Some 6th grader is trying to steal my boyfriend, what should I do?

Question

I am in 7th grade and am currently dating a 6th grade boy. His last girlfriend broke up with him because she thought he was cheating on her with me, which he wasn't. Now I'm dating him and she wants him back. She sends her friends to tell him to break up with me, and sends him messages and comments on myspace telling him that I'm a fat, ugly wh*re. I've tryed telling her nicely to back off, but she won't listen to me. She's even tryed to tell me that he sent something to her about loving her. I have resorted to having to make my own friends threaten her about this, but she keeps coming back. What can I do to stop this, but not ruin the relationship?? I need serious help.

And I don't want anyone to answer saying that I'm too young to date.

Answer 1

It's up to the 6th grade boy whom he wants to date... if he chooses the other girl then let him go... why fight for somebody that doesn't want you to begin with?

Answer 2

Tell her that she really needs to back off and that she had her chance with him and she let him go just because he was being honest. Tell her that she's only in 6th grade and that you shouldn't be expecting this type of immaturity, even from someone her age. Also tell her that you really don't have time to deal with her (make it sound like it's true, that you have a lot of stuff in your schedule and that you can't make space to listen to her whine) and that her comments are an eyesore on his Myspace page and there really is no space for crap on it.

Use big words! Talk to her once and then totally ignore her after, don't stoop to her level either - she'll just see it as a game!

Good luck!

Answer 3

Too bad. You are a 7th grader, means you age around 12/13. It's very wrong of having love relationship at such a young age. I even doubt whether it is a love relationship. You should get rid of such things and I'm telling you, these things are highly harmful for your life. See you are already having many problems. So forget about all those, start attending school and making lessons so that you can get good grades.

Answer 4

OK let see if we can source this serious problem or this hard case out. It would help me if you agree that I am understand this situation correctly. OK here is this: first of all, you like younger boy, right? Second of all, his girlfriend was wrong, she thought he was cheating on her, with you. I agree with you here, how could she thought that. This is not making any sense, after all, you are with him now, right? OK this is a little confusing: if she just thought that, he was cheating on her, with you, but he said he didn’t. So, do you think that even sound worst to you that she wanted him back. This is not sound right to me. How would she want him back, if he still hers, right? If he didn’t cheating on her. That means he still with her. How dare her to sent her friends to tell him to break up with you when you even not cheating with him the first place. Most of all, that is not nice of her to said unkind things or words to you in “My space.” People need to only say nice thing there in my space, not an ugly words. For cry out loud!!! She should have a respect for my space!!! She should listen to you the first place that all this mess is having nothing to do with cheating. OK, I think this is going to far already, I think this boy have to come face to face, like a man. In this case, like a boy. He has to choose between you or her, or out, right? However, I think he is the one who has the right to choose. I think both of you might end up loosing him at the end because this fight. Unless he is enjoying it. OK hope this will do it, this my space war will have to stop for everybody, and have some respect for this boy and everyone who involved with this matter. Everyone should have a respect for each other. Hope it helps you some. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

You are too young to date. Ok, now that's out of the way. You need to challenge this contender to a show down. Advertise the event around the school and then choose a physical challenge such as mud wrestling, foxy boxing or foam baseball bats. Then you have the chance to humilitate her in front of the entire school. Unless of course she beats you, in which case you will look like an idiot but at least many will be entertained.

Answer 6

Hi KayKay. I'm Elyse. I'm in 8th grade. I remember when I was in 7th grade, I dated about three sixth grade boys. You're not too young to date, but you ARE too young to be in any sort of 'physical' relationship..(if you know what i mean ;-).. Don't send your friends to do anything for you, especially threatening this 6th grader. She needs to learn that it was her mistake for breaking up with this boy, and she should have talked to him first before taking any drastic measures. You should convey that to her, and try to get her to understand. I did something similar to this, except I didnt think he was cheating on me. I went out with a boy who was my age, and he was sooo sweet..he was nice, and funny, a little shy, but that's okay. He was an individual. I liked that about him. I made the huge mistake of breaking up with him after five days. If i hadn't dumped him, We might have still been going out now..that's what bugs me the most. It was my loss, and i tried to ask him out again, but he's moved on. She needs to learn from her mistakes, and move the heck on!!! (lol) Talk to your boyfriend about what she is doing and also ask him to talk to her and tell her to stop it and tell him to tell her (thats confusing..lol) that it was her mistake. I hope this all works out well for you!!
<3elyse

Answer 7

chill... he loves you, not her

this girl is a loser

all u gotta do is tell ur bf that shes bothering yo, and believe me, he'll never go back to her again! you know why? cause shes the jerk, not u.

you really think your bf is gonna go with a girl whos being an a**? NO!

so good luck and the best thing you can possibly do is ignore her

dont get even, that makes it worse, and can put the relationship in danger. Ignoring someone makes them so mad, so they will try harder and harder, but if u do nothing, they will quit. and if they dont... it shouldnt effect you scince ud be ignoring them!

good luck

Dessi<3

Answer 8

I will not tell you that you are too young to be dating,because i am going through the same thing you are going throug, except the boy that is crushing on me is mentally-retarted and he keeps drawing pictures of me telling me he loves me!! Back to your problem, If I were you,break up with the boy if you don't like him as much as that other girl seems to like him. If you do like him that much, then just ignore that girl or tell someone, like one of your parents or a teacher, maybe even a principle!!E-mail me about how it goes between my peeps!!

Love/ Lillie C.
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Answer 9

you can take this in several directions:
1) flirt around him and make him flirt back when your around her
2) let your bf no of the problem that is going on, if he would dump you for her, its his loss and you neeed to move on
3) get a much older kid to threaten her and her friends
4) stick tacks and stuff to her chair
5) take her out back and puch her i the face...then tell her to just try you once more and see what happens


ya u prolly dont want to do either of the last 2 or 3 but big problems call for big solutions

Answer 10

i say that u should fight for him if u really like him id give her one more warning but i would tell her this" stay the f### away from him or ill beat ur @ss b@@#@" Then i would tell him what i told her. If he comes back 2 u and tells u that she has been all over him kick that b####s @ss. Of course im mean the H0e not ur boy friend

Sincerly: Chi-town legend