i like this one 6 grader at my school, he rides my bus and i feel comfortable around him! he's like really cool, and we talk the whole bus ride,like a half an hour))) but it seems kinda wierd with that big of age difference at my age...
like if i was 30 and he was 28 that wouldnt make any difference AT ALLLLL!!!! but since we're kind younger, ya know....like i have soooo many guy friends in my grade but none i could see myself with, what should i do??
2007-01-04 09:15:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should pursue your friendship with him.
We both know its just a friend...Right? ;)
2007-01-04 09:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by darfol 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
in eigth grade you aren't exactly looking for a life partner. but i do understand the desire to wanna be with a guy as in having a boyfriend. Experience is sometimes the best teacher. I myself do not date younger men but it has always been my coincidence. It was never a rule. Learn this young... do what makes you happy. If you like him. GEt his number. talk on the phone. go to some games. go to a couple of school functions together. enjoy getting to know him. He'll probably make a great "friend" (lol) for you. also, the age difference things is not a biggy. My husband is thirteen years older than i. Ya'll are in middle school. Just be good. LOL!
2007-01-04 09:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by beautyzhername 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You guys are TOO YOUNG. Relax. There will be plenty of time to hook up.....my god you are in 8th grade, and he's in 6th. When I was in 6th grade, I was worried about my little league team, not how to score with the hot 8th grader.
I don't mean to be condescending, but you kids today are WAY oversexed too early. Nothing good can come of it, and there's no way an 8th or 6th grader can make a wholesome relationship. I'm sorry, you're just too young. Slow down a little!
your screen name even says, 'wwjd?' well, do you think Jesus would be trying to bang a 6th grader?
2007-01-04 09:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
When you are in your 20's no one cares as much about age. But right now you are a an age where you will "never live it down" if you went for him. My son is in 5th grade and I WOULD NOT approve of him with an 8th grader. I think you should keep talking to him as a friend but wait for someone older to come along.
2007-01-04 09:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by atricky123 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You can't really put an age to a crush. And when you have one it is hard to ignore. Be his friend have fun while you're young. Chances are you will grow apart in time and if not you will be one of the few who find their someone for life.
2007-01-04 09:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by courtqua 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait. At grade 6, I don't think I, or many of the other guys, really cared about girls... at that age we weren't into that sort of thing. We were more concerned about sports, and video games.
My advice would be: just be his friend. You're not going to date someone that young. If you can talk, that doesn't mean you're in love. You might just like him as a friend... it is possible to have good guy friends (when you're a girl).
2007-01-04 09:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by theVisionary 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Then date him. But you are going to feel silly in high school as a sophomore dating a middle school kid. If you can get past that, then don't worry about it. When you are 21 and he can't go to the bar with you, it may be a problem too, but do what you want. When you are 23, and he is 21, it won't be a problem at all.
2007-01-04 09:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I understand where you're coming from. But when I like someone two years younger than me last year I realized it just wouldn't work. Not to mention his parents might freak out. After teens hit adulthood, it's way different though. Just stay friends with him, sweetie. Who knows what can happen in the future?
2007-01-04 09:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have the same problem. I dont care what other people say. I think the person is fun to talk to and he is considerate. So if anyone says anything about it then just ignore them. Like you said when your older it wouldnt seem so big of a deal, but dont worry about that.
2007-01-04 09:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
im a freshman so im about your age and i know where youre coming from. ive had that happen to me, dont even worry about it i age difference doesnt mean a thing when it comes to liking someone, im sure youd be a great couple! go for it all the way!
good luck ;]
2007-01-04 10:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its OK to like a guy younger than you, but shouldn't get to serious with because of his younger age, but when the time is right then you or him are able to make that relationship.
2007-01-04 09:20:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋