2007-01-04 11:27:35 · 21 answers · asked by janice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are having an affair with a married man, you are really asking for trouble and disrespecting yourself, him and his wife.
He won't divorce his wife for you - That never happens in real life in spite of what he may have told you. He might have said that he's not in love with her anymore, that they don't sleep together anymore - there are hundreds of ridiculous items he could concoct to justify your affair with him.
The facts are that every marriage has its difficulties, and he might divorce her for other reasons, but not for you, and not for a long time.
2007-01-04 11:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by prusec_int 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he's not going to leave his wife sorry to break it to you even if he's telling you he is and if thats what your waiting for then get smart real quick before you really get yourself hurt or pregnant because you must be sleeping with I dont think theres is any man who would leave his wife for a woman he hasn't had sex with. The best thing you should do is leave this man alone and if he and his wife get divorced let that be between them and if he wants to be with you let him do it the right way.
2007-01-04 19:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by BUTTA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
than u will be the other woman, and what u did to her will eventually come back to u, usually in the same way u hurt her, some other woman will hurt u, go ask my ex's wife, go ask her what she had to endure. even if he does leave her, what will u have, just a man who cheats, and hurts his wife, and will think nothing of doing the same of u. think of his wife, put yourself in her shoes, how would u feel if this were being done to u, in spite of the things u have been told about her and the marriage. if u manage to become his next wife, i pity u, cause a leopard never does change his spots, or so my dad told me.
2007-01-04 19:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy coz he love you more than he love his wife. But a cheater will always a cheater. He will cheat on you too. Love is not forever, just like his love to his wife. He love you today, maybe few years later he love another... No one can guarantee that he will love you forever. Hope you think twice about this kind of man. I never regret leaving a cheater coz cheater is a loser and he always will because to him love is not about faithfull, its only about falling in love and sex.....
2007-01-04 20:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's stupid on his part.if he ask you to marry him,watch out because it won't work.if you were the other woman,who's going to be the other woman when you 2 hook up?
if a person gets divorced ,when they meet someone else it wouldn't matter if they cheat,because they don't consider them married.so they really don't have anything to lose.
you'll find a few people that will be faithful,but not many.
i would have my guard up if he's getting a divorce,because of you.just be careful,.best of luck
2007-01-04 19:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's a BIG IF, huh? Why would he leave his wife if you keep opening your legs for him and giving what he wants? What would be his motivation to leave?
If you can't trust him with his wife, how can you trust him with your life...? What goes around comes around and your turn will be NEXT.. lol
2007-01-04 19:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that concerned (which you should be!!) to ask, you shouldn't be in the relationship. Why don't you actually do the right thing and stop the relationship. Unless you want to be the ***** that broke up a marriage?
2007-01-04 19:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by dancing11freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say, but your a homewrecker. He's scum and I wouldn't continue any relationship with him. If he could leave is wife once, he could do it again.
2007-01-04 19:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to bust your bubble but most married men don't leave. you are just a convenience to him.
if he do leave more than likely he would not stay with you.he will enjoy his freedom and continue seeing not only you but other people. So do your self a favor and stop your self from getting emotionally attach. most of all think of his family (what if you where in her shoes).
2007-01-04 19:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by 2b-nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I TAKE IT YOUR HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH A MARRIED MAN!!!!! your the scum of the earth this is how a n i g g a would act,,,,your low as they are anyway and you should be brought up on charges...your lower than the toe jam in a *** g a s toes,,,,,nasty nasty you,,,,NOW!NEXT QUESTION?????
2007-01-04 19:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋