Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

me and this guy i'm dating i spent the night with him a few days ago.....we had sex and when we were done he was laying there and said......u moan too much.....and started mocking me.....and i told him fine....then i won't do it at all and he got quiet and then said no your not.....i don't know if he was complimenting me or complaining.....

2007-01-03 08:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is making me move out ot the house because I got really drunk on New Years and was yelling at her from the other room....

This is what happened to me about a year ago when she got hammered (copy of email):

I love you so much. I don’t like to see you unhappy or in pain or upset. I am so sorry that I bit you. I really didn’t mean to; I don’t know why I react the way I do, esp. towards someone who I care so much about. I didn’t sleep a wink hardly last night, because I felt so bad for you. I hope that it heals fast. I would be upset if roles where reversed, but I hope you can really forgive me because I don’t want this or anything to ruin our relationship. I just have to stop being dumb. Well, I wanted to tell you how I felt. I will see you after work and if you want, I’ll go to the gym with you after school. xo "

I forgave so why is she being so difficult, perhaps I should have ran...

2007-01-03 08:26:04 · 5 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm shy, nervous very nervous. Because it was very valuable. How do I go to them and tell them the truth? What do I say?

2007-01-03 08:25:16 · 18 answers · asked by TRM 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like her, and told her many times; yet I keep getting the same answer, "just friends, no dating, no relationship" yet she dates other friends. yet when I try to move on, ignore her, just do the basic cordial but just "hello & goodbye", her body language tells otherwise. After a while, she tries to reach out, get talkative. I gave the cold shoulder for quite sometime now. No dinners, no long phone talks, etc. Recently she saw me twice in social settings with another woman; I could tell it was a blow. I see her at least three times a week in a work setting. Yet every time I bring it up, I get rejected. Should I move on for good?

2007-01-03 08:24:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in 9th grade and I have a crush on this 11th grader. i really like him but I'm super shy I don't know what to say to him when I see him. I end up leaving the room! I want him to notice me and at least try to become friends. He doesn't seem like the typical teen guy he's polite and nice and different from other guys

2007-01-03 08:24:19 · 28 answers · asked by minireb123 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it eyes, hair, smile, personality, legs, other parts? I want to know the truth. Please tell me what you first notice about a woman who is also in that age range.

2007-01-03 08:24:13 · 23 answers · asked by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

The word i believe describes something to do with intimacy or love between two people

2007-01-03 08:23:44 · 23 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

2007-01-03 08:23:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Our relationship is starting to come to a stand still and I want to spice up our love life...any ideas?

2007-01-03 08:22:48 · 12 answers · asked by LaRae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My family is saying i have to have all that because they help dduring the wedding to give the rings, to help with the rope, etc etc To me its pointless because i have no friends that i would want in my wedding, neither does he, it would be my cousins as bridesmaids and i dont feel theyve been with me through any time during this relationship neither have they wanted to. My mother however feels im excluding them. What do i do.

2007-01-03 08:22:48 · 27 answers · asked by noones 1 in Weddings

My wife is a good gal, but she suffers from OCD Obsessive compulsive disorder and in recent years alcohol abuse. She hurts me by putting me down in front of her familly and friends. I do everything for her. I clean, cook, work, take care of her familly. And maintain her with designer jewlery and all material goods. She constantly compares me with other guys, with me being inferior. Most of the time she blames me for anything that goes wrong. She always has bad wishes towards my familly including children. I try so hard to make her happy. Sometimes with all the disapointment and receiveing constant verbal abuse through-out the night, I get to a point where I react. I am so ashamed, I know its wrong. I wish that I can go back in time and undo it. I hate myself. Leaving her will only hurt her as she has grown so dependant on me. She is like a child, my child. But we are both so misrable. She regrets marrying me. What do I do I want things to work out.

2007-01-03 08:22:32 · 8 answers · asked by Mikey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 08:22:24 · 20 answers · asked by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i got pregnant after a month of knowing each other. we moved in together and had our baby. the problem is we disagree about everything. we are very different. i like to go out he likes to stay home. im optimistic hes pessimistic. i stay at home with the baby. he accuses me of cheating with people on myspace all the time. he has trust issues from a previous relationship. he hardly helps me with the house or the baby. i dont ask much just do dinner dishes. under different circumstances i would not have been with him. we never really had the chance to get to know each other and now that we have we really dont like each other. we love each other but the spark is gone and im losing the desire to make things work. i also feel stuck because i dont have money of my own.even if i wanted to leave i cant. is there any hope for us to regain the love we once had for each other or should we go our seperate ways and raise our son apart. i dont want to argue anymore.

2007-01-03 08:21:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay there is this guy who i have had the pleasure of hanging out with for two weeks. When he would talk i would listen to every word he had to say, I really liked him alot we had so much in common, i didnt know if he had any attraction towards me but i screwed up by getting two drunk, he was the main person to take care of me. I ruined things now hes turned off and i cant get over him and now hes talking to some other girl. Is there any way to get his interest again?????????

2007-01-03 08:20:02 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Lady 1 in Friends

time! That was about 2 years ago. Make a long story short, at the beginning I wasnt sure and I wanted to leave him. But then I realised how much I cared and Ive been faithful ever since. I couldnt live with the guilt, so I recently told him the truth. He was very upset but he told me that he would not penalize me for something that happened when we were not serious. He said he would of never found out, and me telling him the truth on my own shows him how I am. Everything is back to normal and Im greatful, I thank god everyday. Did I do the right thing? and does this make me a bad person?for even though he has long gone forgiven me I still feel shallow and unworthy...can i let this go?

2007-01-03 08:19:59 · 18 answers · asked by pink_starlet84 1 in Singles & Dating

Divorced after 9 years of an unhappy marriage with two children out of the relationship. Met a girl 1 year after my divorce and we have been together and been together for almost 2 years. Now after we have gotten established she all of a sudden hates my two young daughters from my other relationship. I treat my GF like a princess and get a bunch of grief and heartache from her. Maybe death as we all know it is better then this thing we all call life. With what we call death I won’t have to worry about dealing everyday stresses that we all have to put up with. What do you do when you get tired? Go to a counselor and have them try to persuade you that living is better then passing away or trying to put you on medicine to hide the fact that I just don’t fu@kn belong here? Are there any good girl left? I am a good man, father and companion. I have had bad luck w/grls. Too many girls complain that they don’t or can’t find a good man, but they never come my way. Is life really worth living?

2007-01-03 08:19:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother has run off to spain with her lover. She is bleeding my dad dry, (he is letting her, still loves her) She has started phoning him, and me, drunk, and verbally abusive, she said i should not talk to him. He did not do anything but pamper her all her life, 47 yrs, he is too soft, now he is paying. I am going mad here, i do not answer the phone to her anymore, so she leaves abusive messages. When i call on dad, every day, he is so stressed out, cause she is saying he has to give her everything, gonna take him for every penny, im scared he`ll have a heart attack, he is 69. I HATE my mother, she abused me all my life, my brother is at the end of his tether, he gets no where near the crap i am dealing with, i have a lovely life now, this is spoiling it, but i cannot ignore my dad, i love him, and worry so much. I think this will end in tragedy, any tips, to make dad see sense? He won`t go for councelling, it is all getting far too much for all of us, yet she still rings, abusive.

2007-01-03 08:19:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you regret about your past relationships and what have you learned from them? And did you apply what you learned? Did you change yourself in any way?

2007-01-03 08:18:38 · 29 answers · asked by Jim Z 2 in Singles & Dating

I have only been in 1 serious relationship which lasted for about 3 1/2 years and now I am in my second relationship. We have been together for a 1 year now and I don't know why when I we start getting serious and I fall in love I automatically think about having a baby. But I know I can't right now because Im in school and we are not financially stable yet but I don't know why I dream of having his child. But this is wierd!!!....when my period is late I panic and get scared and don't want to have one all of a sudden! If I want a baby with him then why do I get scared when my period is late. We even use protection and I get scared.
But I know ya'll are going to trip off of this....I just want to be pregnant but I dont want to go through the stage of giving birth. But I do want a child. lol

2007-01-03 08:18:35 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf said he didnt wanna come to ours as he wasnt feelin too good. but i went past his and he was laffin wi his mates on the drive, looked ok to me. Next time he said he was playin footy and didnt have time to ring me though i noticed him on here just wasting time givin silly answers. what should i do. do i trust him or do i confront him.

2007-01-03 08:18:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 08:18:08 · 7 answers · asked by azaan 2 in Family

2007-01-03 08:17:44 · 14 answers · asked by azaan 2 in Family

2007-01-03 08:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 08:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by goldygirl2 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 08:16:46 · 3 answers · asked by Love United 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I tell the girl I have had 6 dates with over the past 2 months, that I want to be friends only, that I am NOT romantically attracted to her, and I don't want to be her boyfriend anymore, but I would be willing to be a friend if she wanted. Do I do this on the phone, in person, or by email ?

2007-01-03 08:16:29 · 16 answers · asked by JustPeachy !!! 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 08:16:24 · 32 answers · asked by locknkey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him. before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad about us joking about it. Today I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all. What do you think he's thinking?

2007-01-03 08:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

did you get married and live happily ever after?


sadly, my own one married someone else..

ah well, you can't win them all! :~)

2007-01-03 08:16:09 · 30 answers · asked by andylefty 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 08:16:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce