recently i asked the question of whether or not i should make a move. Now i'm asking wether i should even bother. Story goes like this. Been dating chick for only 3 weeks and she just recently got divorced. We have been having a great time with each other but no physical contact;i.e. no kissing or sex. she says shes very apprehensive. Regardless, we talked or texed almost everyday. after last date she was very anxious to get together again. That was last week and i havent heard from her since sunday, 12/31 in the afternoon. she wrote me the other day and said she left phone over her friends house. She said she still is very much interested in hanging out but still isnt ready for any kind of physical activity. So i wrote her back and gave her my phone number so she would have it and said to please contact me cause i'm confused as to our status of what she considers us. friends or potentially more. should i jst forget her or continue waiting for her to even call?
2007-01-04 11:31:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes not over her ex , play your cards right and she is yours
2007-01-04 11:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only been 3 weeks and she just got divorced give it some time and don't be so ready to jump into a relationship with this woman she may be looking for just a good time. So what is so confusing about that give her some time to get comfortable with her new status (how long was she married for? )Anyway GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE TO WAIT.
2007-01-04 19:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have been hurt by her ex and is reluctant to begin to much of a relationship right now. She may be very cautious about any intimacy with anyone because of what happened with her ex. Give her time and don't push her. Give her space and you be patient. She will come around but in her own due time. If you care about her as you say you do then isn't she worth waiting for?
2007-01-04 19:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're into this woman for a relationship, you're going to have to cool your jets b/c she's not ready and might not be for a while. If you're willing to wait for her, then do that, but if you push her or ask her the where-is-this-relationship-going question, she's just going to retreat further into "apprehension," and you'll never get anywhere.
2007-01-04 19:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI!!
A bit complicated your story, isn't it? Well, I think that you can let her some time ( but not too long!!about 2/3 weeks) to think about it, about your story, her past and above all her future and you'll be fix on it: if she wants you to be the one of her team, she 'll tell you or she'll show signs BUT if it's not that case, just let go and live your life!!!
Hoping you'll be better........
An advice from a french girl BYE
2007-01-04 19:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by mam'zelle Gilardino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just forget about the sex for now and try
to be her friend. When she finds out that you are interested
in her more than her T and A , she'll feel safe enough to
get closer.
2007-01-04 19:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a couple of days.. most women dont want to have a conflict or even a text message if they a re not interested...wait and see......2 maybe 3 days at max
2007-01-04 19:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok granted i fell asleep at we text and sh*t...
Here's the deal... you guys are friends..
Let me hip you to something. chicks like to babble.. they are attention wh*res.
Do not indulge them or else you become "friends" and that is death.
They have three chances to make friends with your pay-ness... after that you are moving on to the next "target".
Trust me on this... dump this chippie and move on. You will be a lot happier.
2007-01-04 19:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it has only been a few days I would wait awhile longer, but don't hold your breath
2007-01-04 19:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her she's messing with your head to much.
2007-01-04 19:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by Chesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋