My girlfriend is making me move out ot the house because I got really drunk on New Years and was yelling at her from the other room....
This is what happened to me about a year ago when she got hammered (copy of email):
I love you so much. I don’t like to see you unhappy or in pain or upset. I am so sorry that I bit you. I really didn’t mean to; I don’t know why I react the way I do, esp. towards someone who I care so much about. I didn’t sleep a wink hardly last night, because I felt so bad for you. I hope that it heals fast. I would be upset if roles where reversed, but I hope you can really forgive me because I don’t want this or anything to ruin our relationship. I just have to stop being dumb. Well, I wanted to tell you how I felt. I will see you after work and if you want, I’ll go to the gym with you after school. xo "
I forgave so why is she being so difficult, perhaps I should have ran...
2007-01-03 08:26:04 · 5 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not whether it's fair or not. It's whether this is a relationship that's worth maintaining. Don't keep the score of how many wrongs you each have done. It's a weak relationship if you do that. Instead, talk this out and if she means a lot to you, offer a solution to prevent this in the future. Maybe make a commitment on how much you will drink or that if you drink too much, you're staying over at your buddy's house (although that has it's own problems). Think of something and be willing to make sacrifices. On the other hand, you need to figure out whether she would make sacrifices like that for you. If this is a one way relationship, you need to get out of it ASAP.
Talk like adults, make a decision to not keep the score and decide whether both of you would be willing to give something up to keep the relationship going, and if not, it's time to bail.
Good luck, bud.
2007-01-03 08:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by yishor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should bring up this event that happened last new year's to her. It may make her understand a little bit more of the situation. It just takes communication on both of your parts. Sometimes when we are really angry, we make decisions that are not rational. And maybe she is ready for you to move out, but she figures this is the easiest way for her to do it. In the end, you two may separate, but it is best to do it good terms. I hope this helps and good luck.
2007-01-03 16:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Meuy V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just move out. She sounds like a drama queen to me. sorry...it slipped out.
But she'll realize that she was wrong to kick you out and come crawling back...then you get to turn the tables on her and make her suffer like you did
2007-01-03 16:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i like to bite during sex maybe that is her issue or she could just be ******* crazy
2007-01-03 16:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lara M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two are just weird...
2007-01-03 16:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by sashaNY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋