when i was 17 i saw a guy and i just had to speak to him.
i dunno what happened but we were getting on so well went on a few dates always speaking on the phone.
i went on a family holiday for 2 weeks as my 18th birthday present.
when we got back he didnt want anything to do with me. the only reason i could think of is that his best mate was seeing a girl who i used to go to school with and she had told him some lies about me.
whatever i have tried he wont have a converstaion with me since then.
im now 24 and whenever i see him i wish i was with him and not my current fella.
i darent speak to this guy as i dont want him to reject me again.
i saw him on new years eve. his friends still say hello but he acts like im not there. they dont know why.
i need to get over him but i really dont know how to.
its driving me mad what happened while i was away but i know i wont get a word from him.
what should i do.? im sick off feeling like this whenever i see him.
2007-01-04 09:14:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he dont wanna hear ur side of da story, then forget him.
2007-01-04 09:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you really like someone, only time will make them fade away. But the question really is: why are you stuck on someone who's treated you like trash? If he liked you, he should have talked it out with you. And years and years later not saying hello is crazy. You deserve a guy who treats you great. And perhaps the guy you're with now isn't "the one" either. When you meet "the one", trust me, the one you were crazy about becomes a total footnote.
2007-01-04 17:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk in person, be aggressive & DONT let him walk away.
but, if he's still being an annoying pain, forget about him. Easiest way to get over him is to not think about him. Just completely erase him from your thoughts.. it's really not as hard as it sounds.
2007-01-04 17:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by jjeessiiccaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to him- face to face and ask him y he wont tlk 2 u. the most he can do is tell u to **** off but then that just shows how immature he is- if ur bf asks y u were tlking 2 him- tell him he has sum sorta problem wit u nd u wanted it sorted.
2007-01-04 17:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite simply by WANTING to get over him and not wanting a drama out of this.
ANYONE interested in you, make it very obvious, so dont waste time thoughts or energy on someone NOT interested.
2007-01-04 17:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you have to do is ask him if someone told him lies about you, that's the only way to know if he broke up with you because of the lies or becase of you...
have luck... if not, here in Argentina there`s so many nice guys
sooooooo niiceee
2007-01-04 18:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by GUada motion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it happens to everyone! It happened to me! Just get your friends to cheer you up! If he was a really guy he would just get over that and if he doesn't then he's a really beef jerky!!!!!!!!! Ha ha, don't waste your life on one guy their are millions of them!(scare thought)
2007-01-04 17:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by sexybacka2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell as women
first u do: stop wanting to see him. act like he is not there 2. forget about him. when u do, he will come around. the more attention u give the less he is going to want u, but the less u care he will want u.mens r like babies, they want ur attention, but when they don't get it they come to u.
2007-01-04 17:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by frenchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy!
2007-01-04 17:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you let this drag on for?! Get over it!!!!!
2007-01-04 17:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋