2007-01-03 20:07:20 · 14 answers · asked by eloi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
make a decision to move forward without repeating old mistakes. just take it one day at a time by fulfilling small goals.
2007-01-03 20:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop living in the past. The past is gone and there is nothing you can do to change it. The only thing you can do is to look forward to a clean slate and start over again. It is a new year and the perfect time to say goodbye to your past and hello to a new year to start all over. Today is a new day and you can start fresh. We can only live one day at a time. Make this your new mantra.....today is a new day in my life and I will live this day to the best of my ability. When it is over I will not look back but look forward to the next new day and focus on living it.
2007-01-04 08:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What helped me.. was making a list of all the "bad" things about my past... the memories that haunted me... for example: when I was pregnant, my ex-husband told me if I did not have an abortion he would file for divorce... I refused to murder my baby and left him... for years I hated him for the way he had treated me during my pregnancy and during our relationship... I didn't want to continue to waste my energy on hating him, he isn't worth an ounce of my emotions and negative emotions cause so much harm to an individual... so I had to find the positive in this situation.. which for me was... I have a beautiful son who is my LIFE and I will NEVER regret choosing my baby instead of my ex-husband.. ALSO I only wasted FOUR YEARS on that man.. instead of a lifetime... also the best revenge... is to be happy... :) ~~ Good Luck~Princess~
2007-01-04 04:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the past is catching up on you in the present!!.....What is it in the past that is haunting you now? What reason is there for you not to deal with it? In what ways are you not able to let go of it? What is holding you back?You need to face them or they would show up even in the future...sounds to me like you are afraid to talk about it. Perhaps you should see a counsellor or speak to someone you are close to and can narrate to...good luck!
2007-01-04 05:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start by leaving the past behind...Try living in the present, for the moment...Living in the past is harmful and dangerous.
2007-01-04 05:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by iunona_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your past is part of your life. it will be with you no matter what. however, it should not influence how you deal with your present. if you let your past affect you, you can never move on. take a lesson from your past, learn from it, but let it go. it's history. it can no longer be changed no matter how much you want to. concentrate on your present, your NOW.
2007-01-04 04:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from the past and plan for the future.
2007-01-04 04:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can. but dont get obsess with it. the past is just an experience and now you know whats right whats wrong, take it as a guideline so you will not do the same mistakes again.
2007-01-04 04:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not start your life if you are still holding your fast you have to let go forgive and forget then that is the only time you can start your new life.
2007-01-04 06:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by lina i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive things and forget what is not so important. Take down the walls and try to make everyday a new one.
2007-01-04 04:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋