my bf still meets his exgf?

Question

i dont care and trust my bf untill he brings his ex at his party. First of all, he asked me if i wouldnt mind him to meet his ex occasionally , cause they are still friends. Of course i didnt mind. But later, when he invited her to his institute graduation party, i was shocked.. Cause its not right. i didnt show her how felt, i just kept smiling, but after i was really confused. Since i saw her, i started not to trust him... My bf said that i have to accept the fact that they are friends, and nothing gonna change. She also calls him on his b-days and stuff...

Is that okay?? What should i do...

Answer 1

if they are just friends and u bf is true to u, i wouldn't worry about it so much. r u prettier than her? what r u worry about?

Answer 2

Unless you know he's cheating on you there is nothing you can do.

If she is his friend I don't know why it would bother you that he invited her to a party. Most people want to celebrate important moments with their friends. As for her calling him on his birthday I would ask if you don't call your friends on their birthdays?

I am still friends with 2 of my exgfs and sex doesn't enter the equation. If you think he's cheating on you then you have a trust issue that you should resolve with him.

Answer 3

Give him more time with his ex,,,by breaking up with him so that he can do with her whatever he likes. Being friends with an ex has a bad affect on your current relationship, everyone knows it so if he is willing to neglect your relationship, then ask yourself what the h*ll you are still doing there playing the game with him

Answer 4

Of course this is wrong and disrespectful.. hes making a fool out of you, you need to seriously tell him how you feel, and make him choose who he really wants!
I wouldnt tolerate my bf being friends with his ex... not in a million years!!!!

Answer 5

I had a pal who's boyfriend Robbie grew to become into continuously being noted. in case you pronounced, "i like rocky highway ice cream." She'd say " Robbie likes ice cream!" heavily. Our friendship diminished with the aid of fact she in no way made time to spend together with her girlfriends and grew to become into thoroughly ate up with this guy. He ended up dumping her after a 12 months b/c she wasn't an entire individual and he or she expected her previous acquaintances that she talked crap to and handed over to be there to %. up the products of her broken relationship and grew to become into mad as quickly as we did no longer. Friendship is a 2 way highway, like each and every relationships, she took and took, yet in no way presented something, she wasn't there for any individuals as quickly as we ended relationships and ignored birthdays to dangle out with Robbie. I surely have a feeling in case you tell her to give up she'll get shielding and you in all probability won't see her as lots.

Answer 6

sounds fishy to me. I think the feeling you felt when you saw her was an indicator that something's going on. I never thought my ex would have cheated on me. And there was no evidence of it, I just had this feeling and I was right.
Go with your gut feeling. Talk to him about it.

Answer 7

I think it's good for both of you if she's still in the picture, as long as he's not being secretive about it. As long as he's open and lets you konw whats going on between them, there's nothing wrong with it.

Answer 8

NO NO NO....say you've changed your mind..it's not OK and it's never going to be OK and plan on finding a new BF

Answer 9

Get out now! Been there, done that! Unless she is OUT of the picture, it will never work. Good Luck!

Answer 10

just reading your story and not knowing either of you personally, I truelly think it is a big issue and bothers you. Saying that , i feel that its not alright for this to continue