help meeee!! im about to dieeee....=[?

Question

i love.love.love. my boyfriend sooooooo much...but we're about 5 years apart! his dad HATES me with a passion...so me and him were on the phone last nite [about 2:30 am.] and his dad walks into his room and sees that hes on the phone....so now he can only talk to his family members on his cell phone for a month!!!! im gonna freakin dieeee....=[
my parents dont like the fact that we like eachother either...my mom says he doesnt even like me bcuz wen were in public we try to act like friends bcuz his parents are around-so my mom sees him acting like my friend....not my boyfriend
and idk....im just really confused
i love him with all my heart and nothin will EVER change that....but nobody thinks that its right...u know-me and him going out....=[
i love him...alot
plzzzzz help
i need it....and i need it badddddd
thx.

my life sucks-even more now....his dad told his mom and his mom said that we can never talk to eachother on his cell phone ever again....and they dont have a house phone...grrrrr!!!! i hate my life even more now....its not that im obsessed-its just that i love him....alot....and i wanna talk and be with him as much as i can...i dunno...maybe i am obsessed...=[

Answer 1

screw what everyone else says or thinks hes obviously into u if he stayed on the phone with u till 2 A.M. just try to sneak calls to him or if ur both still in school spend as much time with him as u can because at least there no parents can bother u..and u said he cant have callz on his cell for a month but u can always text him that is if u guyz have texting or ty talking online, myspace, or email just dont lose touch with him or else ull really start to feel lonly and u dont want that because u love him and u want him to know that u really want to be with him no matter what

Answer 2

Hey calm down hun everything is going to turn out just fine. You didn't mention your ages. This is an age-gap relationship am I correct?

The last thing you want to do in this situation is act desperate, angry. What you need to do is be mature about the situation. Have a talk with your parents calmly, stating your feelings for the boy. Once they see that you can in fact handle a relationship, then they will consider letting you be with him. So please, have a civilized, mature conversation with your parents about the situation.

Not showing affection to you while being in front of his parents is perfectly normal. He's simply not comfortable yet showing affection towards you while his parents or other adults are around. It's going to take time to overcome that, but trust me he won't be like that forever. I wouldn't worry about that too much. It doesn't mean he doesn't care about you; it means that, at the moment, he's just shy around his parents when he's with you.

This, of course, will not change the situation with his parents, but it's one step closer to your solution. Love conquers many things. Once his parents see that you two do in fact care for each other, love each other, and protect each other, then they will let you two be. Take things slow, remain calm, and "civilized, mature" communication with your parents is key. Best of luck to you. Age gap relationships are hard, especially convincing the parents, but if you both as a couple have pure intentions, trust me, everything will work itself out. :)

Answer 3

You have to sort it out with both of your parents. Why does his dad doesnt agree w you? is it because you both are too young, his exma is coming soon, u upset hiim on ur 1st meeting each other or any other reason?
get ur bf to talk it out to his dad too, im sure some compromise and understanding can be gained from it.
You can try to sneak up and call him on he public phone or go msn w him, but it doesnt solve anything..

Answer 4

My friend once has a same trouble with you
he likes his girlfriend just because she's not rich his parents didn't allow it
i know the girl was kind, so when they asked me to help
i do it
in the end
usually it depends on the male
give me your boyfriend email adresss
I promised i will convice him to made his parents accept you

Answer 5

Well you didn't mention your age and his sweetie!!! If you two really feel like this about each other--perhaps you need to let both your parents know how you two truly feel and ask them let you have a chance with each other. It's hard to act like just friends when you have a flame burning like that--communication is everything.

Answer 6

If he isn't man enough to let all the people in the world that he loves you and wants you, even his dad and stand for it , then he doesn't deserve a loving , caring lady like you. Good luck

Answer 7

Hun you can't lose you to be with him. for that month you will have to deal with his not being able to call. you can still see him can't you ? and now you have to go back in time and use snail mail or email shoot use IM-ing with voice chat. calm down and you will think of ways to get together for that one month.

Answer 8

I am sure you can still get emails from him what is he age 10 and your 15 ?

Answer 9

you sound like a twit, grow up

Answer 10

explain. explain to your mom. get IM. get ur bf on. explain to his dad. simple.