Tell me some good ideas for getting more intimate with my husband?

Question

Our relationship is starting to come to a stand still and I want to spice up our love life...any ideas?

Answer 1

Try doing things you've never done before. If there's something he's always wanted you to do or try and you've always said no, now would be the time to surprise him and try it! That would definitely spice it up. Tell him what you would like him to do to make you feel more pleasured and satisfied. Sometimes men just need to be told what it is exactly that makes you feel good. Listen to him. Ask him, what would he like you to do that would totally drive him nuts. Tell him the same thing. Don't be too shy or feel awkward to talk. Sometimes married couples go through years and years of unhappiness, because they won't just tell their spouse what it is that would spice it up for them. The fact that you care enough to try harder shows you love him and he will be so surprised, that he will race home to be with you.

Answer 2

Go out on a date, have a nice dinner for two at home, take a shower or bath together, give each other a massage, watch a good movie together at home, wear a favorite dress that he likes, be suggestive.

One thing, if the relationship is good outside of the sheets, it will be good between the sheets. Make sure that you all have a good relationship and that it is not just based on a physical thing.

Answer 3

Well I don't know about the other stuff but I started putting some Stimulin (herbs for enhanced stamina...and up the sex drive) in every meal and snack I make for my husband. He doesn't know it.hehehehehe but sometimes a girl has got to do what a girl has got to do. They come in tablets and I crush them with a spoon. Mix it in soup, pasta whatever. I even mash it and place it on top of a burger undre the cheese. Just make sure the cheese is melted. Twice now in two days. I'm working up to three times a day. yeah baby.

Answer 4

1) Vacation with him 2) Pick a new place in the house to do it 3) Do it outside 4) Write him an erotic letter about a fantasy you have 5) Do it in the bathroom during a party. 6) Try 5 new positions 7) Shave (if you don't now)

Answer 5

While sexy lingerie is the best idea, do something spontanious in a controled environment. For instance, one day when he gets out of the shower just be wearing a very small g-string and thats about it. Take control. More women need to take control. If a man doesn't get turned on by his wife in a tiny g-string see if his eye is wandering towards the male persuasion.

Answer 6

May I make a recommendation before you concentrate on spicing up your love life? Take the time to read "The proper care and feeding of husbands" and "The proper care and feeding of marriage" These books are by Dr Laura Schlesinger. I have read the first one and it has changed my feelings about marriage. The latter only came out yesterday. Enjoy

Answer 7

After reading the books that one of the people answered before me, try talking to your husband. Talking and maybe cooking together, yes, together, can be enough. Most likely, if he hasn't said that he wants to see you in lingerie, he doesn't need to. He's your husband. He's seen it. Spontinaety is good too. Try giving him a back rub, and kiss him on the back of the neck after a while.

Answer 8

Pay someone to come in and watch you two be intimate...I charge $75 an hour.

Answer 9

Ok here you go
1. one night is only oral sex
2. one night he pleases you
3. next night you only please him
4. use your breast to get him off
5. try one night as pron night (follow along to a movie and act it out and try the positions they do and even the endings, like the c-mshots).
6. a wet hot hj as you kneel between his legs (use hot oils and make him last longer and longer)

Answer 10

do something that he fantasized about
like dressed up all kinky
or toys
etc
those things usually get things going