A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him. before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad about us joking about it. Today I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all. What do you think he's thinking?
2007-01-03 08:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the important question is not what he's thinking the important question is why do you care. he obviously is not concerned w/ your feelings or he would have acknowleged the letter (which by the way was not a smart decision on your part, not trying to be mean just saying). so the best thing for you to do is to move on.
2007-01-03 08:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Love United 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be fairly conflicted about this yourself and I think this conflict is showing up in how your communicating with him. First, you say your crushing on him. Then you say you just want to be friends. It seems he went with you both times. Then, you both joke about hooking up and it annoys you, so you write him a letter. At this point, the guy doesn't know what / how or even if he should talk to you. Also, there may be a little too much "talk" of feelings here - the letter may have been perceived as over-kill to him. Well, then again, he may not have got your letter either or as got it, but doesn't want to read it. Who knows. Good luck to you.
2007-01-03 16:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's thinking you're being a typical girl and over-analyzing everything. Guys just don't want to be bothered with that many emotions - theirs or yours. I have an 18 year old son and a 20 year old daughter. We've talked about this exact thing. My son gets really annoyed with my daughter for thinking too much. She constantly asks him the question (about her boyfriend) you asked and he just rolls his eyes at her. You're obsessing . . . and getting on his nerves with it. Stop. Cut it out. Go do something productive.
2007-01-03 16:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by hfantozz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be all of 12 years old. Guys are not into notes/letters like girls are. Back off and leave him alone. You don't need to "figure out what's going on in his head." Sounds like you're trying to keep something going that he recognizes isn't there and he's moved on. Drop it.
2007-01-03 16:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on what the letter said.
2007-01-03 16:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerBot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably serious about hooking up guys joke around when there nervous or uncomfortable
2007-01-03 16:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that your mean or maybe u broke his heart
2007-01-03 16:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by babygurl23hot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋