My boyfriend's brother came to visit on the 2nd and brought his girlfriend (whom he has only know for about 3 weeks)Neway ever since they have gotten here they have been an inconvience to my family. We allowed them to stay in our 2 year olds room (on the floor) and she slept with us. The living room wasn't an option because my sister and her lil girl was visiting also. And they already had the couch. Last night they began having LOUD PORNORIFIC sex in the room. We could hear it all. The kids were still awake and everything. I yelled into the room for them to lower the noise but they continued on(completely ignored what I said) and then I yelled at them again and they finally stopped. Came out of the room and tried to apologize. Then this morning we wake up to the going at it again but this time louder. Bumping the walls and moaning and screaming. Long story short... I told my man(his bro) to tell them to LEAVE! I was PISSED and talking "stuff" to them.Was I wrong?
2007-01-04 11:24:02 · 19 answers · asked by jerneemomma04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You allowed them to go into your house. They are your guests! They should treat you with the upmost respect! And they should get out as fast as they possibly can if they insist on acting like that any further!
2007-01-04 11:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by sherbert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you were not wrong. First they are not showing any respect that they are in your kids room. Your kid plays in that room. Crawls on the floor, etc. I have a 3yr old. i would be PISSED if someone disrepected my childs room. Now on to the part that the kids are up. Your sister is visting with her child also. They are totally being inconsiderate to her as well. If they dont care the world can hear them have sex, they should find a back seat. Sorry for being harsh but the whole sex in the room that a child plays, sleeps and maybe even have a snack in just seems so wrong.
2007-01-04 11:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jo Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong, they are. How very rude to have loud sex in someone elses house especially when there are children around. Why does your boyfriend feel that this is ok? If they want to visit thats ok; but get a hotel room or pitch a tent somewhere.
2007-01-04 11:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you where not wrong. They where wrong for having loud sex when your children where awake. It just rude rude rude and self serving. I would never have sex in while visting a friend. It's just plain rude and disrepectful. He has only known this girl for 3 weeks and he brings her to YOUR house and disrepects everyone there! Tell them to leave and don't come back until he can learn to be repectful.
2007-01-04 12:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were not wrong. They disrespected your home as well the child. They should have known better not to have sex in someone else's home. Next time they visit, ask them to get a hotel.
2007-01-04 12:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex and only known each other for 3 weeks? Wow! What has happened to "ol' skool dating"? Anyway, you did exactly right by asking them to leave. That was totally disrespectful to you and your family.
2007-01-04 12:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by stergre1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've already talked trash, you can't take it back, but you can apologize. I would politely sit down and let them know you enjoyed their company and would love to have them again sometime, but there will have to be boundaries. You have kids for Godssakes! Tell them you have plans and you need to free up your room---this is code for telling them to get out. Then, you never let them stay there again. If they want to visit, tell them to get a hotel room. It would be more private for them anyway!
2007-01-04 11:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you wasent wrong you did the wright thing they should have more respect for evey one in that house the least they could ofdone is waited until you guys were sleep and did it quetly thats what i would of done!!!
2007-01-04 11:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Corey G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its night time use the "properly that is getting overdue, i'm rather drained so i think of i'll head to mattress. it became super seeing you!" excuse. And if its in the process the day on a weekday use the "Oh rattling! completely forgot I had a doctor's appointment, i'll be overdue!"
2016-12-15 15:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You aren't wrong. It's your house. It's time for them to get out until they can start behaving like adults. Talk about inconsiderate.
2007-01-04 11:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by The Pope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋