Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

My g/f told me on new years eve that she was dating my friend. She thinks I am mad, but I would rather her be happy. I am fine with them but she thinks if she talks to me it will upset me to see her with my friend.

Should I be more upset??

2007-01-04 11:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Friends

i love.love.love. my boyfriend sooooooo much...but we're about 5 years apart! his dad HATES me with a passion...so me and him were on the phone last nite [about 2:30 am.] and his dad walks into his room and sees that hes on the phone....so now he can only talk to his family members on his cell phone for a month!!!! im gonna freakin dieeee....=[
my parents dont like the fact that we like eachother either...my mom says he doesnt even like me bcuz wen were in public we try to act like friends bcuz his parents are around-so my mom sees him acting like my friend....not my boyfriend
and idk....im just really confused
i love him with all my heart and nothin will EVER change that....but nobody thinks that its right...u know-me and him going out....=[
i love him...alot
plzzzzz help
i need it....and i need it badddddd
thx.

2007-01-04 11:32:45 · 11 answers · asked by lindseyy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 49 divorced and i find it hard to trust men, he left me after 23 years. I have a lot of love to give, but don't want to get hurt again. my kids are grown and i don't want to die alone. I realy have trouble with trust issue. When a man looks at me all i can think of is want does he want, will he hurt me and then leave me.I don't know what to do.

2007-01-04 11:32:34 · 12 answers · asked by carpathian3030 6 in Singles & Dating

A cople of days ago I broke up with my 14 year old boyfriend, because he was a drinker. and called me a *****. My friend's older brother is tight friends with him and my OTHER ex ( whom wont talk to me what so ever) and he is having a party at his house. Since my friend lives with him and is having this all boy party, that means both my ex's will be there. My friend calls me saying she wants me to come over so she wont be the only girl there..with a cople of other friends of ours.

Thing is I'm so nervous around the both of them. And I don't know what todo. i want to be there for my friend. But just how do i act around them...

please help!

2007-01-04 11:32:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

recently i asked the question of whether or not i should make a move. Now i'm asking wether i should even bother. Story goes like this. Been dating chick for only 3 weeks and she just recently got divorced. We have been having a great time with each other but no physical contact;i.e. no kissing or sex. she says shes very apprehensive. Regardless, we talked or texed almost everyday. after last date she was very anxious to get together again. That was last week and i havent heard from her since sunday, 12/31 in the afternoon. she wrote me the other day and said she left phone over her friends house. She said she still is very much interested in hanging out but still isnt ready for any kind of physical activity. So i wrote her back and gave her my phone number so she would have it and said to please contact me cause i'm confused as to our status of what she considers us. friends or potentially more. should i jst forget her or continue waiting for her to even call?

2007-01-04 11:31:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your roommate/best friend asks the stupidest questions all time to you because she (and she admits this) doesn't feel like thinking, because she's too lazy.?

2007-01-04 11:30:58 · 11 answers · asked by kristonianinstitution 4 in Friends

i have five more months to be with my boyfriend, then i will be returning to my mother country. i wish to spend most of the time with him, so after i go i won't regret. but no matter how hard i try to spend time, he either sleepy, or he either have to work for his dad. barely have time for me. Two nights, he cried to me for me to stay, and don't go. But what is the sense if i stay and he can't spend time with me. i'm always here for him, and i am always welcome him to visit me. when he is in trouble, i am always got his back. but when times to me, he didn't back me up, he didn't want spend as much time with me... i wonder, how he will feel after i left him and go back to my country. can you guys tell me? thanks

2007-01-04 11:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate how girls are always complaining when guys don't do something. It annoys the crap out of us, and girls wonder why we leave them all the time......

2007-01-04 11:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do girls do when they like guys?
There is this girl I like a LOT and she sort of seems to like me (smiling,laughing, once I caught her staring lol, talking (obviously)
The only problem is that even though I'm friends with her her friends hate me so I can't sit with her at lunch. I used to be able to talk to her when my mom came and picked me up, as her mom did to, but my mom got a job and now I have to walk home. She sits right in front of me in reading class, but I can't talk to her because her friends are there. Reading is the only class we both have, and I can't figure out how to talk to her and I can't determine if she likes me or not. What should I do?

2007-01-04 11:29:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

cus i sure like giving them

2007-01-04 11:29:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The only difference is men admit they're dogs, and
women blame men for everything.
AM I RIGHT? I'M RIGHT AREN'T I? YOU KNOW I AM!

2007-01-04 11:29:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have hardly any friends at school. I'm not hated, i just dont talk to people at all becuase i dont know what to say. My only friends are 3 people i've known since kindergarden. I'm really social around them because it just comes natural talking to them, But around people that aren't them (even people I know well) it's hard for me to talk to them .Since I dont talk to people at school i'm unpopular,well more like unknown. One of my friends who has tons of friends and is like by everyone is positive if i just talked more everyone would love me. My other friend who doesnt go to my school is convinced im popular and doesnt really believe me when i say i dont have friends at school.


Is it possiable for me to talk to random people and for it to come as easy as when im talk to my best friends?

2007-01-04 11:29:46 · 3 answers · asked by ducttape3243 1 in Friends

I don't know what to say, we have said, done horrible things to each other, yet i still love this jerk, i cant see anyone else in my arms. I strayed because he was so very abusive to me, and now i see that wasnt my right, maybe i should have just stayed and been trying harder to work on our relationship. How do i convey this when were drug testing each other, and fighting over custody. He Sexually attacked me when he was drunk ( saying that he still wanted a divorce but wanted to end up together) and i called the police, now i am wanting the same thing, to be divorced but still end up together. i feel as if the only way to do this is throw myself upon his mercy, i know it sounds crazy but i am a girl in love, and i am done being mad, selfish, bitter and petty. how do i explain Myself, after having to go to court and tell them how horrible he is, but secretly still love him, is this crazy. I would rather be punished by him for the rest of my life, than someone ELSE spoling me rotten 4ev

2007-01-04 11:29:40 · 8 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if a man lucks up and finds that one woman that can do every thing that his heart desires, he still manages to hookup with someone else. WHY??????

2007-01-04 11:29:05 · 15 answers · asked by alive4mine 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 8 months pregnant and my husband left last month. He now lives around the corner but i really want to stop answering the phone to him, but if i do that he will come to my door. How do i get rid of him? He is not a threath i just need him to leave me alone! I want noting to do with him, pregnant or not!

2007-01-04 11:28:39 · 20 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

if no than how come they cant become presidents?

2007-01-04 11:28:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife, who i havent really caught on a lie in four years we have been married, told me that she wanted to go visit her old folks and that her mom already paid for the airplane tickets. One day after she left, i found out that she used my debit card to pay for the tickets and that the times she was suppoused to arrive and depart were different from the ones she said and not only that but that she bought the tickets a few hours before she was suppoused to leave. Even we have talked on the phone while she is still there, she hasnt said a word about it. Then i look back to a couple of issues or situations that could have been dangerous for a relationship and i get suspicius where i believed her truly innocent.

2007-01-04 11:27:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 11:27:35 · 21 answers · asked by janice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i want my crush to come with his bestfriend and invite me to come with them to my crush's bestfriend's grandma's house. I imagine of my self knowing what My crush & his bestfriends doing.... & they know what im doing. like they have a tracker thing a they cane see what im doing.... well today i imagined that Joseph & and anthony( my crush a his best friend) walking to anthony's house and joseph saying (while looking at the tracker) that he knows i like him and that he will come to my house with anthony and invites me to come to his grandm's house. witch is like my naighbor. Well i say yes... and when we get inside his grndma's joseph asked if i would take a seat on the couch. i say yes... then we talk and then joseph gets in closer to me and then starts maken_out with me.... so why amm i like this... i know i want to make-out with the guy but i dont know why im imagineing that i know that joseph and anthony are spying on me soo why?Do you know?

2007-01-04 11:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by Ladywoman 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 11:26:37 · 8 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont knoe what to do! i get a call this morning finding out my best best friend died! Her parents do know how big this morning she was found in her bed under the blanket dead..

last night i talked To her and she was sad/Mad/Crying/Pissed bc i told her that i only like her as a friend!! bc she told me she loved me soo i told her lastnight that i only like her as a friend and she took it hard she was like "well the only reason i got this close to you is to be with you" and i told her im sorry but Im Only gonna be ur friend okay.. and she hung up on me and would answer next morning i find out shes dead!!!!!!!!!!!!

So Now I Feel Its My Fault She Died I Dunno If She Just dide or if she killed her self but she was like a lil sister to me i loved her like family now i feel like i killed her!!!!!!!!! And her parents were soo sad crying when they called it was like i was lying to them as if i murder her and acted like i didnt do anything but i didnt want this to happen i didnt mean it

2007-01-04 11:26:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy who loves this girl, this girl is his bestfriend. He has always been there for her and always loved her yet she sees him as a buddy. Everyday he rides the bus just so he can be with her. She is his fire, lights his world up for him and when shes close keeps him warm. this guy tells her that he loves her, she always finds a reason for him not to love her. When they are together she makes him feel like he is the greatest person alive makes him feel like he has a purpose, but then when others are around he is invisible. Then one day reality punches him in the face, he realizes she never cared about him, it didnt occur to her once how he felt, he was never good enough for her. Even though he has always been there for her, she has never let him help her. My Question: Is this guy trying to hard or is she being too stuck up? what are your opinions on this situation?

2007-01-04 11:25:20 · 10 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy but he 17 years old and i'm 13 .Is he too old for me.

2007-01-04 11:25:09 · 21 answers · asked by Tip-a-licious 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this one guy and he likes me too. He asked me out but my best friend likes him too!! I REALLY want to say yes but dont want to hurt her feelings!!!

2007-01-04 11:25:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy says he isn't a player, but others say he is, who do you believe? How do you find out for sure, without stalking the guy?

2007-01-04 11:24:43 · 13 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

i want a really small dog like a poodle that i will love. i would take him everywhere in my juicy bag but if i get one now i wont be able to keep it in 2 years when i am off to dorm in college. i wouldnt want to give it to anyone cause i would be too attached. what do i do?

2007-01-04 11:24:42 · 8 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 11:24:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 11:24:13 · 4 answers · asked by Prav 4 in Friends

My boyfriend's brother came to visit on the 2nd and brought his girlfriend (whom he has only know for about 3 weeks)Neway ever since they have gotten here they have been an inconvience to my family. We allowed them to stay in our 2 year olds room (on the floor) and she slept with us. The living room wasn't an option because my sister and her lil girl was visiting also. And they already had the couch. Last night they began having LOUD PORNORIFIC sex in the room. We could hear it all. The kids were still awake and everything. I yelled into the room for them to lower the noise but they continued on(completely ignored what I said) and then I yelled at them again and they finally stopped. Came out of the room and tried to apologize. Then this morning we wake up to the going at it again but this time louder. Bumping the walls and moaning and screaming. Long story short... I told my man(his bro) to tell them to LEAVE! I was PISSED and talking "stuff" to them.Was I wrong?

2007-01-04 11:24:02 · 19 answers · asked by jerneemomma04 2 in Family

Honestly

2007-01-04 11:23:47 · 11 answers · asked by Shana 2 in Singles & Dating