should the guy make the 1st move or the chick ?
2007-01-04 09:45:51 · 14 answers · asked by b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy should, it's the chivalrous thing to do.
2007-01-04 09:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person in question. I am of a generation where the man always did the asking - much to frustration I must add - and many people still think that way
What I would suggest is that if the person concerned is a modern 2001 thinking person then it's fine for the girl, however, if either of them are more traditional, then unfortunately it's down to the waiting game, although as I remember I did enjoy the flirting bit almost as much as the dates on some occasions!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 10:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by PMF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever wants to go out on the date more. Shouldn't really matter, but usually the guy makes the first move, though there are lots of girls nowadays that won't hesitate to ask a guy out that they really like.
2007-01-04 09:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your current relationship: if you don't know each other too well and want to get to know her better, by all means step up. But if you are friends don't jeopardize that friendship: just find ways to get closer, hang out with her more often, and if it's right for both of you a date will come naturally.
2007-01-04 09:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by senior07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such an easy question to answer. This is not a gender-specific role. It's about attraction. You should be the one to ask. Because you want to. Never wait for the other person.
2007-01-04 12:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by The Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok for both to make the move. So If your interested in someone then just ask and see what happens. Good luck
2007-01-04 09:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nowadays i think more women are making the first move which i've heard some men like. but im quite traditional and believe the guy shud make the first move.
2007-01-04 10:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter who does it...if you know you are interested in someone then go for it...waiting might cause you to miss your chance.
2007-01-04 09:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doenst matter who does. its the 21st century and the last time i checked we are in 2007. step up ladies!
2007-01-04 09:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Giddy G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should
especially if he already tried 3 times
2007-01-04 09:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋