-04 09:06:24 · 6 answers · asked by sckenpo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships