Okay there is this guy who i have had the pleasure of hanging out with for two weeks. When he would talk i would listen to every word he had to say, I really liked him alot we had so much in common, i didnt know if he had any attraction towards me but i screwed up by getting two drunk, he was the main person to take care of me. I ruined things now hes turned off and i cant get over him and now hes talking to some other girl. Is there any way to get his interest again?????????
2007-01-03 08:20:02 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be perfectly honest those that desert us after seeing us at our weakest moments don't deserve a second thought. If you really care for him though, I would say go up to him and tell him that you've thought about it and just wanted him to know what a great friend he was that night you got trashed, let him know you realize it changed things, but that if he ever needs you you're there for him. You have to leave it at that, because frankly men never want the things that are easiest for them to get.
2007-01-03 08:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Seg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, their is...
Just apologies for being too drunk, and promise him that you wont drink ever again, and mean it (if that was the reason why he was turned off by you) and just spill your heart out to him! he might probably still has same feeling for you, take your chance, and don't live your life as what if! plus he might be just talking to a other girl, because he is confused... or just needs some help or advice. Try talking with him, and don't not give up on him, if you really love him!
2007-01-03 08:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Life and time, we are given on earth is amazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem. Whenever I'm really down, I will become obsessed with something and daydream about it. I think it's just a way to cope with whatever is going on in your life, and think of something more positive.
2016-05-22 23:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it was you getting drunk that turn him off, he probably was not interested in you in the first place. He probably just looked at you as a friend except it and be happy for him your prince charming is out there somewhere.
2007-01-03 08:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Bronz Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you screwed up that bad, and he is not willing to forget, perhaps you should just try to move on as he has.
Leave him alone, maybe he will get a hint and hit you up at a later time.
2007-01-03 08:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish a girl would be obsessive with me maybe you should just find someone knew i wouldnt care if you got too drunk write me if you want to chat
2007-01-03 08:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not an alcoholic and you would like another chance.
2007-01-03 08:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by Diamondbch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTLY probably not. It seems like he has moved on and you need to do like wise.
2007-01-03 08:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u really feel bout himn maybe he'll change his feelings towards u....
2007-01-03 08:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by blue eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. just get over him and find someone better for you, who truly cherishes you.
2007-01-03 08:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by identityquiet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋