I'm not the player type of anything, shoot, i'm not even that good looking. I really like the girl that is from far away from me, but we can't get married or anything for another 2 years (because of school), and I started hanging out with this chick here in my area that i recently met and now she's my girlfriend. None of the girls knows about the other girl, and I feel really wrong. The girl here I was just kinda just dating for fun, but now she got a little serious and I'm not the type to break her heart or anything, is there any way i could kinda break up with her without hurting her bad. What i have been doing is trying to avoid contact with her a lot, and making myself seem more busy that i really am, and only seeing her when its convinient for me, thinking that this might get to her and she will get mad and want to break it off with me, but its not really working. I know i'm not going to marry this girl here, but should i just keep her around?? fyi, both girls are super hot!
2007-01-04 11:12:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your actually thinking of getting married to the long distance girl, start practicing by being faithful to her. if you tell the LD girl, and shes cool with it then go ahead, but i think anything else just leads to a lot of mistrust.
hope this helps
~Resa~
2007-01-04 11:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious what you should do. Make a choice. Make it right. Maybe even let the long distant girl know that you have been seeing someone for fun, and if she agrees than hanging out and going on dates could be harmless.
2007-01-04 11:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by olivia m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 20:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being avoided is very hurtful and it often makes girls wonder what they did wrong or what's wrong with them. Be a man and tell the girl that you don't want to be with her. By avoiding her and only seeing her at your convenience you're being a coward and a little boy. Decide what you want to do with her and do it, either be with her or not.
2007-01-04 11:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by JC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg kid, i would fuckinng kill you. i live in florida, here for school, and my boyfriend lives at home, winnipeg manitoba (canada) AND we can't get married for two years as well, im just here for the free ride for school. IF MY boyfriend had a girlfriend jus to pass the time, it would absolutly break my heart. thats awful, think of how hurt she would be really. and i know, its not like it hasn't crossed my mind, someone to spend time with while your apart, a close friend, BUT really kiss your girlfriend goodbye if your gona **** around on her. she deserves to know. dont be such a dick lol who cares if the new ones hot, who do you love. and if you say to yourself i love the one i want to marry, then tkae that back because you dont want to marry her, your with another girl and LIEING about ittt. she doenst even know shes the victom, the poor girl. BOTh of them
2007-01-04 11:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dump both.
Long distance doesn't work 99.999999999999999999% of the time and you don't want to be with the girl near you in the long term.
Tally up the experience points and find one who is better for you than either girl.
2007-01-04 11:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be a man and tell it to her straight. don't lead her on. that's a coward's way. if she was looking for a long term relationship with you and you're not feeling the same way then let her know. let her choose whether to stay in this relationship or not.
2007-01-04 11:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must make a decision --- you got yourself in this trouble you now have to get yourself out --- i think you will probably lose both ladies --- because you must be honest with both and tell them what is happening --- if you dont how do you expect a long term relationship based on trust???
2007-01-04 11:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are two options. 1. Just say that you were never serious about the relationship 2. procrastinate, let it get worse, and maybe they will kill you and you won't have to worry about it.
2007-01-04 11:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by ringhloth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell both the girls that you only want to be friends. let them know that you want to focus on school more, this then gives you the option to date whomever you choose!
2007-01-04 11:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Graham 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋