Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

2007-01-03 19:42:47 · 17 answers · asked by @beer 1 in Friends

Someone posted a similar question. I think it's quite funny how different people think. Why do people need to confuse themselves with one word?.......Some think that going out on a date with someone means, you are bf and gf. Isn't 'a date' a trial to see if you are compatible with a person? That's why you call it 'date' and not 'relationship'? So if it doesn't work out, you can continue dating other people till you find the right person, right? So what's this 'exclusive' or 'not exclusive'? (It's just a new word for making things clear to avoid misunderstandings coz people aren't sure what 'a date or dates' means) It's hilarious! Don't you think?

2007-01-03 19:41:58 · 5 answers · asked by Cookie 2 in Singles & Dating

Thinking about it maturely, if two people really love each other (don't say a 15 year old doesn't know love because it's not that simple), would it be ok for them to be dating. And they aren't having sex yet, the guy is dead set on the answer no too, he is not trying to get with her like that. The guy is 19 but honorable and more worried about the age difference because he thinks he will be taking advantage of her. He is not the kind of guy who would but he still feels like he isn't doing the right thing. The 15 year old is a girl who is sort of neurotic and clingy. Both are on the same maturity level and of relatively the same intelligence. They have know each other a very long time and are very close friends too.

2007-01-03 19:40:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this hot girl at a coffee shop I go to, but she is working. The best way to approach her is what???

2007-01-03 19:39:06 · 11 answers · asked by Joe G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 19:38:52 · 12 answers · asked by jupiter_ooi 2 in Friends

we been toghether for 5 yrs we have a 2yr. old daughter and im pregnant again im like 6 mon. but it seems like he doesnt love me we cant even be in the same room i just walk in and he gets up and leaves or he always want one of his friends their and they stay around all day one of his friends told me that he always asking him to drive him around and when he does leave he leaves for hours he says hes just going to the store he takes about 8 hr without even calling me when he get home he doesnt even want me to get near him and the weird thing is that its been more than 10 days without having sex and that he doesnt even get near me or even try's to. when i do bring up the cheating part he says its all non-sense that im fu***** stupid and thats why hes never here that im a dumb bi***. i just want somebody to give me good advice

2007-01-03 19:37:25 · 13 answers · asked by ladianawhcali 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

maybe not a question...but just something that will spark a conversation...I'm on the phone with him right now, and have absolutely nothing to talk about...HELP!!!???

2007-01-03 19:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by ~*Mrs.Madrox*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my best friend r vry close to each other.but now she has a boyfrnd and i dnt like when she spends most of her time with her and avoids me or hardly have any time for me...recently i asked to leave our friendship and she easily agreed...its hurting me al hell lot. .

2007-01-03 19:32:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-03 19:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 19:31:22 · 13 answers · asked by paul t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

much more commonsence n life skils then u? lifes 2 short 2 be so had 2 get along with. u obviously understand the questions so why *****? dose it make u feel big bullying people with a learning disability or dose it saddly just make u feel validated throgh being cleaver at 1 thing n just having to brag about it???

2007-01-03 19:30:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last year (2006) i almost got married to this girl coz she said she was pregnant and even pretended to be, but luckily for me i found out she was a no good loser who just wants to get married coz she's growing old and is running out of time. anyways, the experience was pretty nasty and my family was put on the defensive.
now, by some lucky stroke, i met the most wonderful girl you can imagine, just perfect for me, and i swear that i really love her, not the lust-love i had for the other girls i went out with...and i want to marry her. i'm known and approved by her side of the family but i just need some advise on how to breach the subject to my sisters and parents. thanks guys

2007-01-03 19:28:26 · 12 answers · asked by Moyo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this girl before uni broke up she had just broke up with her bf of three years. We only had like a couple of weeks before xmas hols and saw each other everyday but she said we should jus be friends now even after sleeping together.

She sleeps with her ex when she was back home but now tells me she realises she only wants me.

What you think I should do?

2007-01-03 19:28:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or does he think I'm just yucky?

It's just that one time we and a lot of people went out of town. There were shortages of beds in the place where we're spending our night. Some guys and girls slept on sleepings bags on the floor inside a common room.

I was lucky enough to sleep on a bed ine one of the very few girls' room. Then one of the organizers of the event told this guy that he doesn't have to sleep on the floor in the common room for this second night coz he could sleep on the bed. He knows this bed is inside the girls' room. he was happy with that one but when he found out, he'll be sleeping beside me, he was like , 'WHAT? WHY HER? UM, NO, I'LL JUST SLEEP ON THE FLOOR IN THE COMMON ROOM."

the next day, my girlfriend told me not to be offended about it coz he was probably just being a gentleman.

I'm wondering, was he expecting a guy to sleep beside him so he was like 'no way' when he found out about me?

Or does he think i'm unattractive?

2007-01-03 19:27:13 · 20 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 19:26:42 · 28 answers · asked by veer 1 in Singles & Dating

This loved one was a very influencial person,like their Mother? Especially when they have lost 6 loved ones this past year?

2007-01-03 19:26:05 · 11 answers · asked by kathy v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you think??
From my girlfriend....to some dude I don't know--


" Hey there...fun night? we're not doing too good at this huh....

I do appreciate the shout out....I;m assuming you either 1) never got my email or 2) were feeling pretty lucky. Its cool, if you're trying to get me killed I guess :). Actually, since I never heard from you I turned my phone off last night-I would have enjoyed late night drunk Greg!.....if I;d been alone.

Actually feeling guilty again today though - sorry I am weak. More that I hit on this off-the-market guy on a daily basis.

Good luck studying. And tonight - yes I'm alone if your phone works"


Thoughts?? Which lines are the most alarming

2007-01-03 19:24:23 · 15 answers · asked by joe d 1 in Singles & Dating

some guys say its a girls smile.
or the way they laugh.


but for YOU
what is it that makes you reallyyy like a girl.

2007-01-03 19:23:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to do this even do I dont have to ,So I can fight for my divorce .Is that possible?

2007-01-03 19:23:20 · 1 answers · asked by kika 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend whose wife calls him "Alfie"

2007-01-03 19:22:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was visiting my gf of 5 yrs this week and I noticed she left her email open so I peaked into her sent emails. I know this was wrong, but this was the message I found. It was from her to some guy named Greg on Dec 10th.

" Hey there...fun night? we're not doing too good at this huh....

I do appreciate the shout out....I;m assuming you either 1) never got my email or 2) were feeling pretty lucky. Its cool, if you're trying to get me killed I guess :). Actually, since I never heard from you I turned my phone off last night-I would have enjoyed late night drunk Greg!.....if I;d been alone.

Actually feeling guilty again tofay though - sorry I am weak. More that I hit on this off-the-market guy on a daily basis.

Good luck studying. And tonight - yes I'm alone if your phone works"

I asked her and she said he is a friend who lives out of town who she got flirty with. She said it was nothing but got too intense and she ended the friendship. She said nothing physical happened

2007-01-03 19:21:46 · 11 answers · asked by joe d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm bored and dont know what to do... Any ideas?

2007-01-03 19:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was visiting my gf of 5 yrs this week and I noticed she left her email open so I peaked into her sent emails. I know this was wrong, but this was the message I found. It was from her to some guy named Greg on Dec 10th.

" Hey there...fun night? we're not doing too good at this huh....

I do appreciate the shout out....I;m assuming you either 1) never got my email or 2) were feeling pretty lucky. Its cool, if you're trying to get me killed I guess :). Actually, since I never heard from you I turned my phone off last night-I would have enjoyed late night drunk Greg!.....if I;d been alone.

Actually feeling guilty again tofay though - sorry I am weak. More that I hit on this off-the-market guy on a daily basis.

Good luck studying. And tonight - yes I'm alone if your phone works"

Ok I confronted her and she said he is a friend who lives out of town who she got flirty with. She said it got too intense and she ended the friendship. She said nothing physical happened???

2007-01-03 19:18:34 · 8 answers · asked by joe d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21, and I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. He's older than me, and has a lot more sexual experience. I'm the 11th person he's slept with... and he's the only one I've EVER slept with! I love him a lot, and I can see myself being with him forever, but I can't stop thinking about this! He gets upset when I try to talk about it. I don't want to break up with him and become a ho... but I don't know how to stop obsessing!

What should I do?

2007-01-03 19:18:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's gonna be 57 and I really have no idea what gift he would like. I would like to get him something he could really use. He doesn't have hobbies or stuff like that. Any ideas?

2007-01-03 19:17:21 · 13 answers · asked by souR_JaNe 1 in Family

I don't know, but being at the age i am now of 21 the older i'm starting to get the more respect i'm losing for females around my age in general. By respect I mean that, while it seems like i'm sort of maturing, bettering myself, going to school, etc as time goes by they seem to be dumbing down and degrading themselves even more. The way they dress is ridiculous, it's one thing to do it when you're in you're in your teens but it's less and less "cute as i'm getting older and more just like a ridiculous cry for attention. And have you ever tried to talk to some of them, they're incapable of an intelligent conversation, they don't have much of a clue as to anything going on in the world, have a low vocab, and don't even seem to care about anyone else but themselves. All i'm saying is that it's impossible to FIND A LADY now a days. A LADY can be sexy as well as smart, not like msot of these bimbos running around. Too many girls wanting to be Britney Spears and Lidnsey Lohan, pathetic.

2007-01-03 19:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by ev 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bride (Girlfriend) for 18 months now, and she have decided to forget our relationship because some of our family members didn’t approve it. But at the same time our parent support us 100%, but some of the family members are opposed and the problem is that in our culture we need the approval of at lease 80% of the family but we didn’t have even 35%. And 75% of the family wants her married to her cousin.

Forgetting this story we love each other very very much but we don’t know what to do and how, because we don’t want to go out of our culture and tradition and we need the whole family support.

And other problem is that we didn’t even leave in the same country, she leave in the USA and I leave in AFRICA but came from the same country.

My question is what would I do to make them understand?

2007-01-03 19:15:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 19:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Saffa_Boy_83 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about called every single day, so much that you just got to the point that you hung up as soon as she said "hi"! Then calls years later to say she's sorry for that &explains that she's a different person now...??

2007-01-03 19:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will admit that I complain, mostly about personality flaws. But I don’t say anything behind there back, which I would not say to them personally. Thus entering my question. I enjoy watching others argue, and in my personal discoveries I have learned that people complain about politics, family/friends, and their JOBS. We all think we have it SO hard. What I have to say is to look at your job, and to every one other than yourself. Teachers for example(not all) complain endlessly, that they have it so difficult, agreeing that holding the attention of kids from 5-18 year olds is not an easy task, and yes because it was from beginning a "woman’s job" it is underpaid right from the start. But enjoy your 6-HOUR office days, and your two and a half month break. But after a few years you will have a lesson plan and it gets easier. Back breakers you work hard, but your not fileing and paying back Harvard. And office work, your not busting your *** (physically). (short version)

2007-01-03 19:13:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends