Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

2007-01-03 20:26:03 · 7 answers · asked by email2bj 1 in Singles & Dating

I've suffered with severe social anxiety for over 13 years. This basically ruined my middle school and high school years.
I'm 19 now and have Finally!!! gotten rid of it; But my skills with the ladies stinks for I did not even try to brother with girls for most of my life.
I'm a competitve bodybuilder and most girls I talk to and flirt with are usually to intimidated by my size as well as the tough guy persona I used for many years.
How do I sucessfully get my self into the dating game at such a late age?

2007-01-03 20:24:28 · 7 answers · asked by J-Dog 007 1 in Singles & Dating

I slept with the same guy twice.We don't have much of a relationship and he never calls. Whenever I call him, he promises to *** & see me but he never does. Usually I wuld just forget about a guy like this but I can't seem to do that with him. I've stopped calling him but I can't say I'm not tempted to. Please help, is there a chance for us?

2007-01-03 20:23:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I have a girl friend and we belong to different culture and I have not met her for a long time as we live in diffenrt countries but we two love each other and feel each other a lot. Last week I cheated upon her , something which happend I could not control but latter I confessed before her and asked her for the forgivness , a sceond chance but she wish for punishment and want to break up and I dont wish to . I had never lied to her ever and neither wish too. Can somebody advise the fair solution for us.

Thanks a lot

2007-01-03 20:23:10 · 11 answers · asked by Nites 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at my age(19) i didnt experienced to have a bf or enter into a relationship but i feel happy of bieng single but my friends are always teasing me bec. i am only the one among them who have no bf.thoughts are coming into my mind and one ? is bothering me if is it really necessary that women needs men inorder to survive or to be happy?????wanted GF...hehehe

2007-01-03 20:22:29 · 13 answers · asked by 143 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend, who is a guy, who I like, always talks about how hot famous women are. He even has a 'hit list' of all the celebrity women he would like to tap. This makes me feel terrible how can I cope or live up to this standard? What should I do?

2007-01-03 20:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by JKrazy 1 in Singles & Dating

nothing is going right at the moment... everything is down in the gutter... i dont know what to do to pull myself out... any suggestions?

2007-01-03 20:16:15 · 16 answers · asked by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 in Family

when is the right time for me to have a conversation with her on phone?

2007-01-03 20:15:43 · 3 answers · asked by email2bj 1 in Singles & Dating

I have fallen in love with my best friend. How It happend is when we first met he liked me and then I started. We were too afraid to make moves on each other but we both knew what we had. Now hes it into other girls and I cant move on. I hate the fact the more he pushes me away I want him more. How can I stop these feelings?

2007-01-03 20:14:47 · 15 answers · asked by Dex's Gal 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 20:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by Georgie 5 in Singles & Dating

Partial to a bit of romance.....or do you think it's waste of time?
Personally I love being romantic at times and love it even more when my partner does something romantic.......keeps the fire burning.........

2007-01-03 20:12:42 · 18 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 20:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by siva g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 20:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by siva g 1 in Singles & Dating

one thing..but i feel nothing coming from him like he has no soul...are they masters at faking expressions of love and passion?i have never felt emotions from him...like he's acting.....do they feel those emotions?

2007-01-03 20:09:46 · 6 answers · asked by Happy Summer 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my bf for sum time now and he knows how much i hate livin at home, he knows all about my childhood, things ive not told alot of people, i dont live with my mum, but with my dad, and he knows im unhappy there. i had a miscarriage recently and was very hurt by this, it was unplanned bt i wanted it. recently he has just bought a house with his mate and i dont feel he has any intention of askin me to go and live with him. i just feel so pushed out the way as everything is him and his mate now. and i feel mad cos i shud b with him, not his mate. am i wrong?

2007-01-03 20:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 20:07:20 · 14 answers · asked by eloi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I tell ppl that they find it weird...but I find them soo attractive. Does anyone else feel like that? I'm a Mexican-American (in case anyone wants to know) Well just wondering!

2007-01-03 20:02:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you worked within a company where you had been having sexual relations with an employee who was older than you and colleagues found out about it. Then you got a new job in a different area of the company but found out that that person had been telling old colleagues that I was lying and we didn't have sex and spreading rumours what would you do? I feel like although I am not at the company at present I still am getting a bad name, the thing is I still have feelings for her that I can't seem to shift no matter how people warn me off of her. Feel like i'm going mad worrying about what other people think

2007-01-03 20:02:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is your gut feeling always right?
i get a bad felling and everytime i get it i am always right and i got another really bad felling and dont wana be right i just hope it is not true. if im right ill really hurt i dont what to do.

2007-01-03 20:00:14 · 9 answers · asked by goth_666_him 1 in Singles & Dating

Except for the first two months we quarrel almost every week.Either she complains about me or my parent or my sister although we live in a foreign country,my parents live in my home country and my sister is living in another country with her own family.They never interfere in my married life which my wife doesn't believe.I really tried a lot to make her understand that there is no conspiracy going on and no body in interfering.From the beginning she had the tendency to complain every single details of our conjugal life to her parents and now her parents just hate me and my family.It's a family problem now and every now and then me and my parents have to hear that we did this or that which are totally baseless.If I ask her to give ONE example how my parents and sister interfered my family,she can't answer.Instead,she says "do you think I am a lier??"I tried a lot but she didn't understand.I think a divorce is inevitable.I can't bear the pains and I don't know how to move forward. Help!!

2007-01-03 19:58:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

offers to hold a woman's purse on the first date?

2007-01-03 19:54:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-03 19:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by dev 2 in Friends

i have a friend an he gets jeolous if a boy starts playing with me but me an him dont go out i asked him if he liked me he says yes but he dosent want to go out im too confused help please an thank you

2007-01-03 19:53:40 · 6 answers · asked by i_make _it_rainakapatrickschica 1 in Friends

we had been argueing a lot of the time, blaming each other for how we felt. we simply could not get on. so i made the decision to end it. almost as soon as i had done this, he became more loving, seemed to make an effort to be nicer to me, and when i started to respond to this, he pulled away again. playing me. obviously. so it`s over. but why, when it was ME who ended it, hav i just been awake all night, and in floods of tears this morning? why cant i stop thinking about him, all of a sudden? feel so much anger, and yes, HATE!!!!! god help me. feel like i`m goin mad. hurts so much...

2007-01-03 19:50:20 · 22 answers · asked by splee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what exactly is an enhanced disclosure. Everytime I apply for a job I am told that I will be required to provide an enhanced disclosure.

Could someone please tell me what this is?

2007-01-03 19:50:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I currently reside in Japan with my husband and two children. I believe my husband is choosing life in the streets over us. I feel as if I'm being held hostage b/c I'm in need of 3000.00 just to purchase tickets to go back to the states. I don't have family and to be honest I can't rely on friends. Where should I begin? How will I live, what transportation, what should I do? I have little money saved. I asked him if he wanted me to stay or go but he cant answer.I cant change him but I've told him I'm not going through what I went through last year with him going out every weekend all weekend. Married men just dont do that.I'm to understand that clubs dont start until 1am and the train dont run until 5amI could see if it were a special occassion but its not. He claims he has a lot to deal with. I'm so confused!

2007-01-03 19:49:59 · 2 answers · asked by Jerry S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like one guy, who do not even know me. what should I do? Go and tell him? but I can't...

2007-01-03 19:47:27 · 4 answers · asked by Shaxlosh 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-03 19:46:38 · 7 answers · asked by Blue Light 1 in Singles & Dating

Watch this 23 second video and tell me...

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2007-01-03 19:45:35 · 6 answers · asked by Blue Light 1 in Friends

I got married because I needed a cook..

2007-01-03 19:45:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce