i am 8 months pregnant and my husband left last month. He now lives around the corner but i really want to stop answering the phone to him, but if i do that he will come to my door. How do i get rid of him? He is not a threath i just need him to leave me alone! I want noting to do with him, pregnant or not!
2007-01-04 11:28:39 · 20 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i just bought this house so i can't move but believe me if i could i would!
2007-01-04 11:34:00 · update #1
He has no business bugging you while you are pregnant, but once your baby is born, he will have visitation rights. Right now, if you do not want to see him, don't answer your door. It's that simple...lock it and ignore him when he comes over. If you don't know who is at the door, don't answer it. Maybe he is worried you won't tell him when you deliver? Tell him to leave you alone and you will call him as soon as your child is born.
2007-01-04 11:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnant or not he is the Father of that child and you laid down just like he did to make that Baby so you have to deal with it. Whay do think becasue you don;t want him that he should be kicked to the dirt like that. You all don't get along well fine, but why hate each other. Be more mature than that. I just caught my wife in a bed with a Man today and I am here to tell you it took everything I could possibly imagine not to shoot that SOB with 357 Magnum.
I got sense, I am a Man and I handled it the best I can with maturity and understanding and right now my wife is God who knows where, but I am cool and always will be;. This is the best time of my life where I can porve how much fo a good Man I can be after going through something like this.
So I say to you, chill and be cool as I, it will all work itself out in the long run and there willbe better days. I'm sorry you are having a bad time, I sympathize with you, I'm in a boat right now myself. I'm actually crying as I type this. cathcing your wife in bed is something that has blown my mind. I'm dealing with it, so you can deal with yours babe. Peace
2007-01-04 19:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to stat with u r not goin 2 get rid off him totally if u r goin 2 have his baby. thats goin to make him b in some part of yor life when the child is born and grows up.but 4 now all u can do i suppose is just b honest with him and tell him 2 leave u alone so u can get on with yor life.
good luck.
2007-01-04 19:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by jafsil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you break your lease and move?
if not maybe you can have a friend pose as your new man and answer the door.
Sadly, there is no way to cut him out of your life for the next 18 years. that is if you want to be fair to your unborn child.
But if you want to talk to him less, tell him you need some money.
That always seems to make men disappear!
2007-01-04 19:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by xxxxxxx b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to be upfront with him and tell him. You didn't want me then, you don't need me now. Don't come to my house, don't call........nothing. If need be, get a restraining order, or call the police. Make sure he pays for child support, and gets the child some good health insurance. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-04 19:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an ax.
I'm kidding, but if he's bothering you and he's the one who left, why would be bother coming around any more? Hopefully you're not giving him a reason to come back...know what I'm saying?
If all else fails, restraining order.
2007-01-04 19:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by kmc_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop answering the phone, file for divorce, if he comes to the door call the cops, after a few times you can get a restraining order
2007-01-04 19:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move, and don't tell him where you are. He only wants to make sure you don't have anyone else even if he does. Go on with your life and let him know that you can get a restraining order on him if he keeps hounding you.
2007-01-04 19:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are upset and tired, maybe it is because of being pregnant. Maybe what you need is to have your husband come home and take care of you. I understand something has happen,but you need to know he will call every minute if you don't answer thinking that you have fainted or something. So have him home and use him as a slave to do the chores.
2007-01-04 19:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lock the gate. Install a peephole. If he is at your door it doesn't mean you have to open it for him. Ignore him and he will go away. If he doesn't, call the police.
2007-01-05 01:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋