I posted already, i ahve to say I am unempolyed at the moment and have no money, but I am looking for someone to get married and start up our life from ZERO, do you think I am doing the right think as I have no girlfirend and no partner at the moment, but i have to say I am very active and ready to take a job anytime for our life.
2007-01-04 11:14:26 · 18 answers · asked by dolphinjoon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you've got not job who is paying for the computer you are on and the telephone line, us taxpayers!!! Get a job you lazy sod.
2007-01-04 11:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by chutney 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm forty five and have a home, money in the Bank and a good job, and single.
Women are nesters, and they look for a provider, for them and any children they may have. Women work too, and the last thing they need or want, is someone else to support
Get a job, save some money, then think about getting married.
If you want to start with someone from zero, you aren't going to get very far.
2007-01-04 11:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely YES!!!! You just have to find someone who is looking for the same things you are. But only because you are 47 and unemployed, it does not mean that you are to stay at home and give up on your dream of starting everything from ZERO!
My friend's grandfather, whom is 67 years of age.. was in the same place you are in. He always wanted to get married after 2 divorces and well at the age of 63, he re-married and is happier than ever. Just go out, get to meet people. Or you could even do it online. My co-worker met her husband on match.com
So yes... don't give up on what you want, and I guarantee that you will have it!!!!!! Yes at times it may seem like it's not possible (as I'm sure you may think so now since you are posting this question) but if you give up, you will not get it... and if you don't give it.. one day you will :-)
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-01-04 11:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by WiseGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the right lady to spend the rest of your life with then you need to be financially ready. You dont want to find a lady now you have nothing to offer besides your love but love doesnt pay the bills. Get yourself a job and make sure you are ready to find love and I wish you best of luck.
2007-01-04 11:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the best way to began a relationship. You would have been better off informing females about your situation once you had a job and had gotten situated for yourself before offering to do something after the fact (get a job because of a relationship)?
2007-01-04 11:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job then and everything else will follow in time, make yourself look like a decent prospect, blimey your 47, i'm single and i am not finding this at all attractive!
2007-01-04 11:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by untanuta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what you want then go for it. I have to say though, maybe if you got a job, it would help you with your search because i can't see many middle aged women risk it with no kind of security. Good luck.
2007-01-04 11:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey 47 not bad at all,lots of people start late,but what you don't want to, do is pick up anyone,just because you single and broke,means you cant be selective,good luck...
2007-01-04 11:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by BOBBIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Priority One; get yourself togeather..
Priority Two; get a job.
Priority Three; put money in the bank.
Once you have met all of the above then you can start
thinking of finding a mate.
2007-01-04 14:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a unemployed worthless should not think of marrying,rather ask for someones sympathy to sex him.best if u can wait for for a lttle longer,no hassel of this.i am sorry if i hurt u
2007-01-08 03:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋