Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

until marridge? Please, I need both a female and male perspective.

2007-01-04 09:51:11 · 21 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont care and trust my bf untill he brings his ex at his party. First of all, he asked me if i wouldnt mind him to meet his ex occasionally , cause they are still friends. Of course i didnt mind. But later, when he invited her to his institute graduation party, i was shocked.. Cause its not right. i didnt show her how felt, i just kept smiling, but after i was really confused. Since i saw her, i started not to trust him... My bf said that i have to accept the fact that they are friends, and nothing gonna change. She also calls him on his b-days and stuff...

Is that okay?? What should i do...

2007-01-04 09:51:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The fact that this is a girl it's hard to just hang out as if she's like another guy and she doesn't like me as if dating so I can't do dating type things. What can I do?

2007-01-04 09:50:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wedding is 6 months away & she's already driving me crazy. Actually this has been going on for a long time. She dishes out critisism & opinions but she cannot take it herself. I told her I''d like the whole family to be involved in the planning of the wedding & now she's taking control. I cannot talk to my fiance about it, & we have a child together. She thinks she's already stepped back, but I don't. We're having confrontations pretty often & todayu she said she's pulling out of the wedding completely. What can I say or do?

2007-01-04 09:50:21 · 14 answers · asked by miss independent 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half, and now things seem to be changing---which relationships tend to do after a year. Lately we have been having arguements about the future---I am in college and he is working so I think that has alot to do with it---seems like we are on two different wavelengths. I care about him and love him very much and i know he cares and loves me too. We just seem so distance and our phone calls at night are getting quite, mostly on my part---I just don't know what to say to him anymore. I am just so sick of fighting and I just want so badly for us to be the way we were. Both of us have alot on our minds with school with me and work for him and I really think its putting a huge dent into our relationship. I just don't know what to do anymore, I don't want to leave but I don't want to remain unhappy either.

2007-01-04 09:49:56 · 20 answers · asked by angie 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Charlie has liked me for a long time. He recently told me that he liked me alot. How do I tell him I don't like him like that without ruining our friendship?

2007-01-04 09:49:02 · 13 answers · asked by 1010101000 1 in Friends

I really like this guy I work with. I see him at work here and there. We hang out with friends usually every weekend or during the week but not everyday just at times. He sometimes will text me,call me or email at work. When I am near I can catch him looking at me. However I dont know how to read him at times. I don't want to be pushing or nothing. I want to email him but it seems lately I have been doing all the emails. (He is somewhat busy at work) So I do understand. What should I email him to get his attention? Like nothing sexual or nothing. Something cute but innocent. That will make him want to see me soon.
We are in are mid 20's. Help...I wish a guy would tell me signs that men give women that they are interested.

2007-01-04 09:48:57 · 1 answers · asked by Stephaniemae 1 in Singles & Dating

He's slightly older than me, and I know he doesn't have a girlfriend, I just need to get enough courage together to take the plunge and ask him out!! Please help!

2007-01-04 09:48:45 · 12 answers · asked by Minniex 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 09:48:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had been with my bf for almost seven years started when we were 16 and now we're 23. I moved 8 hours to train for a really good job and did the best I could going home, calling, emailing, etc. However he started cheating on me three months ago and said I pushed him to it. It really hurts and I DON'T know what to do. he said we could try again when I got home but it just doesn't work that way. How could he hurt me so badly when I'm working my a** off for us. Now he's seeing a 20 year old and acting like he's 15. Any advice? Thing is, I still love him, and he never did this before. I know he loves me cause his new women keeps saying she knows she only around until I come back but I still have two months left!

2007-01-04 09:47:58 · 45 answers · asked by sherrie.carter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are your turn-offs?

We all know the usuals:
Bad breath, Smelly b.o., food in teeth...

But do you have any unusual turn-offs? that make you just want to walk away?

Mine is moving too fast. If we are in the middle of the first date and he is wanting to move to second base - I am out of there.

What are yours?

2007-01-04 09:47:52 · 25 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

if your bf said he loves you and you love him and your BEST friend said she doesnt like him would you choose him or your friend...this never happened to me... just a question.

2007-01-04 09:46:07 · 18 answers · asked by heather 2 in Friends

should the guy make the 1st move or the chick ?

2007-01-04 09:45:51 · 14 answers · asked by b 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend gets push around a lot by other ppl. How can I stop her from being pushed around? What do I say to others when they are pushing her around?

2007-01-04 09:45:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

But this guy was really weird.....He told me that I killed my late husband (diabetic coma), he said that my mother hated me (every day). Very verbally abusive. Do you think that karma happens? I really am glad I left him, but how do I know when 'what comes around goes around'?

2007-01-04 09:45:30 · 17 answers · asked by Bobbi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

you dont have to know him/her well, but when you see him or her you think "wow, he's hot" or "wow, she has a gorgeous body." you not necessarily have to be interested in him/her; you just think this person is attractive?
is there someone like that in your neighborhood?

2007-01-04 09:45:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for a very long time 7 years ago. We both moved on and married other people. He resently contacted me by finding me on the internet and asked me to keep in touch and asked me all kinds of stuff. I wrote him back, telling him I'm very happy now with 2 kids and he said his pieces and how he's in TX and building a house. I told him that I just left that area 2 years ago and back in LA. Thing is, he never responded back to me. I e-mailed him twice after that (christmas and new years) I didn't get anything back from him...I also said in my last email, why he hasn't been keeping in touch but no response. What's the deal?
I'm thinking, did he get in trouble with his wife (our emails are purely innocent)...Did something happen to him or his family? Or is he too busy to respond...Or is he jealous of my happiness and thought I would be doing bad? What is his problem?

2007-01-04 09:45:03 · 4 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Singles & Dating

and u dont actualy like him, and hes too much of a wimp to talk to u except when he gives u long letters that are folded into paper airplanes. but u dont want to dump him, because ur lazy, and u dont want his friends to think u are a b**** because u already turned down 2 of them:/

2007-01-04 09:44:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and a senior and my parents DONT let me go out... ever! i have proved to them that i dont do stupid stuff like drink or smoke or anything (mostly cuz i dont find whats so fun about it). they dont mind me going out with a whole bunch of friends and the other day there was this guy that i know since 8th grade and we are really good friends, i havent seen him all this winter break and he called me to go watch a movie. my parents said absolutely not! only if you go in groups but not alone.. ever!
i am also not allowed to date and i still havent had a boyfriend because they dont allow it.
why are they doing this to me? they think that ALL my friends never date either and i have told them that i am the only one that has never had a boyfriend. i have been asked out a few times but i had to say no :(
over protective... why?!

2007-01-04 09:44:19 · 18 answers · asked by chic! 2 in Singles & Dating

All of them (okay, that makes 3) are or think they are preganant, and are upset about it, yet they think I'm a nuts because I've never had sex. Even my boyfriend thinks I'm crazy, and I'm getting tired of all the bullshit. What do I do, besides say no?

I'm going crazy. Hormomones are not helping me, either.

2007-01-04 09:44:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hehehehe... Just curious!

thanks for answering...

2007-01-04 09:43:45 · 7 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

well i heard this from his ex but she still likes him. Wat should i do?

2007-01-04 09:42:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do, my friend is 12 years old in 7th grade. there is a boy with a very bad reputation (he does drugs, had sex, jacks off in class, got drunk, smokes, and makes out with random girls.) some of these things i have seen firsthand (i didnt want to)today she told me that once while they were at the movies he asked if he could finger her and she let him. she has very low self-esttem and does anything in order for boys to like her. she cuts herself and has stopped eating and wants to weigh 80 pounds! i told her i was going to tell if she didnt eat at lunch but she said she wouldnt eat. i havent told yet because i dont want her to be mad, im not sure what to do, any suggestions?

2007-01-04 09:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by oMg_ItS_eViE28 3 in Friends

My parents recently found out that the guy that I've been dating for a year is a felon, he's been getting his life straight though so I didn't see how it mattered. He treats me better than anyone I've ever dated before. My mother has made up an excuse that she can't be around him because she might lose her job (she's a correctional officer). I checked and that's not true. What would you do in such a situation, if this was a person you could see yourself with forever? We're a close knit family, so it's been a bit difficult and I'm not sure how to make them see that he's good for me, if they won't even see him.

2007-01-04 09:41:22 · 2 answers · asked by Remit 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is not talking to me she has same missunderstanding over me she dose not want to talk about it. but how do i make her understand that i have not done wat she thinkes that i have done.

2007-01-04 09:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by heena 1 in Friends

I am 32 just got a promise ring? Dating this guy for a year is this crazy?

2007-01-04 09:39:46 · 17 answers · asked by cheryl_7824 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 09:39:44 · 36 answers · asked by Cool Guy seeks Cool Young Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend travels for work maybe 4-5 times a year. We have talked about traveling/visiting to "closer" places (In the US) together, places we have never been. This includes Las Vegas, California, Boston etc..just cities I would LOVE to see with him. Well, his work has recently been "sending" him to ALL of those places- for a conference that is ONE day long, but they send him (as well as many female coworkers-never male) for a whole week so they can "enjoy" personal time. So instead of asking me to fly out with him, or coming home early so we can experience the places together another time..he just lives and parties it up, not even thinking about me. We planned to go all those cities/states within the next few years and it is just going to suck knowing hes already been-maybe even more than once. What do I say to him..if I should say anything?

2007-01-04 09:39:42 · 10 answers · asked by Ash_082 2 in Singles & Dating

im going to a sweet 16 and i have no idea what would make a good present.

2007-01-04 09:39:40 · 6 answers · asked by SHELLY 2 in Friends

She doesn't work and knows that I do, and it's apparent to her that my fiance and I are doing just fine financially, much better than they ever did during their marriage.
Can she request modification of his child support to include my income once we are a married couple?
I have children of my own, but share with my ex and neither of us pay support to the other and my fiance and I will never have kids together.

2007-01-04 09:39:21 · 12 answers · asked by moniquebell 3 in Marriage & Divorce