Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

Would you play on your guy if you just met him,loved him,or just for fun.I am trying to find out if girls can be faitful or they just put up fronts like my homeboys do.Is there a specific line they use or what.Or am i just to insecure help me please

2007-01-04 11:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by javi 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong I know my husband love's me soooo much.... But he has been talking to me about us being with other people. We have been together for 6 years. He said he love's me he just want to try some thing new. We have done all the Sex thing that there is to do. But i think that he might just need more. He is also one of those guys who has to have the net and the porn. He does it when I am not home and only then is on here. Is this way crazy and should we do it and see what happens? I know that we have tryed so many things but this one really does scare me....

2007-01-04 11:23:21 · 20 answers · asked by crazyone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think its all over between my bf and i. its been hard the last twelve months, no sex,secrets and not been honest with me. i have been on this site seeking advice the last month or two.some has been helpfull and some not ,i think my head is sorted now but my heart is a different matter,that will take time to heal. im 42 but still feel about 32 and im scared what the future will hold for me. i really tried to make it work ,putting his needs before my own sometimes and never getting anything back. Im tired and unhappy and in a way im glad its over. he can have his own time now to do what he wants(which he did anyway) have his friends to himself. no more of his secrets or hiding things from me.love him very much but ifeel asthough its time to call it a day. im dead calm though and not at all tearfull is this normal or will i fall to pieces when i have a drink. want to show him i can make it through without any arguements or outbursts which i tend to do,cant trust myself sometimes.

2007-01-04 11:23:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not trying to start no bs cus i find all races of women attactive for diffrent reasons. Im just wondering if white guys see the same things as brothas do when they look at a sista girl,

2007-01-04 11:23:06 · 11 answers · asked by blackplatnium007 2 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong I know my husband love's me soooo much.... But he has been talking to me about us being with other people. We have been together for 6 years. He said he love's me he just want to try some thing new. We have done all the Sex thing that there is to do. But i think that he might just need more. He is also one of those guys who has to have the net and the porn. He does it when I am not home and only then is on here. Is this way crazy and should we do it and see what happens? I know that we have tryed so many things but this one really does scare me....

2007-01-04 11:22:47 · 31 answers · asked by crazyone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy...he's my friend's friend....I just saw him on internet...but it feels like i noe him...what should i do

2007-01-04 11:21:29 · 3 answers · asked by indosweetie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and masturbate to it while you and your children are in other rooms of the house. Or, is it "at least he's not actually cheating". What say you married women?

2007-01-04 11:20:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's a guy in my school. hes cute. and im not sure if he's into me or not. how can i tell, besides just asking him.

2007-01-04 11:20:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I DONT WANT AS MUCH AS SHE DOES.. I DO IT JUST TO PLEASE HER. PLUS I DONT WANT HER TO THINK IM CHEATING...
IN THE BEGINING... I WANTED IT ALL THE TIME AND SHE DIDNT. NOW ITS THE OTHER WAY AROUND..
SHE'S NOTICED THE CHANGE.. HOW DO YOU THINK SHE FEELS?

2007-01-04 11:20:23 · 20 answers · asked by DOC. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy a lot, but the problem is that I think he likes my friend, He always pokes me and stuff, and he plays with my scarf and my hood, but he's always looking at my friend. What do i do?

2007-01-04 11:20:09 · 3 answers · asked by goesonyahooanswerswhenbored 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 11:19:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 11:19:44 · 2 answers · asked by seeker 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted this in the finacial section by accident, but...

I'm not sure if anyone has a real answer to this, but i just can't seem to find a "good looking" girl that isn't a ****! Are there any girls out there that are beautiful woman but haven't been with a trillion dudes?? I think i might just hang up the whole dating thing and become a friggan priest -

sincerly pissed off nice guy...

2007-01-04 11:19:01 · 19 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Singles & Dating

im a senior in high school theres this girl that jocks me almost everytime i see her. but in class she dosent really look at me what do you people think is up with her.

2007-01-04 11:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by DAMER 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is really popular, not becuse of her looks (or her clothes kinda.. she has okayy style) she's popular because of her personality. Well i come up with a whole bunch of funny things, and I'm really shy so i only act crazy in front of her. Well she steals my "funny" thing lol, and everyone just loves her. When I'm telling a joke, I fear the sound of crickets chirping at the end. I'm not a good speaker, except for with my best friend, so any help to "boost" my confidence or express my personality better..? aack.

2007-01-04 11:17:45 · 10 answers · asked by goesonyahooanswerswhenbored 3 in Friends

i mean how can a married man keep healthy in his special sexual relation with his wife for a long time?

2007-01-04 11:17:03 · 19 answers · asked by english6mood 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a guy for a 1 yr and 1/2 and our relationship is great except for a few things. The biggest issue is with his friends. He, for some reason, thinks that I don't like spending anytime with him and his friends. He thinks I'm anti-social, and then when I do spend time with his friends he will complain that I was too quite or that I should have mingled more. The truth is, I have no problems with making friends, I'm very social and I am usually the life of the party..but for some reason when I am with him and his friends I feel sooo uncomfortable (probably because he is expecting so much from me). I can't really be myself and it makes me look like I am the person he THINKS I am! He's always saying how he is always hanging out with me and my friends and he feels it's unfair. but I don't care if he is with me at all times-unlike him.He wants his friends to be who I hang out with. What can I do? he's 30, and I'm 25 and I'm sick of this childness already! what can i say 2 him

2007-01-04 11:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by BUTTERCUP 2 in Singles & Dating

When is enough ever going to be enough?

2007-01-04 11:17:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get her away from her friends without being incredibly obvious, and what should you say? How do you act? Do you find her and just tell her that you want to go see a movie, or do you talk to her for a bit? And what should you say if she rejects? Or accepts?
Note: This is assuming that you already have a positive friendship with her.

2007-01-04 11:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by Djchick3n 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, he has broke up with me TWICE, well the first time we were having a month, when he broke up with me, telling me that he had problems and that he couldn't deal with the relationship anymore, then the next day we went back together. BUT now he broke up with me again now telling me that is for this other girl! but i don't really think its true, because he actually thought about it!

now its being a day, but i love him SO much that i went back with him the 1st time, BUT now the 2nd?? i dunno what to do. but i know that if i get back with him i'll be happy again!! HELP ME PLEASE should i wait till he asks me again or what do i do to bring him back? OR should i just simply try to 4get him

2007-01-04 11:16:05 · 14 answers · asked by magata69 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I started known her when we were at the age of 11, she is Malay, she loves to smile, but she don't smile much in photos and she never show her teeth in photos either. Someday if I fix a date to meet her, I will love to take lots of photos of her. Do you think she will smile? Well, her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before, but she didn't.

2007-01-04 11:15:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bf and I have been dating for almost a year. We both are recently divorce and have been discussing marriage for a few months now. I don't know how much time should pass before I expect a serious sign of a life long commitment.

2007-01-04 11:14:56 · 13 answers · asked by Graham 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in 7th grade and am currently dating a 6th grade boy. His last girlfriend broke up with him because she thought he was cheating on her with me, which he wasn't. Now I'm dating him and she wants him back. She sends her friends to tell him to break up with me, and sends him messages and comments on myspace telling him that I'm a fat, ugly wh*re. I've tryed telling her nicely to back off, but she won't listen to me. She's even tryed to tell me that he sent something to her about loving her. I have resorted to having to make my own friends threaten her about this, but she keeps coming back. What can I do to stop this, but not ruin the relationship?? I need serious help.

And I don't want anyone to answer saying that I'm too young to date.

2007-01-04 11:14:37 · 41 answers · asked by KayKay 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted already, i ahve to say I am unempolyed at the moment and have no money, but I am looking for someone to get married and start up our life from ZERO, do you think I am doing the right think as I have no girlfirend and no partner at the moment, but i have to say I am very active and ready to take a job anytime for our life.

2007-01-04 11:14:26 · 18 answers · asked by dolphinjoon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is he interested, or am I reading is wrong?
We have known eachother through friends since the ninth grade (seniors this year). In ninth grade I was like: "Oh he seems like a really nice guy" but he wasn't my type. He is a really nice guy and I was always attracted to bad boys (Although I myself am a good girl). He flirted a little bit then, but I didn't notice. Well the end of tenth grade I started to REALLY like him a lot, I was so nervous I could hardly talk to him, yet again he would always stare at me, and always pay close attention to every word I said. We shared/share a lot of same interest such as: movies, music, friends, life styles, etc. We always end up talking about the craziest things and we are often the only ones left laughing in the room. Lately we have hung out a couple of times, and each time there are several things such as: staring, laughing at things I say, when we talk he looks into my eyes for minutes on end, etc, etc. I always leave thinking he must like me, but I am not sure. I really wish I knew for sure

2007-01-04 11:14:21 · 5 answers · asked by littlegid' 1 in Singles & Dating

4 years together and she won't tell a male friend of hers to quit calling in the middle of the night. I told her its him or me and she said wont choose. I should go right?

2007-01-04 11:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by kywolverine44 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not the player type of anything, shoot, i'm not even that good looking. I really like the girl that is from far away from me, but we can't get married or anything for another 2 years (because of school), and I started hanging out with this chick here in my area that i recently met and now she's my girlfriend. None of the girls knows about the other girl, and I feel really wrong. The girl here I was just kinda just dating for fun, but now she got a little serious and I'm not the type to break her heart or anything, is there any way i could kinda break up with her without hurting her bad. What i have been doing is trying to avoid contact with her a lot, and making myself seem more busy that i really am, and only seeing her when its convinient for me, thinking that this might get to her and she will get mad and want to break it off with me, but its not really working. I know i'm not going to marry this girl here, but should i just keep her around?? fyi, both girls are super hot!

2007-01-04 11:12:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am recently engaged with my partner of 2 years. We've had trust issues since last year, or should I say that I'VE had trust issues. It all started with him lieing to me about going to a party at 2 in the morning and since then I've had problems trusting him. Things hae been rough this past year with moving to a new state and everything that goes along with that. I discovered that he had been viewing porn for about 9 months (starting in Jan.) We've tried to work through the problems and he hasnt done ne thing since ive found out to break my trust, but I havent given him the chance to. I'm having such a hard time trusting him and I can't get over the hurt and betrayal that this porno has brought to our relationship. I've tried so many things. I don't want porno to be apart of relationship, I don't like it and theres no changing my mind. Its degrading and provocative. He agrees with my wishes willingly, and hasnt tempted my trust since thisfall. But I dont know how to get past the hurt?

2007-01-04 11:12:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband told me that his daughter (from a previous marriage) might not be his, but that if it wasnt his, he would still love her and provide for her. I want to have a child with him, but knowing this now turns me off. I guess I am a bit jealous that he would still love the child and provide for her if it wasnt his. I want my child to have his full attention, not some daughter who might not be his. If it was his daughter, then I would support him 100%, but if it isnt his, I dont like the idea of him loving her and providing for her. Do I have a right to be mad or not?
She does not think of him like her father. The child is 4 years old and he has hardly spent time with her due to the military and her denying her to see him. The woman moves around from men to men and tells her daughter that this guy is your daddy, and then the next guy, and the next guy is your daddy, get my point? He doesnt call the girl no visits her, and now he says this????

2007-01-04 11:12:12 · 23 answers · asked by Leyanis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does it have a commitment to each other?

2007-01-04 11:12:08 · 2 answers · asked by thirteen 1 in Singles & Dating