and masturbate to it while you and your children are in other rooms of the house. Or, is it "at least he's not actually cheating". What say you married women?
2007-01-04 11:20:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be mad. My husband and I already had our problems about him looking at porn or sexy women in general like in mag,internet,tv etc. We almost divorced 2 times this year. This is my view porn. You men need to be w/your wives and try making them feel desirable instead of looking at these images to get turned on. I dont think you sick or bad guys but us women need our husbands to let us know we still got it. Porn takes over our rolls as women and wives and our marriages. If you really feel the need to do this at least do it when your family isnt there what would you do if your kids walked in and I am sure your wife isnt going to be to thrilled. If you want the pleasure put the kids to bed and give your wife the time of her life I think thats my problem half the time I need my husbands attention and he better not be on the computer!
2007-01-04 11:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why are you masturbating to porn while your wife and children are at home. I do not find porn bad, my husband and I enjoy it together. Only time I would do what you are talking about is if he were gone for a long time. I am very open-minded. Maybe you can persuade your wife to more things for you, so you not masturbating to porn alone. It is always best to do things together. It is not cheating but it is kind of creepy.
2007-01-04 19:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by molli maire 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My question would be why my husband wouldn't want to look at it with me, and use it to get all hot, then make love with me instead of using it to do himself? If the kids are still up, why can't the guy have self control until the kids are in bed? Isn't that a little desperate?
I don't have a problem with my husband looking at porn, I just think it should be done in an open and honest way and used to enhance a relationship instead of build walls.
2007-01-04 19:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Peace 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know my husband does it and usually I don't care.
But if I am feeling moody I'll think that just because I'm not available he's happy to get it anywhere and that one day he'll make the jump from his hand to another woman. Or I'll think that maybe I'm not good enough and he has to look at other women or would rather look at them. Or I'll worry that he'll think about them when he is with me.
But usually, I think it is just him being a guy and being driven by urges I will never fully understand.
2007-01-04 19:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I say it's cheating and it's extremely disrespectful.
Read Dr. Phils web page "Is Internet Porn Cheating?"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/54
2007-01-04 23:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes think it is silly for my husband to watch porn because we can go in the room and do the same thing he is watching on tv.
2007-01-04 19:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tangula G 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you get off the couch, get off the porn and go play and participate in the parenting that your wife is obviously doing by herself while you are being a loser. If you have kids, get off your b__ and drop your___ and do something that will really make a difference in your family. PARTICIPATE.
2007-01-04 20:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I man is a pathetic loser if he needs to masturbate to porn with his kids in the house! And he should not be married if he needs porn to get him off. Gross.
2007-01-04 19:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Not silly. Women do that too. But I do think to invite her in once in a while could be fun. Do a fast forward and then stop the tape...whatever scene it lands on, that's what she and you do. Tip: Don't make the movie "101 Blow Jobs"
2007-01-04 19:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by sammiejane67 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i don't have a problem with my husband looking at porn but to masturbate and look at porn is a bit much i mean what am i there for to produce the children as for doing any of that with the kids in the next room is sick ............
2007-01-04 19:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by christina c 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋