I currently reside in Japan with my husband and two children. I believe my husband is choosing life in the streets over us. I feel as if I'm being held hostage b/c I'm in need of 3000.00 just to purchase tickets to go back to the states. I don't have family and to be honest I can't rely on friends. Where should I begin? How will I live, what transportation, what should I do? I have little money saved. I asked him if he wanted me to stay or go but he cant answer.I cant change him but I've told him I'm not going through what I went through last year with him going out every weekend all weekend. Married men just dont do that.I'm to understand that clubs dont start until 1am and the train dont run until 5amI could see if it were a special occassion but its not. He claims he has a lot to deal with. I'm so confused!
2007-01-03 19:49:59 · 2 answers · asked by Jerry S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to get him to go to counseling with you and work this out... I don't know what is available there in Japan, but this is what you need to do. With two children you can't run away, you've got to be an adult.
2007-01-04 00:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the point is u need money to go backand u donthave it right now .
is that what u r looking for ?
then its better u start saving small amounts every now and then untill u have enough to buy ur ticket and leave for good . that will give u freedom and space to start all over again .
2007-01-04 05:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋